Ingabe kukhona ukuxhumana phakathi kokudliwa kwenyama nempumelelo ebhizinisini nempilo? Ngempela, abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi inyama inikeza amandla, isibindi, umsebenzi, ukubekezela. Nganquma ukucabanga ukuthi ngabe lokhu kunjalo, futhi kanjani ukuba imifino - ayini amathuba abo okuphumelela futhi kuphi amandla? Sizohlaziya izingxenye eziyinhloko zobuntu obuphumelelayo, futhi sithole ukuthi obani abazalwa kakhulu - abadla imifino noma inyama.
Ngokungangabazeki, umsebenzi kanye nesinyathelo kuyisisekelo, ngaphandle kwalokho okunzima ukucabanga ukufeza imigomo. Kunombono wokuthi ukudla kwemifino kwenza umuntu abe “nomzimba othambile” kakhulu futhi angenzi lutho, okuthinta nakanjani impumelelo yakhe. Futhi, ngokuphambene nalokho, abadla inyama babonakala bebonakala ngokuphila okusebenzayo. Kulezi zitatimende, likhona iqiniso elithile, kodwa kufanele sithole ukuthi hlobo luni lomsebenzi esikhuluma ngawo.
Umsebenzi wabantu abadla inyama unomlingiswa okhethekile. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi isilwane sibhekana nokucindezeleka okukhulu ngaphambi kokufa, futhi inani elikhulu le-adrenaline likhishwa egazini laso. Ukwesaba, ulaka, isifiso sokubaleka, ukuvikela, ukuhlasela - konke lokhu kudala umngcele wezinga eliphezulu lamahomoni egazini lesilwane. Futhi kukule fomu lapho inyama ingena khona ekudleni kwabantu. Ukuyidla, umuntu uthola isizinda se-hormonal esifanayo emzimbeni wakhe. Isifiso sokwenza isenzo sixhunywe nalokhu - umzimba udinga ukusabalalisa inani elikhulu le-adrenaline endaweni ethile, ngaphandle kwalokho isenzo saso sizobe sihlose ukuzibhubhisa futhi ekugcineni sibangele ukugula (okuyinto, ngeshwa, evame ukwenzeka). Ngakho, umsebenzi wokudla inyama uyaphoqeleka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lo msebenzi uvame ukuba senqenqemeni yobudlova, okuyinto, futhi, ngenxa yesifiso esifayo sesilwane sokuhlasela egameni lokusindisa impilo yaso. Abantu umsebenzi wabo ucasulwa ukudla inyama, "ukufeza" izinhloso zabo, kodwa "ungafinyeleli" kuzo. Ngokuvamile yibo abanokuziphatha okuhle "Ukufeza umgomo, zonke izindlela zilungile." Abadla imifino abanayo i-doping enamandla kangaka, futhi ngokuvamile kufanele bazikhuthaze. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, njengoba isidingo sabo sokuthatha isinyathelo akusona esingokomzimba, kodwa ngokwengqondo, amaphrojekthi abadla imifino abatshala kuwo avame ukuthandwa futhi ayathakazelisa kubo. Kodwa indlela ephumelelayo yempumelelo ithi: “Uthando ngomsebenzi wakho + ukukhuthala + ukubekezela.”
Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ngokuyinhloko zihlobanisa impumelelo nokuzethemba kanye nokuzethemba okukhulu. Ukuze sibhekane naleli phuzu, sidinga ukwethula umqondo we "predator psychology". Lapho umuntu edla inyama, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyayifuna noma cha, i-psyche yakhe ithola izici ze-psyche yesilwane esizingelayo. Futhi ngempela imvelo yokuzethemba nokuzethemba okukhulu, ngoba umhlaseli ongaqinisekanga ngamakhono akhe uzomane afe, engakwazi ukuzitholela ukudla kwakhe. Kodwa futhi, lokhu ukuzethemba kuwukwenziwa, kungeniswa emzimbeni kusuka ngaphandle, futhi akudalwanga ekuhloleni impumelelo yomuntu noma ngokuzithuthukisa. Ngakho-ke, ukuzethemba komuntu odla inyama ngokuvamile akuzinzile futhi kudinga ukuqiniswa njalo - i-neurosis ekhethekile yabantu abadla inyama ibonakala, ehlala efakazela okuthile kumuntu. Umonakalo omkhulu wokuzethemba ubangelwa ukuqonda ukuthi ngenxa yempilo yakho othile uyafa - kungenasidingo, ezimeni zokuchichima kwe-gastronomic. Abantu abaqaphelayo ukuthi bayimbangela yokufa komuntu baba nomuzwa wecala ongaqondakali futhi ngokuvamile bazibheka njengabangakufanelekeli ukunqoba nempumelelo, okuthinta ukuzethemba.
Ngendlela, uma umuntu evikela ilungelo lakhe lokudla inyama ngenkuthalo nangobudlova, ngokuvamile lokhu kubonisa ukuba khona komuzwa wecala ojulile, ongazi lutho. Ku-psychology, lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi umphumela wokuqashelwa. Ngakho-ke, uma umuntu eqiniseka ngo-100% ukuthi uqinisile, wayekhuluma ngakho ngokuthula nangokuthula, ngaphandle kokufakazela lutho kunoma ubani. Lapha, yiqiniso, abantu abadla imifino basesimweni esizuzisa kakhulu - ukuqaphela ukuthi uphila indlela yokuphila engaholeli ekufeni kwezilwane kungaphakamisa ukuzethemba, kwakha umuzwa wokuzihlonipha. Uma umuzwa wokuzethemba uthuthukile ngenxa yokuphumelela, umsebenzi ojulile wangaphakathi, hhayi ngenxa ye-"psychology ye-predator" ezuziwe, khona-ke unalo lonke ithuba lokugcina lo muzwa wokuphila futhi uqiniswe ngokwengeziwe. kuyo.
