Impilo yonke. Amakhono Abalulekile Okufeza Izinjongo Zakho (Canfield, Hewitt, Hansen)

abstract

Kukangaki, ngemva kokuqala into eyodwa, uye waphazanyiswa okuthile okuthakazelisayo noma okulula, futhi ngenxa yalokho, wakushiya? Kukangaki uzitshela ukuthi uzophuma emsebenzini ngo-7 sharp uyoqabula indodana noma indodakazi yakho ngaphambi kokuba iyolala, bese uzisole ngokuthi awusebenzi nakulesi sikhathi? Futhi zingaki izinyanga ozibambe ngaphambi kokusebenzisa yonke imali ebekelwe ukukhokha efulethini?

Ngokuvamile imbangela yokwehluleka kuwukuntula ukugxilisa ingqondo, okungukuthi, ukungakwazi ukugxila nokugcina ukugxila emgomweni.

Kubhalwe inqwaba yamaphepha ngokubaluleka kokubeka imigomo. Ababhali bale ncwadi baqhubekela phambili ngesinyathelo esisodwa—bangakusiza ukufeza umgomo wakho… umkhuba! Khona-ke, kusukela emsebenzini onzima, "ukugxila emgomweni" kuzoshintsha kube isenzo esijwayelekile, esingenzeka futhi esivamile, futhi umphumela ngeke uphuze ukufika.

Futhi endleleni, uzofunda ngamandla emikhuba yethu, uqonde indlela yokuhlakulela imikhuba emihle emisha futhi uyisebenzise ukuthuthukisa umsebenzi hhayi kuphela, kodwa nokuphila komuntu siqu.

Kusuka kumlingani wohlelo lwesiRashiya

Ngiyasithanda lesi sicaphuno esivela kumqeqeshi we-baseball ophumelelayo, u-Yogi Berra: “Ngokwembono, awukho umehluko phakathi kwethiyori nokwenza. Kodwa ekusebenzeni, kukhona. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi ngenkathi ufunda le ncwadi uzothola into ongakaze uyizwe noma ucabange ngayo - umbono oyimfihlo mayelana nokuzuza impumelelo.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ekuqeqeshweni kwami ​​ekutholeni imiphumela engavamile kokubili izinkampani kanye nabantu ngabanye eminyakeni eyisithupha edlule, ngiye ngaphawula ukuthi izimiso eziningi zendlela yokuba «nempilo, ukujabula, nokuceba» zaziwa kakhulu kubantu. Ozakwethu enkampanini yeBusiness Relations abaneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-20 yesipiliyoni sokuqeqesha nabo bayaliqinisekisa leli qiniso.

Pho, kungani bembalwa kangaka abantu “abanempilo, abajabulayo nabacebile”? Ngamunye wethu angazibuza lo mbuzo: "Kungani kungekho empilweni yami lokho engiphupha ngakho, engikufunayo ngempela?". Futhi kungaba nezimpendulo eziningi kuwo ngendlela othanda ngayo. Elami lifushane ngendlela emangalisayo: «Ngoba kulula!».

Ukungabi nemigomo ecacile, ukudla noma yini nje, ukuchitha isikhathi sokungcebeleka ubukele i-TV, ukucasuka nokuthukuthelela obathandayo KULULA kunokuphuma uyogijima njalo ekuseni, njalo kusihlwa uzibikele ngezigaba zephrojekthi yomsebenzi futhi uqinise ukufaneleka kwakho izimo zokungezwani ekhaya.

Kodwa uma ungafuni izindlela ezilula futhi uzimisele ngokuyisa impilo yakho ezingeni elisha, le ncwadi ingeyakho!

Kimina, kusebenze njengesisusa esinamandla ukusuka emibonweni yasetiyetha kuya esenzweni. Into ebalulekile eyayidingeka kulokhu kwakuwukwethembeka. Kumayelana nokuvuma ukuthi ngazi okuningi, kodwa angenzi okuningi.

Esinye isici sale ncwadi umuzwa wokuthi inika umfundi ikhasi nekhasi: ukukhanya, ugqozi nokholo lokuthi konke kuzohamba kahle.

Futhi njengoba uqala ukufunda, khumbula: “Emcabangweni, awukho umehluko phakathi kwethiyori nokwenza. Kodwa ekusebenzeni, kukhona. Ababhali abagcinanga nje ukwenza imisebenzi ekupheleni kwesahluko ngasinye.

Ngikufisela impumelelo enkulu!

UMaksim Žurilo, umqeqeshi Business Relations

Jack

Kothisha bami, abangitshele cishe yonke into ngamandla enjongo:

Clement Stone, Billy Sharp, Lacey Hall, Bob Resnick, Martha Crampton, Jack Gibb, Ken Blanchard, Nathaniel Branden, Stuart Emery, Tim Piering, Tracey Goss, Marshall Thurber, Russell Bishop, Bob Proctor, Bernhard Dormann, Mark Victor Hansen, Les Hewitt, Lee Pewlos, Doug Kruschka, Martin Rutta, Michael Gerber, Armand Bitton, Marty Glenn noRon Scolastico.

Mark

U-Elizabeth noMelanie: ikusasa lisezandleni ezinhle.

Forest

UFran, uJennifer kanye no-Andrew: uyinjongo yempilo yami.

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Kungani le ncwadi idingeka

Mfundi othandekayo (noma mfundi wangomuso, uma ungakanqumi ukuthi uzoyithatha le ncwadi)!

Ucwaningo lwethu lwakamuva lubonisa ukuthi osomabhizinisi namuhla babhekene nezinkinga ezintathu eziyinhloko: ukuntuleka kwesikhathi, imali, nesifiso sokuzwana emsebenzini kanye nobudlelwano bomuntu siqu (bomndeni).

Kwabaningi, isigqi sesimanje sokuphila siyashesha kakhulu. Ebhizinisini, abantu abalinganiselayo baya ngokuya bedingeka, abakwazi "ukuvutha" futhi bangabi yizigqila zokusebenza ezingenaso isikhathi somndeni, abangane kanye nezindawo eziphakeme kakhulu zokuphila.

Ingabe ujwayelene nesimo "sokushiswa emsebenzini"?

Uma kunjalo, le ncwadi iklanyelwe ukukusiza, noma ngabe uyi-CEO, iPhini Likamongameli, Umphathi, Umphathi, Umdayisi, Usomabhizinisi, Umxhumanisi, Umsebenzi Wangasese noma Ihhovisi Lasekhaya.

Sithembisa ukuthi ukufunda nokusebenzisa kancane kancane lokho esikhuluma ngakho encwadini yethu kuzokuvumela ukuthi uthuthukise kakhulu imiphumela yomsebenzi wakho wamanje futhi ufeze izinjongo zakho ebhizinisini, empilweni yomuntu siqu kanye nasezimalini. Sizokukhombisa ukuthi ungagxila kanjani emandleni akho futhi ujabulele impilo enempilo, ejabulisayo futhi evumelanayo.

Imibono ekule ncwadi isisize kakade thina nezinkulungwane zamaklayenti ethu. Isipiliyoni sethu sebhizinisi esihlanganyelwe, esitholwe ngezindleko zamaphutha amaningi kanye nokulwela ukwenza kahle, sesineminyaka engama-79 siqhubeka. Ngaphandle kokukuhlukumeza ngemibono engacacile nokucabanga, sizokwabelana nawe ngokutholakele okubaluleke kakhulu futhi ngaleyo ndlela sikusize ugweme izinkinga, ukucindezeleka, wonge isikhathi nomzamo wezinto ezinkulu.

Indlela yokuthola okuningi encwadini

Kufanele sixwayise abazingeli ngefomula ebabazekayo “ngokuyalwa yi-pike, ngentando yami”: ayikho kule ncwadi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, konke okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu kubonisa ukuthi ifomula enjalo ayikho emthethweni. Ukushintsha kube ngcono kudinga umzamo wangempela. Yingakho abantu abangaphezu kuka-90% abebehambele izingqungquthela ezimfishane bengaluzwanga ushintsho ezimpilweni zabo. Abazange babe naso isikhathi sokusebenzisa abakufundayo ekusebenzeni - amarekhodi avela kumasemina ahlala eqoqa uthuli emashalofini ...

Inhloso yethu enkulu ukukukhuthaza ukuthi uthathe isinyathelo ngokushesha ngencwadi yethu. Kuzoba lula ukufunda.

Esahlukweni ngasinye, uzokwaziswa ngamasu namaqhinga amaningi, «ahlanjululwe» ngezindaba ezihlekisayo nezifundisayo. Izahluko ezintathu zokuqala zibeka isisekelo sencwadi. Ngamunye olandelayo unikeza isethi ethile yamasu okwenza umkhuba othile ozokusiza ukuthi ugxile emgomweni, wenze ngempumelelo kakhulu futhi ujabulele ukuphila okwanelisayo. Ekupheleni kwesahluko ngasinye kunomhlahlandlela osebenzayo wokukusiza ukuthi uqonde kangcono indaba. Ithathe isinyathelo ngesinyathelo — vumela le ncwadi ibe usizo oluthembekile kuwe, ongaphendukela kulo noma kunini.

Kuyasiza ukuba nencwajana yokubhalela nepeni eduze ukuze ukwazi ukubhala phansi ngokushesha imibono ethakazelisayo engena ekhanda lakho njengoba ufunda.

Khumbula: konke kumayelana nenhloso. Kungenxa yokuthi "ukugxila" okungalungile ukuthi abantu abaningi bachitha impilo yabo yobungcweti neyomuntu siqu emzabalazweni oqhubekayo. Bangahlehlisa izinto kuze kube kamuva noma bazivumele ukuthi baphazamiseke kalula. Unethuba lokungabi. Ake siqale!

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Uma ungumqondisi wenkampani futhi uhlela ukukhulisa ibhizinisi lakho ngokushesha eminyakeni embalwa ezayo, thenga isisebenzi sakho ngasinye ikhophi yencwadi yethu. Amandla avela emzamweni ohlanganyelwe wokusebenzisa izindlela zethu azokuvumela ukuthi ufinyelele umgomo wakho ngokushesha kakhulu kunalokho obukulindele.

Isu #1: Ikusasa lakho lincike emikhubeni yakho

Ukholwa noma ungakholwa, ukuphila akulona nje uchungechunge lwezenzakalo ezingahleliwe. Kuyindaba yokukhetha izenzo ezithile esimweni esithile. Ekugcineni, ukukhetha kwakho kwansuku zonke okunquma ukuthi uzophila ikhulu leminyaka ubumpofu noma ukuchuma, izifo noma impilo, ukungajabuli noma injabulo. Ukuzikhethela kungokwakho, ngakho khetha ngokuhlakanipha.

Ukukhetha kwenza isisekelo semikhuba yakho. Futhi bona, badlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu kulokho okuzokwenzeka kuwe esikhathini esizayo. Sikhuluma ngemikhuba yokusebenza kanye nemikhuba yakho yomuntu siqu. Encwadini uzothola amasu asebenza emsebenzini nasekhaya, asebenza ngokulinganayo kwabesilisa nabesifazane. Umsebenzi wakho ukuzifunda futhi uzikhethele ezifanele kakhulu.

Lesi sahluko sihlanganisa zonke izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ngemikhuba. Okokuqala, ichaza indlela asebenza ngayo. Khona-ke uzofunda indlela yokubona umkhuba omubi futhi uwushintshe. Futhi ekugcineni, sizokunikeza i-«Successful Habit Formula» — indlela elula ongashintsha ngayo imikhuba emibi ibe emihle.

Abantu Abaphumelelayo Banemikhuba Ephumelelayo

Indlela Imikhuba Esebenza Ngayo

Uyini umkhuba? Kalula nje, lesi isenzo osenza kaningi kangangokuthi uze uyeke ukusiqaphela. Ngamanye amazwi, iphethini yokuziphatha oyiphindaphinda ngokuzenzakalelayo.

Isibonelo, uma ufunda ukushayela imoto nge-transmission manual, izifundo ezimbalwa zokuqala zivame ukuthakazelisa kuwe. Enye yezinselele zakho ezinkulu ukufunda indlela yokuvumelanisa i-clutch yakho nama-gas pedals ukuze ukunyakaza kushelele. Uma ukhulula i-clutch ngokushesha kakhulu, imoto izomisa. Uma udlula igesi ngaphandle kokukhulula i-clutch, injini izobhonga, kodwa ngeke unyakaze. Ngezinye izikhathi imoto igxumela emgwaqeni njengekhangaru bese iqhwanda futhi kuyilapho umshayeli we-rookie ezamazama amaphedali. Nokho, kancane kancane amagiya aqala ukuhamba kahle, futhi uyeke ukucabanga ngawo.

Les: Sonke singabantwana bomkhuba. Nsuku zonke ngidlula amarobhothi ayisishiyagalolunye lapho ngisuka ehhovisi. Ngokuvamile, lapho ngifika ekhaya, angikhumbuli ukuthi ukukhanya kwakukuphi, njengokungathi ngiquleka lapho ngishayela. Ngingakhohlwa kalula ukuthi umkami ungicela ukuba ngidlule ndawana thize lapho ngiya ekhaya, ngoba “ngizihlelele” ukuthi ngishayele ekhaya ngendlela efanayo njalo ebusuku.

Kodwa umuntu angakwazi "ukuhlela kabusha" ngokwakhe nganoma yisiphi isikhathi afuna ngaso. Ake sithi ufuna ukuzimela ngokwezimali. Mhlawumbe kufanele ucabange kabusha imikhuba yakho mayelana nokwenza imali? Ingabe uziqeqeshele ukonga njalo okungenani u-10% womholo wakho? Igama eliyinhloko lapha lithi «njalo». Ngamanye amazwi, njalo ngenyanga. Inyanga ngayinye iwumkhuba omuhle. Abantu abaningi bayamosha uma kuza ekongeni imali. Laba bantu bayaguquguquka.

Ake sithi usuqale uhlelo lokonga nokutshala imali. Ezinyangeni eziyisithupha zokuqala, njengoba kuhleliwe, ngenkuthalo bekela eceleni u-10% weholo lakho. Bese kwenzeka okuthile. Isibonelo, uthatha le mali uye eholidini, uzithembise ukuthi uzoyibuyisela ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezizayo. Vele, akukho lutho oluvela kulezi zinhloso ezinhle, futhi uhlelo lwakho lokuzimela ngokwezimali luyazinza ngaphambi kokuthi luqale ngempela.

Kodwa-ke, uyazi ukuthi kulula kangakanani ukuvikeleka ngokwezimali? Uma kusukela eminyakeni engu-18 wonga ikhulu lamadola njalo ngenyanga ngo-10% ngonyaka, lapho uneminyaka engu-65 uyobe usunemali engaphezu kuka-$1! Likhona ithemba noma uqala ku-100, nakuba kuzomele wonge isamba esikhulu.

Le nqubo ibizwa ngokuthi inqubomgomo yokungakhethi futhi isho ukuthi unikela nsuku zonke ekudaleni ikusasa eliqhakazile lezezimali. Yilokhu okuhlukanisa abantu abanekusasa elinjalo kulabo abangenalo.

Ake sibheke esinye isimo. Uma kubalulekile ukuthi uzigcine usesimweni, kufanele uzivocavoce kathathu ngesonto. Inqubomgomo ethi "akukho okuhlukile" kulokhu kusho ukuthi uzokwenza kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani, ngoba imiphumela yesikhathi eside ibalulekile kuwe.

«Abaduni» bayeka ngemva kwamasonto noma izinyanga ezimbalwa. Ngokuvamile banezincazelo eziyinkulungwane zalokhu. Uma ufuna ukuhluka esixukwini futhi uphile impilo yakho, qonda ukuthi imikhuba yakho inquma ikusasa lakho.

Indlela eya empumelelweni ayilona uhambo olumnandi. Ukuze uzuze okuthile, udinga ukuba nenhloso, ukuqondisa, umfutho nsuku zonke.

Imikhuba inquma izinga lempilo yakho

Namuhla, abantu abaningi bacabanga ngendlela yabo yokuphila. Ungase uzwe: "Ngifuna impilo engcono" noma "Ngifuna ukwenza impilo yami ibe lula." Kubonakala sengathi inhlalakahle yezinto ezibonakalayo ayanele ukuze uthole injabulo. Ukuceba ngempela akukhona nje kuphela ukuba nenkululeko yezimali, kodwa ukuba nabangane ezithakazelisayo, impilo enhle, nokuphila okulinganiselayo kochwepheshe nokuphila komuntu siqu.

Enye into ebalulekile ulwazi lomphefumulo womuntu siqu. Kuyinqubo engapheli. Lapho uzazi ngokwengeziwe - indlela yakho yokucabanga, i-palette yemizwa, imfihlo yomgomo weqiniso - impilo ekhanyayo iba.

Yileli zinga eliphakeme lokuqonda elinquma izinga lempilo yakho yansuku zonke.

Imikhuba emibi ithinta ikusasa

Sicela ufunde izigaba ezimbalwa ezilandelayo ngokucophelela. Uma ungagxilile ngokwanele, hamba uyogeza ubuso bakho ngamanzi abandayo ukuze ungaphuthelwa ukubaluleka kombono oyisisekelo ongezansi.

Namuhla, abaningi baphilela imivuzo esheshayo. Bathenga izinto abangeke bakwazi ukuzikhokhela, futhi bahlehlise ukukhokha isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka. Izimoto, ukuzijabulisa, ubuchwepheshe bamuva «amathoyizi» — lokhu akulona uhlu oluphelele lokutholwa okunjalo. Labo abajwayele ukwenza lokhu, sengathi badlala i-catch-up. Ukuze baziphilise, ngokuvamile kudingeka basebenze isikhathi eside noma bafune imali eyengeziwe. "Ukucubungula" okunjalo kuholela ekucindezelekeni.

Uma izindleko zakho zihlala zidlula iholo lakho, umphumela uzofana: ukuqothuka. Uma umkhuba omubi uba yisikhathi eside, ngokushesha noma kamuva kuyodingeka ubhekane nemiphumela yawo.

Izibonelo ezimbalwa ezengeziwe. Uma ufuna ukuphila isikhathi eside, udinga ukuba nemikhuba enempilo. Ukudla okufanele, ukuzivocavoca umzimba kanye nokuhlolwa njalo kubaluleke kakhulu. Kwenzekani eqinisweni? Abantu abaningi baseNtshonalanga bakhuluphele ngokweqile, abavocavoci umzimba kancane, futhi bangondlekile kahle. Ungakuchaza kanjani? Futhi, iqiniso lokuthi baphila okwamanje, ngaphandle kokucabanga ngemiphumela. Umkhuba wokudla njalo lapho ugijima, ukudla okusheshayo, inhlanganisela yokucindezeleka kanye ne-cholesterol ephezulu kwandisa ingozi yokushaywa unhlangothi nokuhlaselwa yinhliziyo. Le miphumela ingaba yingozi, kodwa abaningi bavame ukukushaya indiva okusobala futhi badlule empilweni, bengacabangi ngeqiniso lokuthi mhlawumbe endaweni ethile ekhoneni inkinga enkulu ibalindile.

Ake sithathe ubudlelwano bomuntu siqu. Isikhungo somshado sisengozini: cishe i-50% yemindeni yase-United States iyahlukana. Uma ujwayele ukuncisha ubudlelwano obubaluleke kakhulu besikhathi, umzamo nothando, umphumela omuhle ungavela kanjani?

Khumbula: kunenani ongalikhokha kukho konke empilweni. Imikhuba emibi inemiphumela emibi. Imikhuba emihle ikulethela imivuzo.

Ungaguqula imiphumela engemihle ibe yimiklomelo.

Qala ukushintsha imikhuba yakho manje

Ukwakha imikhuba emihle kuthatha isikhathi

Kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani ukushintsha umkhuba wakho? Impendulo evamile kulo mbuzo ithi «amasonto amathathu kuya kwamane». Mhlawumbe lokhu kuyiqiniso uma kuziwa ekulungiseni okuncane ekuziphatheni. Nasi isibonelo somuntu siqu.

Les: Ngikhumbula ngilahlekelwa okhiye bami njalo. Kusihlwa ngifake imoto egaraji, ngingene endlini ngizijikijele noma kuphi lapho kumele ngiphume khona, kuthi uma sekumele ngiphume ngomsebenzi, ngingabatholi. Ngigijima ngizungeza indlu, ngangicindezelekile, futhi lapho ngithola lezi zihluthulelo ezimbi, ngathola ukuthi ngase ngiphuze ngemizuzu engamashumi amabili emhlanganweni ...

Kube lula ukuxazulula le nkinga ebeleselayo. Ngake ngabethela ukhuni odongeni oluphambene nomnyango wegalaji, nganamathisela izingwegwe ezimbili kulo futhi ngenza uphawu olukhulu oluthi «Okhiye».

Ngakusasa kusihlwa ngafika ekhaya, ngadlula ukhiye wami omusha 'wendawo yokupaka' ngase ngiwaphonsa ndawana thize ekhoneni elikude legumbi. Kungani? Ngoba sengijwayele. Kwangithatha cishe izinsuku ezingamashumi amathathu ukuze ngiziphoqe ukuba ngizilengise odongeni kwaze kwaba yilapho ingqondo yami ithi kimi, “Kubukeka sengathi sesenza izinto ngendlela ehlukile manje.” Ekugcineni, umkhuba omusha usuwakhe ngokuphelele. Angisalahlekelwa okhiye bami, kodwa bekungelula ukuziqeqesha kabusha.

Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukushintsha umkhuba wakho, khumbula ukuthi usunesikhathi eside kangakanani uwenza. Uma ubulokhu wenza okuthile ngokungaguquki iminyaka engamashumi amathathu, cishe ngeke ukwazi ukuziqeqesha kabusha emasontweni ambalwa. Kufana nokuzama ukuluka intambo emculweni oye waqina ngokuhamba kwesikhathi: izovuma, kodwa ngobunzima obukhulu. Ababhemayo isikhathi eside bayazi ukuthi kunzima kangakanani ukuyeka umkhuba we-nicotine. Abaningi basaqhubeka bengakwazi ukuyeka ukubhema, naphezu kobufakazi obandayo bokuthi ukubhema kufinyeza ukuphila.

Ngendlela efanayo, labo okuzethemba kwabo sekuneminyaka eminingi kuphansi ngeke bakwazi ukuphenduka abantu abazethembayo abakulungele ukushintsha umhlaba ngezinsuku ezingamashumi amabili nanye. Ukwakha uhlaka oluhle lokubhekisela kungathatha unyaka, ngezinye izikhathi ngaphezu kowodwa. Kodwa izinguquko ezibalulekile zibalulekile iminyaka yokusebenza, ngoba zingathinta kahle kokubili impilo yakho yomuntu siqu kanye neyomsebenzi.

Elinye iphuzu ingozi yokushelela emuva komdala. Lokhu kungenzeka lapho ukucindezeleka kwanda noma kwenzeka inhlekelele engazelelwe. Kungase kuvele ukuthi umkhuba omusha awunamandla ngokwanele ukumelana nobunzima, futhi kuzothatha isikhathi esiningi nomzamo ukuze ekugcineni uwakhe kunokuba wawubonakala ekuqaleni. Ukufeza i-automatism, ama-cosmonauts azenzela izinhlu zokuhlola zonke izinqubo ngaphandle kokukhetha, ukuze aqiniseke ngokuphindaphindiwe ngokunemba kwezenzo zabo. Ungadala isistimu efanayo engaphazamiseki. Lena indaba yokuzijwayeza. Futhi kuwufanele umzamo - uzokubona maduze.

Cabanga ukuthi unyaka nonyaka ushintsha imikhuba emine. Eminyakeni emihlanu, uzoba nemikhuba emihle emisha engamashumi amabili. Manje phendula: Ingabe imikhuba emihle emisha engamashumi amabili izoshintsha imiphumela yomsebenzi wakho? Yebo, yebo. Imikhuba engamashumi amabili ephumelelayo ingakunika imali ofuna noma okudingeka ube nayo, ubudlelwano obuhle bomuntu siqu, amandla nempilo, kanye namathuba amaningi amasha. Kuthiwani uma udala imikhuba engaphezu kwemine njalo ngonyaka? Cabanga nje ngesithombe esilinga kangaka! ..

Ukuziphatha kwethu kwakhelwe phezu kwemikhuba

Njengoba sekushiwo, imisebenzi yethu eminingi yansuku zonke ayilutho ngaphandle kwesimiso esivamile. Kusukela lapho uvuka ekuseni uze uyolala kusihlwa, wenza izinkulungwane zezinto ezivamile—ukugqoka, ukudla isidlo sasekuseni, ukufunda iphephandaba, ukuxubha amazinyo, ukushayela uya ehhovisi, ukubingelela abantu, ukulungisa izinto. ideski lakho, ukwenza ama-aphoyintimenti, ukusebenza kumaphrojekthi, ukukhuluma ngocingo nokunye. Phakathi neminyaka edlule, uthuthukisa isethi yemikhuba egxilile. Isamba sayo yonke le mikhuba sinquma inkambo yempilo yakho.

Njengabantwana bemikhuba, sibikezela kakhulu. Ngezindlela eziningi, lokhu kuhle, ngoba kwabanye siba qotho futhi singaguquguquki. (Kuyathakazelisa ukuqaphela ukuthi abantu abangalindelekile nabo banomkhuba - umkhuba wokungahambisani!)

Nokho, uma kunesimiso esiningi, ukuphila kuba yisicefe. Senza okuncane kunalokho esingakwenza. Izenzo ezakha ukuziphatha kwethu kwansuku zonke zenziwa ngokungazi, ngokungacabangi.

Uma ukuphila kuyeka ukukufanela, udinga ukushintsha okuthile.

Ikhwalithi ayisona isenzo, kodwa umkhuba

Umkhuba omusha uzoba yingxenye yokuziphatha kwakho.

Yeka izindaba! Ngokuziqinisekisa ukuthi ukuziphatha kwakho okusha kubaluleke kakhulu kunokwamanje, ungaqala ukwenza izinto ngendlela entsha ngokuphelele, okungukuthi, ukufaka esikhundleni semikhuba yakho emibi emidala emisha ephumelelayo.

Ngokwesibonelo, uma uvame ukufika sekwephuzile emihlanganweni, cishe ungaphansi kokucindezeleka okukhulu. Ukuze ulungise lokhu, zibophezele ngokuqinile kuwena emasontweni amane alandelayo ukuze ufike kunoma yimuphi umhlangano imizuzu eyishumi ngaphambi kokuba uqale. Uma unamandla okwenza le nqubo, uzoqaphela izinto ezimbili:

1) isonto lokuqala noma amabili kuzoba nzima. Kungase kudingeke nokuba uzisole kancane ukuze uhlale endleleni;

2) Uma ufika kaningi ngesikhathi, kuzoba lula ukwenza kanjalo. Ngolunye usuku, ukugcina isikhathi kuyoba isici sokuziphatha kwakho.

Uma abanye bekwazi ukuzishintsha ngokuphawulekayo, kungani wena ungafanele wenze okufanayo? Khumbula: akukho okuzoshintsha uze ushintshe. Vumela uguquko lube ngumsunguli wakho wempilo engcono ezokunikeza inkululeko nokuthula kwengqondo.

Uma uqhubeka nokwenza obuhlale ukwenza, uzothola lokho ohlale uthola.

Indlela yokubona imikhuba emibi?

Isexwayiso: imikhuba esebenza ngokumelene nawe

Amaphethini ethu amaningi okuziphatha, izici nezinto ezingavamile azibonakali. Ake sibhekisise imikhuba ekubambezelayo. Ungase ukhumbule ezimbalwa zazo ngaphandle. Nazi ezivame kakhulu:

- ukungakwazi ukubuya ngesikhathi;

- umkhuba wokufika sekwephuzile emihlanganweni;

- ukungakwazi ukwakha ubudlelwano nozakwabo;

- ukuntula ukunemba ekwakhiweni kwemiphumela elindelekile, izinhlelo zenyanga, imigomo, njll.;

- ukubala okungalungile kwesikhathi sokuhamba (sincane kakhulu);

- ukungakwazi ukusebenza ngokushesha nangempumelelo ngamaphepha;

— kuhlehlisela ukukhokhwa kwezikweletu okokugcina futhi ngenxa yalokho — ukuqoqwa kwezijeziso;

- umkhuba wokungalaleli, kodwa ukukhuluma;

— ikhono lokukhohlwa igama lomunye umzuzu ngemva kokwethulwa noma ngaphambi kwalokho;

- umkhuba wokucisha i-alamu izikhathi eziningana ngaphambi kokuvuka ekuseni;

- ukusebenza usuku lonke ngaphandle kokuzivocavoca noma ikhefu elivamile;

- isikhathi esinganele esichithwa nezingane;

- Ukudla ukudla okusheshayo kusukela ngoMsombuluko kuya ngoLwesihlanu;

- Ukudla ngezikhathi ezingavamile phakathi nosuku;

- umkhuba wokuhamba ekhaya ekuseni ngaphandle kokugona umkakhe, umyeni, izingane;

- umkhuba wokuthatha umsebenzi ekhaya;

- izingxoxo ezinde kakhulu ocingweni;

- umkhuba wokubhuka yonke into ngomzuzu wokugcina (izindawo zokudlela, uhambo, amathiyetha, amakhonsathi);

- ngokuphambene nezithembiso zabo kanye nezicelo zabanye abantu, ukungakwazi ukuletha izinto ekupheleni;

- Isikhathi esanele sokuphumula nomndeni;

- umkhuba wokugcina umakhalekhukhwini uvuliwe ngaso sonke isikhathi;

- umkhuba wokuphendula izingcingo lapho umndeni uhlangene etafuleni;

- umkhuba wokulawula noma yiziphi izinqumo, ikakhulukazi ezintweni ezincane;

- umkhuba wokuhlehlisa yonke into kuze kube kamuva - kusukela ekugcwaliseni amafomu entela kuya ekuhleleni izinto egaraji;

Manje zihlole - yenza uhlu lwemikhuba ekukhathazayo. Thatha cishe ihora ukuze lokhu kukhumbule yonke into kahle. Qiniseka ukuthi awuphazamiseki ngalesi sikhathi. Lo msebenzi obalulekile uzokunikeza isisekelo sokuthuthukisa imikhuba yakho. Eqinisweni, imikhuba emibi - izithiyo ezima endleleni yomgomo - ngesikhathi esifanayo zisebenza njengesisekelo sempumelelo yesikhathi esizayo. Kodwa kuze kube yilapho usuqonda ngokucacile ukuthi yini ekugcina usesimweni, kuyoba nzima ngawe ukuba uhlakulele imikhuba ekhiqiza kakhudlwana.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungakwazi ukubona ukushiyeka kokuziphatha kwakho ngokuxoxisana nabanye. Babuze ukuthi bacabangani ngemikhuba yakho emibi. Ungaguquguquki. Uma ukhuluma nabantu abayishumi futhi abayisishiyagalombili kubo bathi awubuyeli ngesikhathi, lalela. Khumbula: ukuziphatha kwakho, njengoba kubonakala ngaphandle, kuyiqiniso, futhi umbono wakho wokuziphatha kwakho uvame ukuba yinkohliso. Kodwa ngokuzibekela ukukhulumisana okuqotho, ungakwazi ngokushesha ukwenza izinguquko ekuziphatheni kwakho futhi ulahle imikhuba emibi unomphela.

Imikhuba yakho ingumphumela wendawo okuyo

Lena ithisisi ebaluleke kakhulu. Abantu oxhumana nabo, indawo okuzungezile ithinta kakhulu impilo yakho. Noma ubani okhulele endaweni engafanele, ehlala ehlukunyezwa ngokomzimba noma ngokokuziphatha, ubona umhlaba ngendlela ehlukile kunomntwana owakhuliswa endaweni yemfudumalo, uthando nokusekelwa. Banezimo zengqondo ezihlukene ngokuphila kanye nokuzethemba okuhlukile. Indawo enolaka ivame ukuletha umuzwa wokuzizwa ungelutho, ukuntula ukuzethemba, ingasaphathwa eyokusaba. Lolu hlelo lwenkolelo engemihle, oluqhutshelwa ebudaleni, lungaba nomthelela ekuthuthukisweni kwemikhuba eminingi emibi, kuze kufike ekubeni umlutha wezidakamizwa noma ukuthambekela kobugebengu.

Ithonya labajwayelene nabo lingadlala indima enhle noma embi. Njengoba uzungezwe abantu abahlale bekhononda ngokuthi izinto zimbi kangakanani, ungaqala ukubakholelwa. Uma uzungeza abantu abanamandla nabanethemba, umhlaba uzogcwala ukuzijabulisa namathuba amasha.

UHarry Alder, encwadini yakhe ethi NLP: The Art of Getting What You Want, uyachaza: “Ngisho noshintsho oluncane ezinkolelweni eziyinhloko lungaveza izinguquko ezimangalisayo ekuziphatheni nasendleleni yokuphila. Lokhu kubonakala ngokucacile ezinganeni kunabantu abadala, njengoba izingane zizwela kakhulu ekusikiseleni nasekushintsheni kwezinkolelo. Ngokwesibonelo, uma ingane ikholelwa ukuthi ingumdlali onekhono noma yenza kahle kunoma yisiphi isifundo sesikole, empeleni izoqala ukusebenza kangcono. Impumelelo izomsiza ukuthi azikholelwe kuyena, futhi uzoqhubeka nokuya phambili futhi athuthuke.”

Kwesinye isikhathi umuntu ongazethembi uthi, "angikwazi ukuphumelela kunoma yini." Inkolelo enjalo imbi kakhulu kukho konke akwenzayo, uma enquma ukuqala ukwenza okuthile. Yiqiniso, lokhu kuyicala eliyingozi kakhulu. Kwabaningi, ukuzethemba kusezingeni elithile elimaphakathi, ngezinye izikhathi kube kuhle futhi kukhuthaze, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kube kubi noma okuphazamisayo. Ngokwesibonelo, umuntu angase azibone ephansi kakhulu ngokwezinga lomsebenzi futhi azizwe “egibele ihhashi” kwezemidlalo, ekuhlanganyeleni, noma ohlotsheni oluthile lokuzijabulisa. Noma ngokuphambene. Sonke sineqoqo lemibono mayelana nezindawo eziningi zomsebenzi wethu, inhlalo, kanye nempilo yomuntu siqu. Lapho ukhomba imikhuba ekuphazamisayo, udinga ukunemba kakhulu. Labo abasusa amandla kumele babuyiselwe abanye abazobanika.

Noma ngabe ube nebhadi lokukhulela endaweni engeyinhle, usengashintsha. Mhlawumbe oyedwa kuphela ongakusiza ngalokhu. Umqeqeshi omkhulu, uthisha, umelaphi, umeluleki, noma othile ongamcabanga njengesibonelo sokuziphatha okuphumelelayo angenza umehluko omkhulu ekusaseni lakho. Imfuneko kuphela ukuthi wena ngokwakho kufanele ulungele ushintsho. Uma lokho kwenzeka, abantu abalungile bazoqala ukuvela futhi bakusize. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu ukuthi isaga esithi “Lapho umfundi eselungile, uthisha uyavela” siyiqiniso ngokuphelele.

Indlela yokunqoba imikhuba emibi?

Funda Imikhuba Yabantu Abaphumelelayo

Njengoba sekushiwo, imikhuba ephumelelayo iholela empumelelweni. Funda ukuziqaphela. Buka abantu abaphumelele. Kuthiwani uma kufanele uxoxisane nomuntu oyedwa ophumelelayo ngenyanga? Memela umuntu onjalo ekudleni kwasekuseni noma kwasemini futhi ubuze imibuzo ngemikhuba yakhe. Ufundani? Ungowamaphi amaqembu nososeshini? Usihlela kanjani isikhathi sakho? Ngokuzibonakalisa ungumlaleli omuhle, onesithakazelo esiqotho, uzozwa imibono eminingi ethakazelisayo.

UJack noMark: Ngemva kokuqeda incwadi yokuqala yeSobho Lenkukhu ye-Soul, sabuza bonke ababhali abadayiswa kakhulu esibaziyo—uBarbara de Angelis, uJohn Grey, uKen Blanchard, uHarvey McKay, uHarold Bloomfield, uWayne Dyer, noScott Peck—yini amasu akhethekile avumela incwadi ukuthi ibe ethengiswa kakhulu. Bonke laba bantu babelane nathi ngemibono yabo kanye nabakutholile. Senze konke esasikutsheliwe: sakwenza kwaba umthetho wokuthi okungenani sinikeze inhlolokhono eyodwa ngosuku iminyaka emibili; baqashe i-ejenti yabo yokukhangisa; wathumela izincwadi ezinhlanu ngosuku kubabuyekezi neziphathimandla ezihlukahlukene. Sanikeza amaphephandaba nomagazini ilungelo lokunyathelisa kabusha izindaba zethu mahhala, futhi sanikeza imihlangano yokucobelelana ngolwazi ekhuthazayo kunoma ubani othengisa izincwadi zethu. Ngokuvamile, sifunde ukuthi yimiphi imikhuba esiyidingayo ukuze sakhe othengisa kakhulu, futhi siyenze esenzweni. Ngenxa yalokho, sesithengise izincwadi eziyizigidi ezingamashumi amahlanu emhlabeni wonke kuze kube manje.

Inkinga ukuthi abaningi ngeke babuze lutho. Futhi uzitholele izaba eziyikhulu. Bamatasa kakhulu noma bacabanga ukuthi abantu abaphumelelayo abanaso isikhathi sabo. Futhi ufika kanjani kubo? Abantu abaphumelele abaqaphile ezimpambanweni zemigwaqo balinde ukuthi kube khona ozoxoxisana nabo. Kulungile. Kodwa khumbula, lokhu kumayelana nocwaningo. Ngakho-ke, yiba nobuciko, thola ukuthi laba bantu abaphumelele basebenza kuphi, bahlala, badle futhi bahlanganyele. (Esahlukweni 5, ngomkhuba wokudala ubudlelwano obuhle, uzofunda ukuthi ungathola kanjani futhi uhehe abeluleki abaphumelelayo.)

Ungafunda futhi kubantu abaphumelele ngokufunda umlando wokuphila kwabo kanye ne-autobiographies, ubukele amadokhumenti - kukhona amakhulu akho. Lezi yizindaba ezinhle zokuphila. Funda eyodwa ngenyanga, futhi ngonyaka uzoba nemibono eminingi kunezifundo eziningi zasenyuvesi.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, sobathathu saziqeqeshela ukulalela umsindo okhuthazayo nofundisayo lapho sishayela, sihamba ngezinyawo, noma sidlala imidlalo. Uma ulalela izifundo zomsindo isigamu sehora ngosuku, izinsuku ezinhlanu ngesonto, eminyakeni eyishumi uzothatha amahora angaphezu kwama-30 olwazi olusha oluwusizo. Cishe wonke umuntu ophumelelayo esimaziyo useke waba nalo mkhuba.

Umngane wethu uJim Rohn uthi, “Uma ufunda incwadi eyodwa ensimini yakho ngenyanga, uzofunda izincwadi ezingu-120 eminyakeni eyishumi futhi ube engcono kunazo zonke emkhakheni wakho.” Ngokuphambene, njengoba uJim ebonisa ngokuhlakanipha, "Zonke izincwadi ongazifunda ngeke zikusize!" Phequlula izitolo ezikhethekile ezithengisa okuqukethwe kwamavidiyo nomsindo okuhlanganiswe abaqeqeshi abaphezulu bokukhula komuntu siqu nabaholi bamabhizinisi.

Shintsha imikhuba yakho

Abantu abacebile kuwo wonke umqondo wegama bayaqonda ukuthi impilo iwukufunda njalo. Kuhlala kukhona okumele ukuphokophelele - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiliphi izinga osuvele ulizuzile. Uhlamvu lwakheka ngokuphishekela ukuphelela. Njengoba ukhula njengomuntu, unokuningi ongakunikeza emhlabeni. Le ndlela ethakazelisayo iholela empumelelweni nasekuchumeni. Kodwa, ngeshwa, ngezinye izikhathi akulula kithi.

Les: Wake waba nezinso? Ukungakhululeki kakhulu futhi isibonelo esihle sokuthi imikhuba emibi ingayonakalisa kanjani impilo yakho.

Lapho ngibonisana nodokotela, kwaba sobala ukuthi imbangela yokuhlupheka kwami ​​kwakuyimikhuba emibi ye-gastronomic. Ngenxa yabo, ngathola amatshe amaningana amakhulu. Sanquma ukuthi indlela engcono kakhulu yokuwaqeda kwakuyi-lithotripsy. Lena inqubo ye-laser ethatha cishe ihora, ngemva kwalokho isiguli ngokuvamile siyalulama ezinsukwini ezimbalwa.

Ngaphambi nje kwalokhu, ngabhukhela uhambo lwangempelasonto lokuya eToronto mina nendodana yami. Indodana - eyayisanda kuba neminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye ubudala - yayingakaze ibe lapho ngaphambili. Iqembu sonke esilesekayo, kanye neqembu le-hockey eliyintandokazi yendodana yami, i-Los Angeles Kings, nalo bekufanele lidlale kowamanqamu womqhudelwane webhola likanobhutshuzwayo, nalo laliseToronto ngaleso sikhathi. Besihlele ukuphuma ngendiza ngoMgqibelo ekuseni. I-lithotripsy yayihlelelwe uLwesibili wesonto elifanayo - ngabonakala ngisenesikhathi esiningi esisele ukuze ngilulame ngaphambi kwendiza.

Nokho, ngoLwesihlanu ntambama, ngemva kokushaywa kanzima kwe-renal colic kanye nezinsuku ezintathu zobuhlungu obukhulu, obadalulwa kuphela ngemijovo evamile ye-morphine, kwaba sobala ukuthi amacebo ohambo olujabulisayo nendodana yakhe ahwamuka phambi kwamehlo ethu. Nansi omunye umphumela wemikhuba emibi! Ngenhlanhla, ngomzuzu wokugcina udokotela wanquma ukuthi sengikulungele ukuhamba futhi wangikhulula.

Impelaviki ayisekho. Iqembu lebhola lezinyawo liwinile, sabuka umdlalo omkhulu we-hockey, futhi izinkumbulo zalolu hambo zizohlala enkumbulweni yethu nendodana yami. Kodwa ngenxa yemikhuba emibi, ngicishe ngalahlekelwa yileli thuba elihle.

Manje ngizimisele ngokugwema izinkinga zamatshe ezinso esikhathini esizayo. Nsuku zonke ngiphuza izingilazi eziyishumi zamanzi futhi ngizame ukungadli ukudla okukhuthaza ukwakheka kwamatshe. Small, ngokuvamile, intengo. Futhi okwamanje, imikhuba yami emisha ingigcina ngempumelelo enkingeni.

Le ndaba ikhombisa ukuthi impilo isabela kanjani ezenzweni zakho. Ngakho-ke ngaphambi kokuthatha isifundo esisha, bheka phambili. Ingabe izoholela emiphumeleni emibi noma ithembise umvuzo esikhathini esizayo? Cabanga ngokucacile. Thola imibuzo. Ngaphambi kokwenza imikhuba emisha, buza imibuzo. Lokhu kuzoqinisekisa ukuthi uzoba nobumnandi obuningi empilweni esikhathini esizayo, futhi ngeke kudingeke ukuthi ucele isibhamu se-morphine ukuze ukhulule izinhlungu!

Manje njengoba usuqonda ukuthi imikhuba yakho isebenza kanjani ngempela nokuthi ungayikhomba kanjani, ake sehlele engxenyeni ebaluleke kakhulu — ukuthi ungayishintsha kanjani unomphela.

Imikhuba Emisha: Ifomula Yempumelelo

Nansi indlela yesinyathelo ngesinyathelo ezokusiza uthuthukise imikhuba engcono. Le ndlela iyasebenza ngoba ilula. Ingasetshenziswa kunoma iyiphi indawo yokuphila - emsebenzini noma ebuhlotsheni bomuntu siqu. Ngokusetshenziswa njalo, kuzokusiza ukufeza konke okudingayo. Nazi izingxenye zayo ezintathu.

1. Thola imikhuba yakho emibi

Kubalulekile ukucabangisisa ngemiphumela yemikhuba yakho emibi. Bangase bangaveli kusasa, noma ngesonto elizayo, noma ngenyanga ezayo. Umphumela wabo wangempela ungase ubonakale eminyakeni eminingi kamuva. Uma ubheka ukuziphatha kwakho okungakhiqizi kanye ngosuku, kungase kungabonakali kubi kangako. Umuntu obhemayo angase athi: “Cabanga nje, ugwayi abambalwa ngosuku! Ngikhululeke kakhulu. Anginakho ukuphefumula noma ukukhwehlela." Nokho, usuku nosuku luyadlula, futhi ngemva kweminyaka engamashumi amabili, ubheka i-x-reyi edumazayo ehhovisi likadokotela. Cabanga nje: uma ubhema osikilidi abayishumi ngosuku iminyaka engamashumi amabili, uthola osikilidi abangama-73. Ucabanga ukuthi ugwayi ongu-000 ungalimaza amaphaphu akho? Ngisazokwenza! Imiphumela ingaba yingozi. Ngakho-ke, lapho ufunda imikhuba yakho siqu, khumbula imiphumela yabo yokubambezeleka. Thembeka ngokuphelele kuwena - mhlawumbe impilo isengcupheni.

2. Chaza umkhuba wakho omusha oyimpumelelo

Lokhu ngokuvamile kuphambene nomkhuba omubi. Esibonelweni sokubhema, lokhu ukuyeka ukubhema. Ukuze uzikhuthaze, cabanga ngazo zonke izinzuzo umkhuba omusha ongakulethela zona. Uma uzethula ngokucace kakhudlwana, yilapho uzoqala khona ukwenza ngokuzimisela.

3. Yenza uhlelo olunamaphuzu amathathu

Kulapho konke kuqala khona! Umuntu obhemayo esibonelweni sethu unezinketho eziningi. Ungafunda izincwadi zokuyeka ukubhema. Ungenza i-hypnotherapy. Ungakwazi esikhundleni sikagwayi ngokunye. Bheja nomngane ukuthi ungakwazi ukuphatha umkhuba wakho - lokhu kuzokwandisa isibopho sakho. Ngena emidlalweni yangaphandle. Sebenzisa i-nicotine patch. Ungazihlanganisi nabanye ababhemayo. Into esemqoka ukunquma ukuthi yiziphi izenzo ezithile ozozithatha.

Kudingeka sithathe isinyathelo! Qala ngomkhuba owodwa ofuna ukuwushintsha ngempela. Gxila ezinyathelweni ezintathu ezingaphambili ngokushesha futhi uziqedele. Khona manje. Khumbula: uze uqale, akukho okuzoshintsha.

Isiphetho

Ngakho-ke, manje uyazi ukuthi imikhuba isebenza kanjani nokuthi ungabona kanjani ezimbi phakathi kwazo. Futhi, manje usunefomula eqinisekisiwe engaba inhlabathi evundile yemikhuba emisha ephumelelayo kokubili kwebhizinisi nempilo yomuntu siqu. Sikweluleka ngokuqinile ukuthi uhlole ngokucophelela izingxenye zale fomula, ezichazwe ekupheleni kwalesi sahluko. Yenza lokhu ngepeni nephepha ezandleni zakho: akuthembeki ukugcina ulwazi ekhanda lakho ngaso sonke isikhathi. Into esemqoka ukugxila emizamweni yakho.

Umhlahlandlela Wokwenza

A. Abantu abaphumelele engifuna ukukhuluma nabo

Yenza uhlu lwabantu obahloniphayo asebephumelele. Zibekele umgomo wokumema ngamunye wabo ekudleni kwasekuseni noma kwasemini, noma uhlele umhlangano ehhovisi lakhe. Ungakhohlwa incwajana yokubhala phansi imibono yakho engcono kakhulu.

C. Ifomula Yemikhuba Ephumelelayo

Bheka izibonelo ezilandelayo. Unezigaba ezintathu: A, B, kanye no-C. Esigabeni A, khomba ngokunembe ngangokunokwenzeka umkhuba okubambezelayo. Bese ucabangela imiphumela yako, ngoba konke okwenzayo kunemiphumela. Imikhuba emibi (ukuziphatha okungalungile) kunemiphumela emibi. Imikhuba ephumelelayo (ukuziphatha okuhle) izokunikeza unqenqema.

Esigabeni B, yisho umkhuba wakho omusha ophumelelayo—ngokuvamile okuphambene nalowo osohlwini lwesigaba A. Uma umkhuba wakho omubi ungawongeleli ikusasa, omusha ungakhiwa ngokuthi: “Yonga u-10% wayo yonke imali engenayo.”

Esigabeni C, bhala izinyathelo ezintathu ozozithatha ukuze usebenzise umkhuba omusha. Cacisa. Khetha idethi yokuqala bese uya!

A. Umkhuba ungibambile

C. Umkhuba Omusha Ophumelelayo

C. Uhlelo Lwezinyathelo Ezintathu Lokudala Umkhuba Omusha

1. Thola umeluleki wezezimali ongakusiza wenze uhlelo lwesikhathi eside lokonga nokutshala imali.

2. Setha ukudonswa kwemali okuzenzakalelayo kwanyanga zonke kwenani le-akhawunti.

3. Yenza uhlu lwezindleko bese ukhansela ezingadingekile.

Idethi yokuqala: NgoMsombuluko, Mashi 5, 2010.

A. Umkhuba ungibambile

C. Umkhuba Omusha Ophumelelayo

C. Uhlelo Lwezinyathelo Ezintathu Lokudala Umkhuba Omusha

1. Bhala isikhangiso somsebenzi somsizi.

2. Thola abazongenela ukhetho, hlangana nabo bese ukhetha elingcono kakhulu.

3. Qeqesha kahle umsizi wakho.

Idethi yokuqala: ULwesibili, Juni 6, 2010.

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Inkinga Yosomabhizinisi

Uma unebhizinisi lakho noma usuzoqala, qaphela inkinga yosomabhizinisi. Ingqikithi yayo yilokhu. Ake sithi unombono womkhiqizo noma isevisi entsha. Wazi kangcono kunanoma ubani ukuthi bazobukeka kanjani, futhi, vele, uzokwenza imali eningi ngabo.

Ekuqaleni, umgomo oyinhloko webhizinisi ukuthola amakhasimende amasha futhi ugcine akhona kakade. Okulandelayo ukwenza inzuzo. Ekuqaleni kwemisebenzi yabo, amabhizinisi amaningi amancane anemali eyanele. Ngakho-ke, usomabhizinisi kufanele enze imisebenzi eminingana ngesikhathi esisodwa, esebenza imini nobusuku, ngaphandle kwamaholide nezimpelasonto. Kodwa-ke, lesi sikhathi yisikhathi esithakazelisa kakhulu sokusungula othintana nabo, ukuhlangana namakhasimende angaba khona kanye nokwenza ngcono izimpahla noma amasevisi.

Lapho kubekwa isisekelo, kuyadingeka ukubeka abantu abanekhono ezindaweni zabo, kwakhiwe izinhlelo zokusebenzisana, nokudala izimo zokusebenza ezizinzile. Kancane kancane, usomabhizinisi uzinikela ngokwengeziwe emisebenzini yokuphatha yansuku zonke. "Umsebenzi wamaphepha" uphenduka umkhuba owawuwumsebenzi othokozisayo. Isikhathi esiningi sizinikele ekuxazululeni izinkinga, ukucacisa ubudlelwano nabangaphansi kanye nokuxazulula izinkinga zezimali.

Uyajwayela? Awuwedwa kulokhu. Ingqinamba ukuthi osomabhizinisi abaningi (kanye nabaphathi) bayathanda ukulawula. Kunzima kuwe ukuthi “udedele” isimo, uvumele abanye benze izinto zabo, uphathise abanye igunya. Ekugcineni, ubani omunye ngaphandle kwakho, umsunguli wenkampani, oqonda konke ubuqili bebhizinisi lakho! Kubonakala kuwe ukuthi akekho ongakwazi ukubhekana nemisebenzi yansuku zonke kangcono kunawe.

Kulapho-ke indida. Amathuba amaningi aseduze, amadili amakhulu, kodwa awukwazi ukuwafinyelela ngoba ubambekile enkambweni yakho yansuku zonke. Kuyadabukisa lokhu. Ucabanga ukuthi: mhlawumbe uma ngisebenza kanzima, ngifunde amasu okuphatha, khona-ke ngingakwazi ukuphatha yonke into. Cha, ngeke kusize. Ngokusebenza kanzima nangokuzikhandla, ngeke uxazulule le nkinga.

Okufanele ngikwenze? Iresiphi ilula. Chitha isikhathi sakho esiningi wenza lokho okwenza kahle kakhulu futhi uvumele abanye benze lokho abakwenza kangcono kakhulu.

Gxila kulokho owenza kahle kukho. Kungenjalo, ungase ube nengcindezi engenakugwemeka futhi ekugcineni uphele amandla emsebenzini. Isithombe esidabukisayo ... Kodwa ungazinyathela kanjani?

Gxila emathalenteni akho

Ukwenza lokhu kube lula, ake sibheke umhlaba we-rock and roll.

I-Rolling Stones ingelinye lamaqembu e-rock achuma kakhulu futhi ahlala njalo emlandweni. Sebedlale cishe iminyaka engamashumi amane. U-Mick Jagger nabangane bakhe abathathu sebeneminyaka engamashumi ayisithupha ubudala futhi basagcwele izinkundla emhlabeni wonke. Ungase ungawuthandi umculo wabo, kodwa iqiniso lokuthi bayaphumelela kuyiqiniso elingephikiswe.

Ake sibheke ngemuva ngaphambi kokuba kuqale ikhonsathi. Isimo sesivele simisiwe. Ukwakhiwa kwalesi sakhiwo esiyisikhumbuzo, izindaba eziningana eziphakeme nengxenye ubude benkundla yebhola, kwathatha umsebenzi wabantu abangamakhulu amabili. Kwadingeka ukuthi kuqashwe ama-trailer angaphezu kwamashumi amabili ukuze amthuthe esuka endaweni yekhonsathi yangaphambilini. Abahlanganyeli abakhulu, okuhlanganisa nabaculi, bazodluliswa edolobheni baye kwelinye ngezindiza ezimbili ezizimele. Konke lokhu kuwumsebenzi omningi. Ngo-1994, ukuvakasha komhlaba kweqembu kwangenisa imali engaphezu kuka-$80 wezigidi - ngakho kuwufanele ngempela umzamo!

I-limousine idonsela emnyango wesiteji. Abaculi abane baphuma kuyo. Bajabule kancane uma kumenyezelwa igama leqembu labo bese kungena abantu abayizinkulungwane ezingamashumi ayisikhombisa bebhonga ezindlebeni. I-Rolling Stones ithatha isiteji futhi ithatha izinsimbi. Emahoreni amabili alandelayo, adlala ngendlela encomekayo, eshiya izindimbane zabalandeli bazo zijabule futhi zanelisekile. Ngemva komgwaqo ongemuva, bavalelisa, bangene emotweni ye-limousine, baphume enkundleni.

Bazigxilisa ngokuphelele kubo umkhuba wokugxila entweni eyinhloko. Lokhu kusho ukuthi benza lokho abangakwenza okuhle kuphela - ukuqopha umculo futhi badlale esiteji. Futhi iphuzu. Ngemuva kokuthi konke kuvunyelwene ekuqaleni, abahlanganyeli nemishini, ukuhlela umzila oyinkimbinkimbi, ukuhlelwa kwesiteji, noma amakhulu eminye imisebenzi okumele, ukuze uhambo luhambe kahle futhi lwenze inzuzo, kufanele lwenziwe ngokungenasici. Lokhu kwenziwa ngabanye abantu abanolwazi. Lesi yisikhathi esibaluleke kakhulu kuwe, mfundi othandekayo! Kuphela ngokugxilisa isikhathi sakho esiningi namandla kulokho ohlakaniphe ngempela lapho ungathola impumelelo ebalulekile.

Phila isikhathi eside!

Ake sibone ezinye izibonelo. Noma yimuphi umsubathi ongumpetha uhlale ecija amakhono akhe ezingeni eliphezulu neliphakeme. Noma ngabe yimuphi umdlalo esiwuthathayo, bonke ompetha banento eyodwa abafana ngayo: isikhathi esiningi basebenza ngamandla abo, okuyinto imvelo ebanikeze yona. Isikhathi esincane kakhulu esichithwa emisebenzini engakhiqizi. Baqeqesha futhi baqeqeshe futhi baqeqeshe, ngokuvamile amahora amaningi ngosuku.

Isihlabani se-basketball uMichael Jordan uthathe amakhulukhulu amashothi agxumayo nsuku zonke, noma ngabe kwenzekani. UGeorge Best, ongomunye wabadlali bebhola abahamba phambili kwabangu-XNUMX, ubevame ukuqhubeka nokuzilolonga ngemuva kokuthi abanye sebeqedile. UGeorge wayazi ukuthi iphuzu lakhe eliqine kakhulu kwakuyimilenze yakhe. Wabeka amabhola ebangeni elihlukene ukusuka egoli futhi wazilolongela ukudubula kwakhe ephindelela - ngenxa yalokho, amasizini ayisithupha elandelana wahlala engumshayimagoli ophambili weManchester United.

Qaphela ukuthi abangcono kakhulu abangcono kakhulu bachitha isikhathi esincane kakhulu ezintweni abangekho kahle kuzo. Uhlelo lwesikole lungafunda lukhulu kubo. Izingane zivame ukutshelwa ukuthi zenze izinto ezingenzi kahle, futhi asikho isikhathi salezo zinto ezenza kahle. Kucatshangwa ukuthi ngale ndlela kungenzeka ukufundisa izingane zesikole ukuqonda izinto eziningi. Akulungile! Njengoba umqeqeshi wezamabhizinisi uDan Sullivan eshilo, uma usebenza kanzima ngamaphuzu akho abuthaka, uzogcina usunamaphuzu amaningi aqinile. Umsebenzi onjalo ngeke ukunikeze izinzuzo.

Kubalulekile ukuqonda ngokucacile ukuthi yini ongcono kakhulu kukho. Kwezinye izinto uqonda kahle, kodwa kukhona nalezo - futhi kufanele ukuvume ngokweqiniso lokhu kuwe - lapho unguziro ophelele. Faka kuhlu amathalente akho esikalini se-XNUMX kuye ku-XNUMX, u-XNUMX abe indawo yakho ebuthaka kakhulu kanti u-XNUMX uyindawo ongalingani nayo. Imivuzo emikhulukazi empilweni izoqhamuka ekusebenziseni isikhathi sakho esiningi ngo-XNUMX esikalini sakho sethalente.

Ukuze ubone ngokucacile amandla akho, zibuze imibuzo embalwa. Yini ongayenza ngaphandle komzamo nokuzilungiselela kokuqala? Yimaphi amathuba okusebenzisa amathalente akho emakethe yanamuhla? Yini ongayidala ngazo?

Khulula ikhono lakho

UNkulunkulu usinike sonke isiphiwo noma elinye. Futhi ingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila kwethu izinikele ekuqondeni lokho abayikho, bese sikusebenzisa kangcono kakhulu. Kwabaningi, inqubo yokufunda amathalente abo ithatha iminyaka, kanti abanye bayawushiya lo mhlaba bengazi ukuthi yisiphi isipho sabo. Ukuphila kwabantu abanjalo akucebile ngencazelo. Bazikhathaza ngokulwa ngoba isikhathi sabo esiningi basichitha emsebenzini noma ebhizinisini elingahambisani namandla abo.

Isihlabani samahlaya uJim Carrey uhola u-$20 wezigidi ngefilimu ngayinye. Ithalente lakhe elikhethekile yikhono lokwakha ama-grimaces amahle kakhulu futhi uthathe izimo ezinhle. Ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala sengathi yenziwe ngerabha. Lapho esemusha, wayezilolongela phambi kwesibuko amahora amaningi ngosuku. Ngaphezu kwalokho, waqaphela ukuthi wayehlakaniphile kuma-parodies, futhi kwaba ngabo lapho umsebenzi wakhe wokulingisa waqala khona.

Indlela kaKerry yodumo ibe nobunzima obuningi. Ngesinye isikhathi, wayeka ukudlala iminyaka emibili, elwa nokungabaza. Kodwa akazange adikibale, futhi ngenxa yalokho, ekugcineni wanikezwa indima eyinhloko ifilimu "Ace Ventura: Pet Detective". Udlale ngokugqama. Ifilimu yaba yimpumelelo emangalisayo futhi yaba yisinyathelo sokuqala sikaCarrey endleleni eya ezinkanyezini. Inhlanganisela yokukholelwa okuqinile emakhonweni ami namahora amaningi omsebenzi wansuku zonke ekugcineni kwaba nemiphumela emihle.

U-Kerry uthuthuke ngokubona ngeso lengqondo. Wazibhalela isheke lika-$20 million, walisayina ukuze athole izinkonzo azenzile, walibhala usuku, walifaka ephaketheni lakhe. Ngezikhathi ezinzima, wayehlala egqumeni, ebuka i-Los Angeles futhi ezicabangela njengenkanyezi yesikrini. Wabe esefunda kabusha isheke lakhe njengesikhumbuzo sengcebo yesikhathi esizayo. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi eminyakeni embalwa kamuva, wasayina inkontileka yezigidi ezingama- $ 20 ngeqhaza lakhe ku-Mask. Usuku lwalucishe lufane nesheke ayeligcine ephaketheni isikhathi eside.

Gxila ezintweni eziza kuqala - iyasebenza. Kwenze umkhuba wakho futhi uzophumelela. Sidale indlela esebenzayo eyenza kube lula ukufunda nokuthola amakhono akho akhethekile.

Isinyathelo sokuqala siwukwenza uhlu lwazo zonke izinto ozenza emsebenzini phakathi nesonto elivamile. Abantu abaningi babhala uhlu lwezinto eziyishumi kuya kwezingamashumi amabili. Elinye lamakhasimende ethu lalinamashumi amane. Akudingi ubuhlakani ukuthola ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukwenza izinto ezingamashumi amane isonto ngalinye, ugxile kuleyo naleyo. Ngisho nezinto ezingamashumi amabili zizoba ziningi kakhulu - uzama ukuzenza, uyaphazamiseka futhi uphazamiseke kalula.

Abaningi bayamangala ukuthi kaningi kangakanani kuzwakala sengathi bahlukaniswa. “Kugcwele umsebenzi!”, “Konke akulawuleki!”, “Ukucindezeleka okunjalo,” sizwa le mishwana ngaso sonke isikhathi. Uhlelo olubalulekile luzokusiza ukuthi ubhekane nalo muzwa—okungenani uzoqala ukuqonda ukuthi isikhathi sakho siyaphi. Uma ukuthola kunzima ukukhumbula yonke into oyenzayo (okukhombisa futhi ukuthi kuningi kakhulu okumele ukwenze), ungarekhoda imisebenzi yakho ngesikhathi sangempela ngesikhawu esiyimizuzu eyi-15. Yenza lokhu izinsuku ezine kuya kweziyisihlanu.

Uma ishadi lokugxila okubalulekile seliqedile, bhala izinto ezintathu ocabanga ukuthi unekhono kuzo. Kumayelana nezinto eziza kalula kuwe, ezikukhuthazayo neziletha imiphumela evelele. Ngendlela, uma ungabandakanyi ngokuqondile ekukhiqizeni imali yenkampani, ubani ohilelekile? Ingabe bakwenza ngobuhlakani? Uma kungenjalo, ungase ube nezinqumo ezinkulu okufanele uzenze esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.

Manje umbuzo obalulekile olandelayo. Ingakanani iphesenti lesikhathi sakho phakathi nesonto elijwayelekile olichitha wenza okwenzayo ngobuhlakani? Ngokuvamile babiza isibalo 15-25%. Ngisho noma u-60-70% wesikhathi sakho usetshenziswa ngendlela ewusizo, sisesiningi indawo yokuthuthukisa. Kuthiwani uma sinyusa izinga libe ngu-80-90%?

Izinga lekhono lakho linquma amathuba akho empilweni

Bheka uhlu lwakho lwangempela lokuzokwenziwa lwangeviki bese ukhetha izinto ezintathu ongathandi ukuzenza noma ongakwazi kuzo. Awekho amahloni ekuvumeni ubuthakathaka obuthile kuwena. Ngokuvamile, abantu babhala amaphepha, ukugcina ama-akhawunti, ukwenza ama-aphoyintimenti, noma ukulandelela amacala ngocingo. Njengomthetho, lolu hlu luhlanganisa zonke izinto ezincane ezihambisana nokuqaliswa kwephrojekthi. Yiqiniso, udinga ukuzenza, kodwa hhayi ngokwakho.

Uke waqaphela ukuthi lezi zinto azikuniki amandla, kodwa zimunca kuwe? Uma kunjalo, sekuyisikhathi sokuthatha isinyathelo! Ngokuzayo lapho wenza umsebenzi owuzondayo, zikhumbuze ukuthi konke kuyize, ngamazwi esikhulumi esidumile uRosita Perez: «Uma ihhashi lifile, phuma kulo. Yeka ukuzihlukumeza! Kukhona ezinye izinketho.

Ingabe ungumqali noma umphelelisi?

Ingabe lesi yisikhathi esihle sokucabanga ngokuthi kungani ezinye izinto uthanda ukuzenza kanti ezinye awuthandi? Zibuze: ingabe ungumqali noma umphelelisi? Mhlawumbe ngokwezinga elithile ninobabili, kodwa ikuphi enizizwa ninjalo kaningi? Uma ungumqali, uyakujabulela ukudala amaphrojekthi amasha, imikhiqizo nemibono. Nokho, inkinga yabaqalayo ukungakwazi ukuqeda izinto. Babhoreka. Osomabhizinisi abaningi bayiziqalo ezinhle. Kodwa uma le nqubo isiqalile, bavame ukulahla yonke into befuna okuthile okusha, bashiye ngemuva. Ukukhuculula imfucumfucu wubizo lwabanye abantu ababizwa ngabaqedi. Bathanda ukwenza izinto. Ngokuvamile benza umsebenzi ompofu ekuqaleni kwephrojekthi, kodwa bese beqinisekisa ukuqaliswa kwayo ngempumelelo.

Ngakho nquma: ungubani? Uma uqala, khohlwa ngecala lokungaqedi lokho okuqalile. Udinga nje ukuthola umphelelisi omuhle ukuze anakekele imininingwane futhi ndawonye uqedela amaphrojekthi amaningi.

Cabangela isibonelo. Incwadi oyiphethe ngezandla iqale ngombono. Ukubhalwa kwangempela kwencwadi - ukuhlukanisa, ukubhalwa kombhalo - empeleni kuwumsebenzi womqali. Ngamunye kwabathathu ababhali abahlanganyele udlale indima ebalulekile lapha. Nokho, ukuze kwakhiwe umkhiqizo oqediwe, kwathatha umsebenzi wabanye abantu abaningi, abaqedeli abahle kakhulu - abahleli, abahlola amaphutha, abashicileli bezinhlamvu, njll. Ngaphandle kwabo, umbhalo wesandla ubungeke uqoqe uthuli iminyaka eminingi eshalofini ... Ngakho nakhu okulandelayo okubalulekile. umbuzo kuwe: ubani ongenza izinto ongazithandi?

Isibonelo, uma ungathandi ukugcina amarekhodi, thola uchwepheshe kulesi simo. Uma ungathandi ukwenza ama-aphoyintimenti, vumela unobhala noma isevisi yokuthengisa ngocingo ikwenzele kona. Awuthandi ukuthengisa, "ugqozi" lwabantu? Mhlawumbe udinga umphathi wezokuthengisa omuhle ongaqasha iqembu, aliqeqeshe futhi aqaphe imiphumela yomsebenzi masonto onke? Uma ukuzonda ukubhekana nezintela, sebenzisa izinsizakalo zochwepheshe abafanelekile.

Linda ucabange, "Angikwazi ukuqasha bonke laba bantu, kubiza kakhulu." Bala ukuthi ukhulule isikhathi esingakanani uma usabalalisa ngempumelelo imisebenzi "engathandwa" phakathi kwabanye abantu. Ekugcineni, ungahlela ukuletha kancane kancane laba basizi ebhizinisini noma usebenzise usizo lwezinsizakalo ezizimele.

Uma ugwiliza, biza usizo!

Funda ukuyeka izinto ezincane

Uma ibhizinisi lakho likhula futhi isikhundla sakho enkampanini sidinga ukuthi ugxile emsebenzini othile, qasha umsizi womuntu siqu. Ngokuthola umuntu olungile, ngokuqinisekile uzobona ukuthi impilo yakho izoshintsha kanjani ibe ngcono. Okokuqala, umsizi womuntu akayena unobhala, hhayi umuntu ohlanganyela imisebenzi yakhe nabanye abantu ababili noma abathathu. Umsizi womuntu wangempela usebenza ngokuphelele kuwe. Umsebenzi oyinhloko womuntu onjalo ukukukhulula esimisweni nasekuxabaneni, ukukunikeza ithuba lokugxila ezintweni eziqine kakhulu zomsebenzi wakho.

Kodwa ungamkhetha kanjani umuntu ofanele? Nawa amanye amathiphu. Okokuqala, yenza uhlu lwayo yonke imisebenzi ozonikeza umsizi umthwalo wemfanelo ogcwele. Ngokuyisisekelo, kuzoba umsebenzi ofuna ukweqa owakho uhlu lwezinto okumele uzenze masonto onke. Lapho uxoxisana nabasizi, cela abathathu abaphezulu ukuthi badlule kunhlolokhono yokulandelela ukuze uhlole kangcono izimfanelo zabo zobungcweti nezomuntu siqu ezingaba khona.

Ungakha iphrofayela yomuntu ofanele kusengaphambili, ngaphambi kokuthi uqale ukukhetha. Qhathanisa amaphrofayili wamakhandidethi amathathu aphezulu nekhandidethi lakho "elikahle". Imvamisa lowo onephrofayili yakhe esondele kakhulu kokuhle uzokwenza okuhle kakhulu. Yiqiniso, ekukhethweni kokugcina, ezinye izici kufanele zicatshangelwe, njengokuthi, isibonelo, isimo sengqondo, ukwethembeka, ubuqotho, isipiliyoni somsebenzi wangaphambili, njll.

Qaphela: ungayeki ukukhetha kwakho kumuntu ofana namaconsi amabili amanzi afana nawe! Khumbula: umsizi kufanele agcwalise amakhono akho. Umuntu onezintandokazi ezifanayo nezakho angase adale ukudideka okukhulu nakakhulu.

Amaphuzu ambalwa abalulekile. Ngisho nokuba ngokwemvelo uthambekele ekulawuleni okwengeziwe, ungakwazi kalula “ukudedela” izinto eceleni, kufanele uzinqobe futhi “uzinikele emseni” womsizi wakho siqu. Futhi ungathuki lapho igama elithi «maluleke», ujule incazelo yalo. Ngokuvamile abathandi bokulawula bayaqiniseka ukuthi akekho ongenza lokhu noma leyo nto kangcono kunabo. Mhlawumbe lokhu kunjalo. Kodwa kuthiwani uma umsizi womuntu siqu okhethwe kahle engakwazi ekuqaleni ukwenza okubi kakhulu kunawe? Mqeqeshe futhi ekugcineni uzokwedlula. Yeka ukulawula okuphelele, themba othile owazi ukuhlela yonke into futhi anakekele imininingwane kangcono kunawe.

Uma kwenzeka - uma usacabanga ukuthi ungakwazi ukuphatha yonke into ngesikhathi esisodwa - zibuze: "Lingakanani ihora lomsebenzi wami?". Uma ungakaze uzigcine izibalo ezinjalo, zenze manje. Ithebula elingezansi lizokusiza.

Uyimalini ngempela?

Ngokusekelwe ezinsukwini zokusebenza ezingama-250 ngonyaka kanye nosuku lokusebenza lwamahora angu-8.

Ngethemba ukuthi amaphuzu akho aphezulu. Pho kungani wenza ibhizinisi elinenzuzo ephansi? Zilahle!

Elinye iphuzu mayelana nabasizi bomuntu siqu: kuyadingeka ukudweba uhlelo lokusebenza usuku ngalunye noma okungenani isonto lonke futhi uxoxe ngalo nomsizi. Xhumana, xhumana, xhumana! Isizathu esikhulu esenza ubudlelwano obunezithelo bubune ukuntuleka kokuxhumana. Qiniseka ukuthi umsizi wakho uyazi ukuthi uhlose ukuchitha isikhathi sakho kukho.

Futhi, nikeza umlingani wakho omusha isikhathi sokujwayela uhlelo lwakho lomsebenzi. Mkhombise abantu abakhulu ofuna ukugxila ekuxhumaneni nabo. Kanye naye, cabangani ngezindlela zokulawula ezizokuvumela ukuthi ungaphazamiseki futhi uhlanganise imizamo kulokho okwenza kahle kakhulu. Vula ukuxhumana!

Manje ake sibone ukuthi ungawusebenzisa kanjani umkhuba wokugxila ezintweni eziza kuqala kuwe ukuze ube nesikhathi esengeziwe ongasichitha nomndeni nabangane, izinto zokuzilibazisa noma imidlalo.

Nomaphi lapho uhlala khona, udinga ukwenza umzamo wokugcina ikhaya lakho lisesimweni esihle. Ebukhoneni bezingane, le nkinga iyinkimbinkimbi yi-factory of three to four, kuye ngeminyaka yazo namandla okubhubhisa. Cabanga ukuthi singakanani isikhathi esichithwa phakathi nesonto ekuhlanzeni, ukupheka, ukugeza izitsha, ukulungisa izinto ezincane, ukunakekela imoto, njll. Ingabe uke waphawula ukuthi lezi zinkinga azipheli? Lena indlela yokuphila! Kuye ngomlingisi, ungamthanda, ubekezele noma umzonde.

Ungazizwa kanjani uma ungathola indlela yokunciphisa lezi zinkathazo, noma okungcono kakhulu, ukuzisusa? Ikhululekile, ikhululeke kakhudlwana, ikwazi ukujabulela lokho othanda ukukwenza? Ngisazokwenza!

Kungase kudingeke ushintshe indlela ocabanga ngayo ukuze ufunde futhi wamukele okubhalwe ngezansi. Uhlobo lokugxumela kokungaziwa lukulindele. Nokho, izinzuzo ngokuqinisekile zizodlula utshalomali lwakho. Ngamafuphi: uma ufuna ukukhulula isikhathi sakho, cela usizo. Isibonelo, qasha othile ukuthi ahlanze indlu yakho kanye noma kabili ngesonto.

Les: Sithole umbhangqwana othandekayo oseneminyaka eyishumi nambili uhlanza indlu yethu. Bayawuthanda umsebenzi wabo. Indlu manje iyacwebezela nje. Kusibiza amadola angamashumi ayisithupha ukuvakasha. Futhi yini esinayo njengembuyiselo? Amahora ambalwa wamahhala namandla engeziwe okujabulela ukuphila.

Mhlawumbe phakathi komakhelwane bakho kukhona ohola impesheni othanda ukwenza izinto? Abantu abaningi asebekhulile banamakhono amahle kakhulu futhi bafuna okuthile abangakwenza. Lolu hlobo lomsebenzi lubenza bazizwe befunwa.

Yenza uhlu lwayo yonke into ekhaya lakho edinga ukulungiswa, ukunakekelwa, noma ukuthuthukiswa—izinto ezincane ezingenzeki. Lahla ukucindezeleka ngokukuphathisa abanye.

Linganisela ukuthi singakanani isikhathi samahhala ozoba naso ngenxa yalokho. Ungasebenzisa lawa mahora ayigugu ukuze uphumule kahle nomndeni wakho noma abangani. Mhlawumbe le nkululeko entsha etholakala masonto onke ethi "izinto ezincane" izokuvumela ukuthi uthathe umsebenzi wokuzilibazisa obuhlale uphupha ngawo. Phela, ukufanele, akunjalo?

Khumbula: isikhathi samahhala ngeviki onaso sikhawulelwe. Ukuphila kuba mnandi kakhulu uma uphila ngeshejuli enomthelela omkhulu, ebiza kancane.

Ifomula 4D

Kubalulekile ukwehlukanisa ngempela lokho okubizwa ngokuthi izindaba eziphuthumayo ezintweni ezibalulekile ezibalulekile. Ukucisha imililo ehhovisi usuku lonke, ngokusho kwesazi sabaphathi uHarold Taylor, kusho "ukuzinikela ebushiqela bokuphuthuma."

Gxila ezintweni eziza kuqala. Noma nini lapho ukukhetha kuwukwenza noma ukungenzi okuthile, beka kuqala ukusebenzisa ifomula ye-4D ngokukhetha okukodwa kokukhethwa kukho okune ngezansi.

1. Phansi!

Funda ukuthi, "Cha, ngeke ngikwenze lokho." Futhi qina esinqumweni sakho.

2. Phathisa abanye

Lezi zinto zidinga ukwenziwa, kodwa hhayi ngamandla akho. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuwadlulisela komunye umuntu.

3. Kuze kube izikhathi ezingcono

Lokhu kuhlanganisa namacala adinga ukusetshenzwa, kodwa hhayi njengamanje. Angahlehliswa. Hlela isikhathi sokuba wenze lo msebenzi.

4. Woza!

Khona manje. Amaphrojekthi abalulekile adinga ukuzibandakanya kwakho ngokushesha. Ukuya phambili! Zivuze ngokuzenza. Ungabheki izimpendulo. Khumbula: uma ungenzi lutho, imiphumela engathandeki ingakulinda.

umngcele wokuphepha

Iphuzu lokugxila ezintweni ezibalulekile ukubeka imingcele emisha ongeke weqe. Okokuqala, badinga ukucaciswa ngokucacile - kokubili ehhovisi nasekhaya. Xoxa ngazo nabantu ababaluleke kakhulu empilweni yakho. Kudingeka bakuchaze ukuthi kungani unqume ukwenza lezi zinguquko, futhi bayokusekela.

Ukuze uqonde ngokucacile indlela yokubeka imingcele, cabanga ngengane encane ogwini olunesihlabathi olwandle. Kunendawo ephephile, ebiyelwe ngamabhoya epulasitiki amaningana aboshwe ngentambo ewugqinsi. Inetha elisindayo eliboshelwe entanjeni livimbela ingane ukuba iphumele ngaphandle kwendawo ebiyelwe. Ukujula ngaphakathi komgoqo cishe kuyingxenye yemitha kuphela. Kupholile lapho, futhi ingane iyakwazi ukudlala ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngalutho.

Kukhona umsinga onamandla ngakolunye uhlangothi lwentambo, futhi umqansa ongaphansi kwamanzi okhuphuka ngokushesha ukujula ube ngamamitha ambalwa. Izikebhe zezimoto kanye nama-jet skis ayagijima. Yonke indawo izimpawu eziyisixwayiso «Ingozi! Ukubhukuda akuvumelekile.» Uma nje ingane isesikhaleni esivalekile, konke kuhamba kahle. Ngaphandle kuyingozi. Ingqikithi yesibonelo: ukudlala lapho ukugxila kwakho kuphazamiseka khona, weqa imingcele ephephile lapho usengozini yezingozi zengqondo nezezimali. Ngaphakathi kwendawo efanayo oyazi kangcono, ungachaphaza ngokuphephile usuku lonke.

Amandla egama elithi "cha"

Ukuhlala ngaphakathi kwale mingcele kudinga izinga elisha lokuzithiba. Ngamanye amazwi, kufanele uqaphele futhi ucace kakhudlwana ngalokho ochitha isikhathi sakho kukho. Ukuze uhlale endleleni, zibuze njalo: Ingabe engikwenzayo manje kuyangisiza ukuba ngifinyelele imigomo yami? Lokhu kuyasiza. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuzodingeka ufunde ukuthi “cha” kaningi. Kukhona nezindawo ezintathu ongazihlola.

1. Yena uqobo

Impi enkulu nsuku zonke yenzeka ekhanda lakho. Sihlala silahlekelwa yilezi noma ezinye izimo. Yeka ukukwenza. Lapho ububi bakho obuncane bangaphakathi buqala ukuvela ekujuleni kokwazi, uzama ukufohla uze ufike ngaphambili, yima kancane. Zinikeze inothi yengqondo emfushane. Gxila ezinzuzweni kanye nemivuzo yokugxila ezintweni eziza kuqala futhi uzikhumbuze ngemiphumela emibi yokunye ukuziphatha.

I-2. Abanye

Mhlawumbe abanye abantu bazozama ukukwephula ukugxilisa ingqondo yakho. Ngezinye izikhathi othile uza ehhovisi lakho ukuze axoxe, ngoba unamathela esimisweni sokuvula iminyango. Ungabhekana kanjani nakho? Shintsha isimiso. Okungenani ingxenye yosuku lapho udinga ukuba wedwa futhi ugxile kuphrojekthi entsha enkulu, gcina umnyango uvaliwe. Uma lokho kungasebenzi, ungadweba uphawu lokuthi "Ungaphazamisi". Noma ubani ongena ngizomxosha!»

U-Danny Cox, umxhumanisi webhizinisi ohamba phambili wase-California nombhali odayisa kakhulu, usebenzisa isifaniso esinamandla uma kuziwa ekugxileni ezintweni eziza kuqala. Uthi, “Uma kufanele ugwinye ixoxo, ungalibuki isikhathi eside. Uma udinga ukugwinya eziningana zazo, qala ngenkulu kunazo zonke. Ngamanye amazwi, yenza izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ngaso leso sikhathi.

Ungafani nabantu abaningi abanezinto eziyisithupha ohlwini lwabo lwezinto abazozenza nsuku zonke futhi uqale ngomsebenzi olula nongabalulekile kakhulu. Ekupheleni kosuku, ixoxo elikhulu kunawo wonke - into ebaluleke kakhulu - lihlala lingathinteki.

Thola ixoxo elikhulu lepulasitiki ozolibeka etafuleni lakho uma usebenza kuphrojekthi ebalulekile. Tshela abasebenzi ukuthi ixoxo eliluhlaza lisho ukuthi akufanele uphazamiseke ngalesi sikhathi. Kwazi bani - mhlawumbe lo mkhuba uzodluliselwa kwabanye ozakwenu. Khona-ke umsebenzi ehhovisi uzokhiqiza kakhulu.

I-3. Ucingo

Mhlawumbe isithiyo esicasulayo kunazo zonke ucingo. Kuyamangaza ukuthi abantu bavumela kangakanani le divayisi ukuthi ilawule usuku lwabo lonke! Uma udinga amahora amabili ngaphandle kweziphazamiso, vala ifoni yakho. Vala noma iyiphi enye idivayisi engakuphazamisa. I-imeyili, imeyili yezwi, imishini yokuphendula izokusiza ukuxazulula inkinga yezingcingo ezingenele. Zisebenzise ngokuhlakanipha - ngezinye izikhathi, kunjalo, kufanele ube khona. Hlela ama-aphoyintimenti akho kusenesikhathi, njengodokotela oneziguli: isibonelo, kusukela ngo-14.00 kuya ku-17.00 ngoMsombuluko, kusukela ngo-9.00 kuya ku-12.00 ngoLwesibili. Bese ukhetha isikhathi esingcono kakhulu sezingcingo: isibonelo, kusukela ngo-8.00 kuya ku-10.00. Uma ufuna imiphumela ebonakalayo, udinga ukunqamula ezweni langaphandle ngezikhathi ezithile. Yeka umkhuba wokushesha ufinyelele lokho ee uma ucingo lukhala. Ithi cha! Lokhu kuzosebenza kahle nasekhaya.

Uchwepheshe wethu wokuphatha isikhathi uHarold Taylor ukhumbula izinsuku lapho abanjwa khona ngokoqobo ocingweni. Ngelinye ilanga efika ekhaya, wezwa sekukhala ucingo. Ephuthuma ukuphendula, wephula isicabha sengilazi walimala emlenzeni, wabhidliza ifenisha eminingana. Ensimbini yokuqala, wabamba uzwane futhi, ephefumulela phezulu, wamemeza: "Sawubona?". "Ungathanda ukubhalisela i-Globe and Mail?" kubuza izwi lakhe elingenamusa.

Esinye isiphakamiso: ukuze ungacasulwa yizingcingo zokukhangisa, vala ifoni yakho yasekhaya ngesikhathi sokudla. Phela kungalesi sikhathi abafona ngaso kakhulu. Umndeni uzokubonga ngethuba lokuxhumana ngendlela evamile. Zimise ngokuqaphela lapho uqala ukwenza into engahambisani nawe. Kusukela manje kuqhubeke, izenzo ezinjalo zingaphandle kwemingcele. Ungabe usaya lapho!

Impilo ngendlela entsha

Lesi sigaba simayelana nendlela yokuphila ngaphakathi kwemingcele emisha. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukushintsha indlela yakho yokucabanga, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ufunde ukwenza. Nasi isibonelo esihle esingakusiza. Odokotela basebenza ngokukhethekile ekuchazeni imingcele. Njengoba kuneziguli eziningi, odokotela kufanele bahlale bevumelanisa amakhono abo namaqiniso. UDkt. Kent Remington ungomunye wochwepheshe abagxile kakhulu futhi ungudokotela wesikhumba ohlonishwayo ogxile ekwelapheni nge-laser. Ngokuhamba kweminyaka, umkhuba wakhe uye wakhula kancane kancane. Ngakho-ke, indima yokuphatha isikhathi ngempumelelo nayo yanda - ikhono lokugxila ezintweni eziza kuqala.

UDkt. Remington ubona isiguli sakhe sokuqala ligamenxe ihora lesikhombisa ekuseni (abantu abaphumelelayo ngokuvamile baqala umsebenzi kusenesikhathi). Lapho sifika emtholampilo, isiguli siyabhaliswa, bese sithunyelwa kwelinye lamagumbi okwamukela izivakashi. Umhlengikazi ubheka ikhadi lakhe, abuze impilo yakhe. U-Remington ngokwakhe uvela emizuzwini embalwa kamuva, eke wafunda ikhadi umhlengikazi abesevele elibeke phezu kwetafula ehhovisi lakhe.

Le ndlela ivumela uDkt. Remington ukuthi agxile ekwelapheni isiguli kuphela. Wonke umsebenzi wokuqala wenziwa kusengaphambili. Ngemva kokuqokwa, ezinye izincomo zinikezwa abasebenzi basemtholampilo abanolwazi. Ngakho, udokotela uyakwazi ukubona iziguli eziningi ezengeziwe, futhi kudingeka zilinde kancane. Umsebenzi ngamunye ugxile ezintweni ezimbalwa azenza kahle kakhulu, futhi ngenxa yalokho, lonke uhlelo lusebenza kahle. Ingabe kubukeka njengomsebenzi wakho wasehhovisi? Ngicabanga ukuthi uyayazi impendulo.

Yini enye ongayenza ukuze ugxumele ezingeni elisha lokusebenza kahle kanye nokugxilisa ingqondo ngempumelelo? Nali icebiso elibalulekile:

Imikhuba emidala iphazamisa umgomo

Isibonelo, umkhuba wokubuka i-TV kakhulu. Uma ujwayele ukulala kusofa amahora amathathu njalo ebusuku, futhi okuwukuphela komsebenzi womzimba ucindezela izinkinobho kusilawuli kude, kufanele ucabange kabusha lo mkhuba. Abanye abazali bayayiqonda imiphumela yalokhu kuziphatha futhi balinganisela isikhathi sezingane zabo sokubuka i-TV sibe amahora ambalwa ngezimpelasonto. Kungani ungenzi okufanayo kuwe? Nansi inhloso yakho. Zinqabele ukubuka i-TV isonto lonke futhi ubone ukuthi zingaki izinto ozenza kabusha.

Ucwaningo olwenziwa uNielsen lwathola ukuthi ngokwesilinganiso abantu babuka i-TV amahora angu-6,5 ngosuku! Igama eliyinhloko lapha lithi «isilinganiso». Ngamanye amazwi, abanye bayibuka nakakhulu. Lokhu kusho ukuthi umuntu ovamile uchitha iminyaka engaba ngu-11 yokuphila kwakhe ebuka i-TV! Uma uyeka ukubuka okungenani ukukhangisa, uzokonga cishe iminyaka emithathu.

Siyaqonda ukuthi kunzima ukulahla imikhuba yakudala, kodwa sinempilo eyodwa kuphela. Uma ufuna ukuyiphila hhayi ize, qala ukulahla imikhuba yakudala. Zizenzele isethi entsha yamasu azokusiza uphile impilo ephelele ngayo yonke indlela.

UJack: Lapho ngiqala ukusebenzela uClement Stone ngo-1969, wangimemela kwinhlolokhono eyathatha ihora lonke. Umbuzo wokuqala wawuthi: "Ingabe uyayibuka i-TV?" Wabe esebuza: “Ucabanga ukuthi uyibukela amahora amangaki ngosuku?” Ngemva kokubala kancane, ngaphendula: “Cishe amahora amathathu ngosuku.

UMnu. Stone wangibheka emehlweni wayesethi, “Ngifuna unciphise lesi sikhathi ngehora ngosuku. Ngakho-ke ungagcina amahora angama-365 ngonyaka. Uma uhlukanisa lesi sibalo ngeviki lomsebenzi wamahora angamashumi amane, amaviki amasha ayisishiyagalolunye nesigamu omsebenzi owusizo azovela empilweni yakho. Kufana nokwengeza ezinye izinyanga ezimbili ngonyaka!

Ngavuma ukuthi lona kwakuwumbono omuhle kakhulu futhi ngabuza uMnumzane Stone ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi ngingenzani ngalelo hora elengeziwe ngosuku. Wasikisela ukuba ngifunde izincwadi ezikhuluma ngekhono lami elikhethekile, ingqondo, imfundo, ukufunda, nokuzethemba. Ngaphezu kwalokho, wasikisela ukulalela izinsiza zomsindo ezifundisayo nezishukumisayo nokufunda ulimi lwakwelinye izwe.

Ngasilandela iseluleko sakhe futhi ukuphila kwami ​​kwashintsha kakhulu.

Awekho amafomula omlingo

Sithemba ukuthi uyaqonda: ungakwazi ukufeza okufunayo ngaphandle kosizo lweziphonso zomlingo noma izimbiza eziyimfihlo. Udinga nje ukugxila kulokho okuletha imiphumela. Nokho, abaningi benza okuhluke ngokuphelele.

Abantu abaningi babhajwa emisebenzini abangayithandi ngenxa yokuthi abakazithuthukisi izindawo zabo ezisezingeni eliphezulu. Ukuntuleka kolwazi okufanayo kuyabonakala ezindabeni zempilo. I-American Medical Association isanda kumemezela ukuthi u-63% wabesilisa baseMelika kanye no-55% wabesifazane (abangaphezu kuka-25) bakhuluphele ngokweqile. Ngokusobala, sidla kakhulu futhi sinyakaza kancane!

Iphuzu leli. Bhekisisa kahle ukuthi yini esebenzayo nengasebenzi empilweni yakho. Yini eletha impumelelo ebalulekile? Yini enikeza imiphumela engemihle?

Esahlukweni esilandelayo, sizokukhombisa isinyathelo ngesinyathelo ukuthi ungakudala kanjani lokho esikubiza ngokuthi "ukucaca okumangalisayo." Uzofunda futhi ukuthi ungazibekela kanjani “izinhloso ezinkulu”. Ngemuva kwalokho sizokwethula ohlelweni olukhethekile lokugxila ukuze ukwazi ukufeza lezi zinhloso. La maqhinga asisebenzele kahle kakhulu. Nawe uzophumelela!

Impumelelo akuwona umlingo. Konke kumayelana nokugxilisa ingqondo!

Isiphetho

Sixoxe kakhulu kulesi sahluko. Phinda ufunde izikhathi eziningana ukuze uqonde ngokugcwele osekushiwo. Sebenzisa le mibono esimweni sakho siqu futhi uthathe isinyathelo. Nakulokhu, sigcizelela ukubaluleka kokulandela umhlahlandlela wesenzo, okulandela ukuthi ungakwazi ngempela ukuguqulela ukugxila kokubalulekile kube umkhuba. Emasontweni ambalwa uzobona umehluko. Ukukhiqiza komsebenzi kuzokwanda, ubudlelwano bomuntu siqu buyocetshiswa. Uzozizwa ungcono emzimbeni, uqale ukusiza abanye. Uzoba nobumnandi obuningi bokuphila, futhi kuzokwazi ukufeza lezo zinhloso zomuntu siqu ezazingekho isikhathi esanele ngaphambili.

Umhlahlandlela Wokwenza

Uhlelo Lokugxila Kokubalulekile

Umhlahlandlela wezinyathelo eziyisithupha esenzweni — isikhathi esengeziwe, ukukhiqiza okwengeziwe.

A. Faka ohlwini yonke imisebenzi ochitha isikhathi kuyo.

Isibonelo, izingcingo, imihlangano, amaphepha, amaphrojekthi, ukuthengisa, ukulawula umsebenzi. Hlukanisa izigaba ezinkulu ezifana nezingcingo nama-aphoyintimenti ube yizigatshana. Cacisa futhi ube mfushane. Dala izinto eziningi ozidingayo.

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F. Imuphi umsebenzi odla isikhathi ongawushiya noma uwudlulisele komunye?

Iyiphi inzuzo esheshayo lesi sixazululo esingakulethela yona?

Isu #3: Uyasibona isithombe esikhulu?

Abantu abaningi abanawo umqondo ocacile walokho abafuna ukukufeza esikhathini esizayo. Okungcono kakhulu, lesi isithombe esilufifi. Kanti izinto zihamba kanjani nawe?

Ingabe uhlala uzinika isikhathi sokucabanga ngekusasa elingcono? Uzothi: “Angikwazi ukubekela eceleni usuku olulodwa isonto ngalinye ukuze ngizindle: Ngingakwazi ukubhekana nezindaba zamanje!”

Nokho, kuthiwani: qala ngemizuzu emihlanu ngosuku, kancane kancane ulethe lesi sikhathi kuze kufike ehoreni. Akukuhle yini ukuchitha imizuzu engamashumi ayisithupha ngeviki udala isithombe esihle sekusasa lakho? Abaningi bachitha imali eyengeziwe ekuhleleni iholide lamasonto amabili.

Siyakwethembisa ukuthi uma uthatha inkathazo ukuthuthukisa umkhuba wokubona umbono wakho ngokucacile, uzovuzwa ngokuphindwe kayikhulu. Uyafuna ukuqeda izikweletu, uzimele ngokwezimali, uthole isikhathi esiningi samahhala sokungcebeleka, wakhe ubudlelwano obuhle bomuntu siqu? Ungakufeza konke lokhu nokunye okuningi uma unesithombe esicacile salokho ofuna ukukuzuza.

Okulandelayo, uzothola isu lomhlaba wonke lokudala «ikhanvasi enkulu» yeminyaka ezayo. Ezahlukweni ezilandelayo, sizokukhombisa ukuthi ungawusekela futhi uwuqinise kanjani lo mbono ngezinhlelo zokusebenza zamasonto onke, amaqembu abeluleki, kanye nokwesekwa kwabaqondisi. Ngenxa yakho konke lokhu, uzokwakha inqaba eqinile ekuzungezile, engenakunqotshwa ukungabi nandaba nokungabaza. Ake siqale!

Kungani uzibekela imigomo?

Ingabe uzibekela imigomo ngokucophelela? Uma kunjalo, kuhle. Nokho, sicela ufunde ulwazi esikulungiselele lona. Kukhona ithuba lokuthi uzozuza ekuqiniseni nasekukhuliseni ikhono lakho lokubeka imigomo, futhi ngenxa yalokho, imibono emisha izoza kuwe.

Uma ungazibeki imigomo ngamabomu, okungukuthi, ungahleli ephepheni amasonto, izinyanga noma iminyaka ezayo, lalelisisa lokhu kwaziswa. Kungase kushintshe impilo yakho ngokuphawulekayo.

Okokuqala: yini inhloso? (Uma lokhu kungacacile kuwe, khona-ke ungaphuma endleleni ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuzuza.) Eminyakeni edlule, sizwile izimpendulo eziningi kulo mbuzo. Nansi enye ehamba phambili:

Umgomo ukuphishekela njalo into efanelekile kuze kube yilapho ifinyelelwa.

Ake sibheke incazelo yamagama ngamanye akha lesi sisho. "Umphela" kusho ukuthi kuyinqubo ethatha isikhathi. Igama elithi «ukuphishekela» liqukethe isici sokuzingela — mhlawumbe, endleleni eya emgomweni, kuzodingeka unqobe izithiyo nezithiyo. "Okufanele" kubonisa ukuthi "ukuphishekela" kuzozithethelela ngokushesha noma kamuva, ngoba ngaphambi kwakho kunomvuzo owanele ukusinda ezikhathini ezinzima ngenxa yakho. Inkulumo ethi "kuze kube yilapho usuphumelele" iphakamisa ukuthi uzokwenza konke okusemandleni ukufeza lokho okufunayo. Akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa kuyadingeka ngempela uma ufuna ukugcwalisa ukuphila kwakho ngenjongo.

Ikhono lokubeka imigomo nokuzifinyelela kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuqonda lokho okuzuzile empilweni, ukuze uqinisekise ukucaca kombono ngokwakho. Qaphela ukuthi kukhona okunye - vele uhambe nokugeleza ngokungenanjongo, ngethemba lokuthi ngelinye ilanga inhlanhla izokwehlela. Vuka! Kunalokho, uzothola uhlamvu lwegolide ogwini olunesihlabathi.

Usizo — uhlu lokuhlola

Umsakazi wezingxoxo ze-TV uDavid Letterman wenza uhlu oluwubuphukuphuku "oluphezulu XNUMX" abantu abalukhokhela imali. Uhlu lwethu lubaluleke kakhulu — luwuhlu ongahlola ngalo ukuthi uzibekela imigomo efanele yini. Lena into efana ne-buffet: khetha lokho okukufanele kakhulu futhi ukusebenzise.

1. Imigomo yakho ebaluleke kakhulu kufanele ibe ngeyakho.

Kuzwakala akunakuphikwa. Nokho, izinkulungwane zabantu zenza iphutha elifanayo: izinhloso zabo eziyinhloko zakhiwe omunye umuntu - inkampani abayisebenzelayo, umphathi, ibhange noma inkampani yezikweletu, abangani noma omakhelwane.

Ekuqeqesheni kwethu, sifundisa abantu ukuthi bazibuze umbuzo: yini engiyifunayo ngempela? Ekupheleni kwelinye lamakilasi, indoda ethile yeza kithi yathi: “Ngingudokotela wamazinyo, ngikhethe lo msebenzi ngoba umama ebewufuna kanjalo. Ngangiwuzonda umsebenzi wami. Ngabhoboza isiguli isihlathi kanye futhi kwadingeka ngimkhokhele u-$475.”

Nansi into: Ngokuvumela abanye abantu noma umphakathi ukuthi unqume ingqikithi yempumelelo yakho, ubeka ikusasa lakho engozini. Kuyeke!

Ukuthatha kwethu izinqumo kuthonywa kakhulu abezindaba. Uhlala edolobheni elikhulu kakhulu noma elincane, uzwa futhi ubona izikhangiso ezingaba ngu-27 nsuku zonke ezibeka ingcindezi engapheli ekucabangeni kwethu. Mayelana nokukhangisa, impumelelo yizingubo esizigqokayo, izimoto zethu, amakhaya ethu, nendlela esizipholele ngayo. Kuya ngokuthi wenza kanjani ngakho konke lokhu, ubhalwa njengabantu abaphumelele noma abahluliwe.

Ufuna isiqinisekiso esengeziwe? Sibonani esembozweni somagazini abadume kakhulu? Intombazane enomumo we-chic kanye nokulungisa izinwele, engenawo nokushwabana okukodwa ebusweni bayo, noma indoda ebukekayo ekweleta umzimba wayo onemisipha ngokucacile hhayi ukuzivocavoca kwansuku zonke kwemizuzu emihlanu kusifanisi sasendlini. Utshelwa ukuthi uma ungasafani, uyisehluleki. Akumangalisi ukuthi intsha eningi kangaka ezweni lanamuhla inenkinga yokuphazamiseka kwemikhuba yokudla njenge<em>bulimia ne<em>anorexia, ngoba ukucindezela komphakathi akubagodli labo abanomzimba ongaphelele noma ababukeka kahle. Kuyahlekisa!

Nquma ukuthi incazelo yakho yempumelelo izoba yini futhi uyeke ukukhathazeka ngokuthi abanye bacabangani. Iminyaka eminingi, u-Sam Walton, umsunguli we-Wal-Mart, uxhaxha lwezitolo olukhulu kunazo zonke noluphumelele kunawo wonke owake waba khona, ejabulela ukushayela iloli elidala yize engomunye wamadoda acebe kakhulu ezweni. Lapho ebuzwa ukuthi kungani engeke akhethe imoto elungele isimo sakhe, waphendula: “Kodwa ngiyayithanda iveni yami endala!” Ngakho khohlwa ngesithombe bese ubeka imigomo ekulungele.

Ngendlela, uma ufuna ngempela ukushayela imoto yokunethezeka, ukuhlala ekhaya likanokusho, noma uzenzele impilo ejabulisayo, qhubeka! Vele uqiniseke ukuthi yilokho okufunayo.

2. Imigomo kumele ibe nenjongo

Isikhulumi sasobala esidumile uCharlie Jones (Brilliant) sichaza ukuqala komsebenzi wakhe ngalendlela: “Ngikhumbula ngilwa ukuze ngisuse ibhizinisi lami phansi. Ubusuku ngabunye ehhovisi lami, ngangikhumula ibhantshi lami, ngiligoqe njengomcamelo, futhi ngihlwitha ukulala amahora ambalwa phezu kwedeski lami.” Imigomo kaCharlie yayinenjongo kangangokuthi wayezimisele ukwenza noma yini ukuze akhulise ibhizinisi lakhe. Ukuzinikela okuphelele yisikhathi esibaluleke kakhulu uma ufuna ukufeza umgomo wakho. Lapho eneminyaka engamashumi amathathu nanhlanu, uCharlie wathola umsebenzi womthengisi womshwalense, owaqala ukumlethela imali engaphezu kuka-$ 100 million ngonyaka. Futhi konke lokhu ekuqaleni kweminyaka engamashumi ayisithupha, lapho imali yayibaluleke kakhulu kunamanje!

Njengoba ulungiselela ukubhala phansi imigomo yakho, zibuze, “Yini ebaluleke ngempela kimi? Iyini inhloso yalokhu noma leso senzo? Yini engizimisele ukuyiyeka ngenxa yalokhu? Imicabango enjalo iyokwenza kucace ekucabangeni kwakho. Izizathu zokuthi kungani uzothatha ibhizinisi elisha zizokugcwalisa ngamandla namandla.

Zibuze: "Ngizozuzani?" Cabanga ngempilo entsha ecwebezelayo ozoyithola uma uthatha isinyathelo ngokushesha.

Uma indlela yethu ingenzi inhliziyo yakho ishaye ngokushesha, cabanga enye indlela. Ake sithi qhubeka wenza lokho ohlale uyenza. Impilo yakho izoba njani eminyakeni emihlanu, eyishumi, engamashumi amabili? Yimaphi amagama angachaza ikusasa lakho lezezimali uma ungashintshi lutho? Kuthiwani ngempilo, ubudlelwano kanye nesikhathi samahhala? Ingabe uzokhululeka noma usazosebenza ngokweqile masonto onke?

Gwema "uma bekungengenxa…» syndrome

Isazi sefilosofi uJim Rohn waveza ngobuqili ukuthi kunezinhlungu ezimbili ezinamandla kakhulu ekuphileni: ubuhlungu besiyalo kanye nobuhlungu bokuzisola. Isiyalo sinesisindo esingamaphawundi, kodwa ukuzisola kunesisindo esingamathani uma uzivumela uhambe nokugeleza. Awufuni ukubheka emuva eminyakeni eminingi kamuva bese uthi, “O, ukube angizange ngiphuthelwe yilelo thuba lebhizinisi! Ukube bengilondoloza futhi ngilondoloza njalo! Ukube bengikwazi ukuchitha isikhathi esengeziwe nomndeni wami! Ukube nje ubeyinakekela impilo yakhe!” Khumbula: ukukhetha kungokwakho. Ekugcineni, nguwe ophethe, ngakho khetha ngokuhlakanipha. Zibandakanye ekubekeni imigomo ezosebenzela inkululeko nempumelelo yakho esikhathini esizayo.

3. Imigomo kufanele ilinganiseke futhi icace

Lesi ngesinye sezizathu ezinkulu ezenza abantu abaningi bangafinyeleli kulokho abakwaziyo ukukwenza. Abakuchazi kahle lokho abakufunayo. Izitatimende ezingacacile nezingacacile azanele. Ngokwesibonelo, umuntu uthi: “Umgomo wami uwukuzimela ngokwezimali.” Kodwa kusho ukuthini ngempela lokhu? Kwabanye, ukuzimela ngokwezimali kungama-dollar ayizigidi ezingu-50 ku-stash. Kothile - umholo ngamadola ayizinkulungwane eziyi-100 ngonyaka. Kwabanye, asikho isikweletu. Ingakanani imali yakho? Uma lo mgomo ubalulekile kuwe, zinike isikhathi sokuwuqonda.

Sondela incazelo yenjabulo ngokucophelela okufanayo. “Isikhathi esengeziwe somndeni” nje akuyona yonke into. Kungasiphi isikhathi? Nini? Kangakanani? Uzokwenzani futhi nobani? Nawa amagama amabili azokusiza kakhulu: «Cacisa.»

Les: Elinye lamakhasimende ethu lathi inhloso yalo ukuqala ukuzivocavoca ukuze lithuthukise impilo yalo. Wazizwa ecindezelekile futhi efuna ukuzuza amandla. Nokho, “ukuqala ukudlala imidlalo” akuyona incazelo ebalulekile yomgomo onjalo. Kujwayelekile kakhulu. Ayikho indlela yokuyilinganisa. Ngakho sithe: nemba kakhudlwana. Wanezela, “Ngifuna ukuzilolonga isigamu sehora ngosuku izikhathi ezine ngesonto.”

Qagela ukuthi sathini ngokulandelayo? Kunjalo, «ba nembe kakhudlwana.» Ngemva kokuphindaphinda kaningana kombuzo, umgomo wakhe waklanywa kanje: «Yenza ezemidlalo isigamu sehora ngosuku, izikhathi ezine ngesonto, ngoMsombuluko, ngoLwesithathu, ngolwesihlanu nangeMigqibelo, kusukela ngehora lesikhombisa kuya kwelesikhombisa ekuseni. Ukuzivocavoca kwakhe kwansuku zonke kuhlanganisa imizuzu eyishumi yokufudumala kanye nemizuzu engamashumi amabili yokuhamba ngebhayisikili. Olunye udaba! Ungakwazi ukulandelela kalula intuthuko yakho. Uma sifika ngesikhathi esibekiwe, uzokwenza abezokwenza, noma uzosuka ahambe. Manje nguye kuphela onesibopho ngomphumela.

Nali iphuzu: uma usuthathe isinqumo sokuzibekela umgomo, hlala uzikhumbuze, «Hlanga uqonde!» Phinda lawa magama njengesipelingi kuze kube yilapho umgomo wakho ucace ngokumangalisayo futhi ucacile. Ngakho-ke, uzokwandisa kakhulu amathuba akho okuthola umphumela oyifunayo.

Khumbula: umgomo ongenazo izinombolo uyisiqubulo nje!

Kubalulekile ukuba nohlelo lokukala izimpumelelo zakho. I-Achievement Focus System iwuhlelo olukhethekile oluzokwenza yonke inqubo ibe lula kuwe. Ichazwe kabanzi encwadini yeziqondiso yalesi sahluko.

4. Imigomo kufanele ivumelane nezimo

Kungani ukuguquguquka kubaluleke kangaka? Kunezizathu ezimbalwa zalokhu. Okokuqala, asikho isidingo sokwenza uhlelo oluqinile oluzokuminyanisa. Isibonelo, uma uhlela ukujima ukuze uthuthukise impilo yakho, ungashintsha izikhathi zakho nezinhlobo zokuzivocavoca isonto lonke ukuze ungacikeki. Umqeqeshi wokuzivocavoca onolwazi uzokusiza ukuthi udale uhlelo oluthokozisayo, oluhlukahlukene oluqinisekisiwe ukuletha umphumela oyifunayo.

Futhi nasi isizathu sesibili: uhlelo oluguquguqukayo lukunikeza inkululeko yokukhetha isiqondiso somnyakazo uqonde emgomweni wakho uma umbono omusha uvela enqubweni yokwenza uhlelo lwakho. Kodwa qaphela. Osomabhizinisi baziwa ngokuthi bavame ukuphazamiseka futhi balahlekelwe ukugxila. Khumbula, ungagxili kuwo wonke amasu amasha — gxila kowodwa noma emibili engakwenza ujabule futhi ucebe.

5. Imigomo kufanele ijabulise futhi ithembise

Eminyakeni embalwa ngemuva kokuqala ibhizinisi elisha, osomabhizinisi abaningi balahlekelwa umdlandla wabo wokuqala bese bephenduka abadlali nabaphathi. Iningi lomsebenzi liba yisicefe kubo.

Ngokuzibekela imigomo ethakazelisayo nethembisayo, ungasusa isithukuthezi. Ukuze wenze lokhu, ziphoqelele ukuthi ushiye indawo yakho yokunethezeka. Cishe kuzokwethusa: emva kwakho konke, awukwazi ukuthi uzokwazi yini "ukuphuma emanzini omile" esikhathini esizayo. Okwamanje, lapho ungakhululekile, ufunda okwengeziwe ngempilo kanye nekhono lakho lokuphumelela. Ngokuvamile ukuphumelela okukhulu kwenzeka lapho sesaba.

U-John Goddard, umhloli wamazwe odumile nomhambi, i-Reader's Digest eyambiza ngokuthi «the real Indiana Jones,» uyisibonelo esiphelele saleli qhinga. Lapho eneminyaka eyishumi nanhlanu, wahlala phansi futhi wenza uhlu lwemigomo yempilo ethakazelisa kakhulu engu-127 angathanda ukuyifinyelela. Nansi eminye yayo: hlola imifula eyisishiyagalombili emikhulu emhlabeni, okuhlanganisa iNayile, i-Amazon kanye neCongo; khuphuka iziqongo eziyi-16 eziphakeme kakhulu, ezihlanganisa i-Everest, iMount Kenya kanye neMount Matterhorn e-Alps; funda ukushayela indiza; ukuzungeza umhlaba (ekugcineni wakwenza izikhathi ezine), ukuvakashela amaPole aseNyakatho naseNingizimu; funda iBhayibheli kusukela ekuqaleni kuye ekugcineni; funda ukudlala umtshingo neviolin; funda isiko lakudala lamazwe ayi-12, okuhlanganisa iBorneo, iSudan neBrazil. Lapho eneminyaka engamashumi amahlanu ubudala, wayesefinyelele imigomo engaphezu kwe-100 ohlwini lwakhe.

Lapho ebuzwa ukuthi yini eyamshukumisela ukuba ahlanganise uhlu oluhlaba umxhwele kangaka kwasekuqaleni, waphendula: “Izizathu ezimbili. Okokuqala, ngakhuliswa abantu abadala ababelokhu bengitshela okufanele nokungafanele ngikwenze ekuphileni. Okwesibili, ngangingafuni ukuqaphela lapho ngineminyaka engamashumi amahlanu ubudala ukuthi empeleni angizuzanga lutho.”

Ngeke ukwazi ukuzibekela imigomo efana neka-John Goddard, kodwa ungazibekeli ezenzweni ezimaphakathi. Cabanga kakhulu! Zibekele imigomo ekuthwebulayo kangangokuthi kuzoba nzima ukuthi ulale ebusuku.

6. Imigomo yakho kumele ihambisane nezimiso zakho.

I-Synergy and flow: lawa amagama amabili achaza inqubo ehamba ngokuzikhandla ekuqedeni. Uma imigomo ebekiwe ihambisana namanani akho ayisisekelo, indlela yokuvumelana okunjalo iyaqaliswa. Yiziphi izimiso zakho ezibalulekile? Yilokhu okuseduze nawe futhi kuzwakala ekujuleni komphefumulo wakho. Lezi izinkolelo eziyisisekelo ezilolonge umlingiswa wakho eminyakeni edlule. Ngokwesibonelo, ukwethembeka nobuqotho. Uma wenza okuphambene nalezi zimiso, intuition yakho noma "umqondo wesithupha" kukukhumbuza ukuthi kukhona okungalungile!

Ake sithi uboleke imali eningi, futhi kufanele uyibuyisele. Lesi simo cishe asibekezeleleki. Ngelinye ilanga umngane wakho uthi, “Ngicabange ukuthi singayenza kanjani imali kalula. Asiphuce ibhange! Nginohlelo oluhle kakhulu - singakwenza ngemizuzu engamashumi amabili. Manje unenkinga. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, isifiso sokuthuthukisa isimo sezezimali sinamandla kakhulu futhi isilingo semali "elula" sikhulu. Kodwa-ke, uma inani lakho elibizwa ngokuthi «ukwethembeka» linamandla kunesifiso sakho sokuthola imali ngale ndlela, ngeke uphuce ibhange ngoba uyazi ukuthi alilungile.

Futhi noma ngabe umngane wakho enekhono elihle lokusikisela futhi ekuqinisekisa ukuthi ugebenga, ngemuva kokuthi "icala" uzobonakala uvutha ngaphakathi. Yile ndlela ukwethembeka kwakho okuzosabela ngayo. Icala lizokuhlupha unomphela.

Ukwenza izimiso zakho ezibalulekile zibe zinhle, zithakazelise, futhi zibe nenjongo kwenza izinqumo zibe lula. Ngeke kube khona ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi okukubuyisela emuva, kuzoba nesikhuthazo esizokusunduzela empumelelweni enkulu.

7. Imigomo kumele ilingane

Uma bekufanele uphile impilo yakho futhi, yini obungayenza ngendlela ehlukile? Uma abantu abaneminyaka engaphezu kwamashumi ayisishiyagalombili bebuzwa lo mbuzo, abalokothi bathi, "Ngizochitha isikhathi esiningi ehhovisi, noma ngangivame ukuya emihlanganweni yekomidi."

Cha: esikhundleni salokho, bayavuma manje ukuthi bangathanda ukuhamba kakhulu, bachithe isikhathi nomndeni, bazijabulise. Ngakho-ke, lapho uzibekela imigomo, qiniseka ukuthi ihlanganisa nezinto ezikuvumela ukuba ujabulele ukuphila. Ukusebenza ngokukhathala kuyindlela eqinisekile yokulahlekelwa impilo. Ukuphila kufushane kakhulu ukuba ungaphuthelwa okuhle.

8. Imigomo kufanele ibe namaqiniso

Uma uthi nhlá, lokhu kubonakala kuphikisana neseluleko sangaphambilini sokucabanga okukhulu. Kodwa ukuhlobana neqiniso kuzozuza imiphumela engcono. Abantu abaningi bazibekela imigomo engenangqondo ngokwenani lesikhathi esisithathayo ukuze bayifinyelele. Khumbula lokhu okulandelayo:

Azikho izinjongo ezingenangqondo, kunezinsuku zokugcina ezingenangqondo!

Uma wenza u-$30 ngonyaka futhi umgomo wakho uwukuba usozigidi ezinyangeni ezintathu, lokho akulona iqiniso. Umthetho omuhle wesithupha lapho uhlela amabhizinisi ukuvumela isikhathi esiphindwe kabili sesigaba sokuqala sokuthuthukiswa kwephrojekthi njengoba ucabanga. Kuzodingeka ukuze kuxazululwe izinkinga zomthetho, ubunzima bokuphatha, izinkinga zezimali, nezinye izici eziningi.

Kwesinye isikhathi abantu bazibekela imigomo eyimihle kakhulu. Uma ungamafidi ayisithupha ubude, cishe ngeke ube ngumdlali webhasikithi okhokhelwayo. Ngakho-ke, yiba njenge-pragmatic ngangokunokwenzeka futhi udale isithombe esicacile sekusasa lakho. Qiniseka ukuthi uhlelo lwakho lungokoqobo futhi unikeze isikhathi esanele sokuluqeda.

9. Imigomo idinga umzamo

Isisho seBhayibheli esaziwayo sithi: “Noma yini umuntu ayihlwanyelayo, uyovuna yona futhi” (Gal. 6:7). Leli yiqiniso eliyisisekelo. Kubonakala sengathi uma uhlwanyela izinto ezinhle kuphela futhi uzenza njalo, uzoqinisekiswa umvuzo. Akuyona inketho embi, akunjalo?

Ngeshwa, abaningi balabo abalwela impumelelo - ngokuvamile okuqondwa njengemali nezinto ezibonakalayo - bayageja uphawu. Asikho isikhathi esanele noma indawo ezimpilweni zabo zokubuyisela kubantu. Ngamanye amazwi, bathatha kuphela futhi banike lutho njengembuyiselo. Uma uthatha njalo kuphela, ekugcineni uzolahlekelwa.

Ziningi izindlela zokuphana. Ungabelana ngesikhathi, isipiliyoni kanye, vele, imali. Ngakho-ke, faka into enjalo ohlelweni lwakho lomgomo. Kwenze ngokungenasithakazelo. Ungalindeli imiklomelo esheshayo. Konke kuzokwenzeka ngesikhathi esifanele futhi, cishe, ngendlela ebingalindelekile.