Okuqukethwe
😉 Ukubingelela kubafundi bami abavamile nabasha! Bangane, kungani imikhuba emihle idingeka esikhathini sethu? Ake sizame ukukuqonda.
Kuyini ukuziphatha okuhle
Ukuziphatha kahle kuyizisekelo zokuziphatha komuntu okhuliswe kahle emphakathini. Indlela yokusebenzelana nabanye abantu, esetshenziswa ekuboniseni inkulumo, iphimbo, iphimbo, ukuhambahamba, ukushukuma komzimba kanye nesimo sobuso. Konke lokhu kubizwa ngemikhuba.
Enhliziyweni yakho konke ukuziphatha okuhle ukukhathalela ukuthi umuntu akagxambukeli kumuntu. Ukuze bonke bazizwe bejabule ndawonye. Kufanele sikwazi ukungagxambukeli. Ungacabangi ukuthi ukuziphatha okuhle kuwukukha phezulu. Ngokuziphatha kwakho, uveza ingqikithi yakho.
"Yonke into kufanele ibe yinhle kumuntu: ubuso, izingubo, umphefumulo nemicabango" AP Chekhov
Akukona imikhuba eminingi okudingeka uyihlakulele kuwena, kodwa lokho okuvezwa kuyo. Lesi yisimo sengqondo sokuhlonipha umhlaba, emphakathini, emvelweni, ezilwaneni nasezinyonini. Akudingekile ukuba ubambe ngekhanda amakhulu emithetho, kodwa khumbula into eyodwa – isidingo sokuhlonipha abantu abaseduze kwakho.
“Ukuziphatha kufanele kube okuncomekayo, kodwa kungabi yinqaba. Imicabango kufanele ibe ecashile, kodwa ingabi mincane. Umlingiswa kufanele alinganisele, kodwa angabi nesifiso esibuthakathaka. Imikhuba kufanele iziphathe kahle, kodwa ingabi nenhlese. “
IzAga
- Ukuziphatha okuhle kuyize.
- Inhlonipho ivula yonke iminyango.
- Ungaziphakamisi, ungalulazi abanye.
- Izwi elihle kumuntu yilelo mvula yesomiso.
- Ukunemba - inhlonipho yamakhosi.
- Ukukhothama, ikhanda ngeke linqamuke.
- Izwi elihle futhi limnandi ekati.
- Ukuthula okunomusa kungcono kunokukhononda.
- Gcina ulimi lwakho entanjeni.
Wothanda umakhelwane wakho njengalokhu uzithanda wena
Umthetho wokuqala nobaluleke kakhulu wokuziphatha komphakathi inhlonipho, umusa, nokucabangela abanye. Lo mthetho awushintshi neze.
Umthombo walo mthetho yiBhayibheli: “Wothanda umakhelwane wakho njengalokhu uzithanda wena.” Ukwazi indlela yokuziphatha kahle kuyingxenye nje yokuba nemikhuba emihle. Ukuzenza yikho okubalulekile.
Enye yezimiso eziyisisekelo zokuphila kwanamuhla ukugcinwa kobudlelwane obujwayelekile phakathi kwabantu. Ukulwela ukugwema izingxabano. Kodwa ekuphileni ngokuvamile kufanele sibhekane nokudelela, ukhahlo, ukungahloniphi ubuntu bomunye umuntu.
Umphakathi ubulokhu ukwazisa futhi usakwazisa isizotha kanye nokuzithiba komuntu. Ikhono lokulawula izenzo zakho. Khulumisana ngokucophelela nangobuhlakani nabanye abantu.
Imikhuba ibhekwa njengemikhuba emibi:
- khuluma ngokuzwakalayo, ngaphandle kokungabaza ngamazwi;
- i-swagger ekushukumeni nasekuziphatheni;
- ubudlabha ezingutsheni;
- ukudelela, okubonakala ngenzondo esobala kwabanye;
- ukungakwazi ukuvimbela ukucasuka kwakho;
- ukuhlambalaza ngamabomu isithunzi sabantu abaseduze;
- ukungacunuli;
- inhlamba;
- ubudlwangudlwangu.
"Ayikho into ebiza imali ephansi kangaka noma ebonga ngaphezu kokuhlonipha." Nsuku zonke sixhumana nenqwaba yabantu futhi isizotha ngeke kusilimaze kulokhu. Umuntu ophumelelayo unesizotha kunoma yisiphi isimo.
Futhi uma ungazi ukuthi imikhuba emihle iyini, lokho kuyimbangela yokukhathazeka. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umatasa kangakanani noma uthwele kanzima kangakanani, kusadingeka ukhumbule imikhuba emihle.
Imikhuba emihle
- ungabonisi ilukuluku elidlulele;
- Nikeza abantu izincomo ezifanele;
- gcina izwi lakho;
- gcina izimfihlo;
- ungaphakamisi izwi lakho;
- ukwazi ukuxolisa;
- ningafungi;
- ubambe umnyango phambi kwabantu;
- phendula imibuzo;
- bonga abakwenzela khona;
- phathani izihambi;
- landela imithetho yokuziphatha etafuleni;
- ungathathi ucezu lokugcina lwekhekhe;
- lapho uvalelisa izivakashi, ziphelezele ziye emnyango;
- ube nesizotha, uhlonipheke, futhi ube nosizo;
- ningaphithizeli emgqeni.
Kungani kudingeka imikhuba emihle (ividiyo)
Bangane, shiyani imibono yenu esihlokweni esithi “Kungani kunemikhuba emihle emphakathini”. 🙂 Yabelana ngalolu lwazi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Siyabonga!