Futhi, esinye sezici eziyisisekelo zomuntu ukuze azuze impumelelo amandla. Ngenxa yakhe, umuntu uyakwazi ukutshala umzamo ebhizinisini isikhathi eside, ukuletha lolu daba ekupheleni. Lapha, abadla imifino banenzuzo ebonakalayo! Kukangaki kwadingeka sinqobe izilingo, ngezinye izikhathi sihlale silambile. Ukwenqaba ogogo nomama abathandekayo, ukuvikela isikhundla sabo phambi kwabantu abangaqondi. Ngokuvamile, kanye nokwenqatshwa kwenyama kufika isifiso sokuyeka utshwala, izidakamizwa, ugwayi futhi uqale ukuphila ngendlela efanele, enempilo. Intando yomuntu odla imifino ishintsha njalo. Futhi kanye nakho, ukukhetha, ukuqwashisa nokuhlanzeka kwengqondo kuyathuthuka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umuntu odla imifino ngokuvamile unomuzwa wokuthi akudingeki ahlangane nesixuku futhi "aphile njengawo wonke umuntu", ngoba uye wafakazela ngokuphindaphindiwe ilungelo lakhe lokuhola indlela yokuphila ayibheka njengelungile. Ngakho-ke, kungenzeka ukuthi agweme ukubandlulula okuvamile okuvimbela ukuthuthukiswa nokusetshenziswa kwawo wonke amathuba.
Kufanele futhi ukusho ukuthi nakuba abantu abadla imifino kufanele benze umzamo omkhulu ukuze bathole impumelelo, amaphrojekthi abawaholayo ngokuvamile abonisa umhlaba wabo wangaphakathi, anobuhlakani, anesimilo futhi awavamile. Ngokuvamile azinqunywa isidingo sokuphila, azilona ibhizinisi kuphela ngenxa yemali. Lokhu kusho ukuthi impumelelo yabo izoba ephelele kunenzuzo nje. Phela impumelelo iwukuzazi, injabulo yokunqoba, ukwaneliseka emsebenzini owenziwe, ukuqiniseka ukuthi umsebenzi wakho uzuzisa umhlaba.
Uma sengeza kule mpilo enhle, umzimba nengqondo ehlanzekile, ukungabikho kobunzima ekugayeni ukudla, khona-ke sinamathuba onke okuphumelela.
Ake ngengeze amathiphu ambalwa nezinqubo zokuzenzela ezizosiza ekunqobeni iziqongo ezihlosiwe:
- Zivumele ukuthi wenze iphutha. Ilungelo langaphakathi lokwenza iphutha liyisisekelo sempumelelo! Lapho wenza iphutha, ungazibandakanyi ekuzishayeni indiva kanye nokwehlisa izinga lemizamo, cabanga ngalokho ongabonga ngakho ngokwenzekile, yiziphi izifundo ongazifunda nokuthi yimaphi amaphuzu amahle ongawaqokomisa.
- Ukudla okuvuselela umsebenzi kanye nokudla okunzima, okushisayo, okusawoti, okumuncu nokudla okubabayo. Uma kungekho ukuphikisana, ungangeza ekudleni kwakho: izinongo ezishisayo, ezishisayo, ushizi onzima, izithelo ze-citrus ezimuncu.
– Uma kunzima ukucabanga ukuthi yini ongayenza ukuze ufinyelele umgomo, qala okungenani wenze okuthile. Ngakho ungadla i-apula nsuku zonke ukuze uthole imoto yamaphupho akho. Lokhu kuchazwa kalula - i-psyche yakho izoqala ukulungisa imizamo futhi ngokwayo izoqondisa ingqondo engenalutho ekufuneni indlela yokuthola lokho okufunayo. Okubizwa ngokuthi "umzamo omkhulu" kuphumelela ikakhulukazi - isibonelo, ukupompa umshini wokunyathelisa emkhawulweni wamakhono akho (okuncane kunomkhawulo) ukuze ufeze umgomo.
- Kubaluleke kakhulu ukufunda indlela yokusebenza nemizwa engemihle. Ngokuzicindezela, sivimba amandla ethu, sizincishe ubungqabavu. Uma esimweni sokungqubuzana kwakungenakwenzeka ukuzimela, kuyadingeka "ukuyeka umusi", okungenani ube wedwa ekhaya - ukushaya umcamelo, ukuxhawula izandla, ukugoqa, ukuthuka, ukumemeza. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma esimweni sokungqubuzana kufanele ukhethe ifomu, khona-ke ekhaya akukho mingcele futhi ungakwazi ukuveza intukuthelo ngendlela isilo noma umuntu wasendulo angayenza ngayo, futhi ngaleyo ndlela uzihlanze emizweni ecindezelwe ngo-100%. Kukhona ukuxhumana okuphelele phakathi kwelungelo lokuzimela, ikhono lokuveza ukungabi nandaba nempumelelo.
- Ukwandisa ukuzethemba, ungangabazi ukuzincoma futhi uziqhenye ngezimpumelelo zakho - kokubili okubalulekile nezansuku zonke. Yenza uhlu lwezinto ozifezile empilweni yakho futhi uqhubeke ukwengeza kukho.
Hlala ngokweqiniso kuwe futhi uwine! Sikufisela inhlanhla!
Anna Polin, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo.