Ubani onecala lokudubula enkulisa: udokotela wengqondo uyaphikisana

Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule, indoda eneminyaka engu-26 ubudala yahlasela inkulisa esifundeni sase-Ulyanovsk. Abashonile bekungumsizi kathisha (osindile ekulimaleni), uthisha ngokwakhe nezingane ezimbili. Abantu abaningi bayabuza: kungani inhloso yokudubula yaba yinkulisa? Ingabe unalo ukulimala okuhlobene nalesi sikhungo? Ingabe kukhona okwakungamcasula? Ngokusho kochwepheshe, lesi yisiqondiso esingalungile sokucabanga - imbangela yenhlekelele kumele ifunwe kwenye indawo.

Ingabe umbulali wayenenhloso ethile? Ingabe ukukhetha kwezingane njengezisulu kuyizibalo ezibandayo noma ingozi edabukisayo? Futhi kungani odokotela nomndeni wokudubula benomthwalo wemfanelo okhethekile? Mayelana nakho abazali.ru wakhuluma nodokotela wengqondo u-Alina Evdokimova.

Umcibisholo motif

Ngokusho kochwepheshe, kulokhu, umuntu akufanele akhulume ngohlobo oluthile lwesisusa, kodwa mayelana nokugula kwengqondo kombulali - lesi yisizathu esenza ukuthi enze ubugebengu. Futhi kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi i-schizophrenia.

“Iqiniso lokuthi izisulu kwakuyizingane ezimbili nomzanyana liyingozi edabukisayo,” kugcizelela udokotela wengqondo. - Izingane kanye nensimu akuhlangene nakho, akufanele ufune ubuhlobo. Uma isiguli sinombono ongasile ekhanda laso, siqondiswa amazwi, futhi asiqapheli izenzo zaso.

Lokhu kusho ukuthi kokubili indawo kanye nezisulu zenhlekelele bakhethwa ngaphandle kwenhloso. Umdubuli ubengafuni "ukudlulisa" noma "ukusho" noma yini ngesenzo sakhe - futhi ubengahlasela isitolo segrosa noma indawo yeshashalazi eyenzeka endleleni yakhe.

Ubani onecala ngokwenzekile

Uma umuntu ethatha izikhali futhi ehlasela abanye, akanacala yini? Ngokungangabazeki. Kodwa kuthiwani uma egula futhi engakwazi ukulawula ukuziphatha kwakhe? Kulokhu, umthwalo wemfanelo ungodokotela nomkhaya wakhe.

Ngokusho kukamama womdubuli, ngemuva kwebanga lesi-8 wahoxa kuye: wayeka ukuxhumana nabanye, washintshela esikoleni sasekhaya futhi wabonwa esibhedlela sezengqondo. Futhi lapho esekhulile, wayeka ukubhekwa. Yebo, ngokwamaphepha, le ndoda yavakashela udokotela wengqondo izikhathi ezintathu ngonyaka odlule - ngoJulayi, Agasti noSeptemba. Kodwa empeleni, njengoba unina evuma, sekunesikhathi eside engakhulumi namuntu.

Lithini? Iqiniso lokuthi ukubonwa kwesiguli kwakusemthethweni, futhi kusuka ezinhlangothini ezimbili. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abasebenzi besikhungo sezokwelapha, cishe, bebenganaki emsebenzini wabo. Ukuqapha isiguli, ngokusho kuka-Alina Evdokimova, ukuvimbela okuyinhloko kokwenza izenzo eziyingozi emphakathini. Nge-schizophrenia, indoda kwakudingeka ivakashele udokotela okungenani kanye ngenyanga, futhi iphuze amaphilisi noma inikeze imijovo. Eqinisweni, kusobala ukuthi wakhishelwa ukuba khona ngisho nalapho engazange alashwe.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuqhubeka kwalesi sifo nokuthi isiguli siyelashwa noma cha kwakufanele kuqashwe izihlobo.

Phela, iqiniso lokuthi indoda idinga usizo, umama wakhe kwakufanele aqonde kusukela ekuziphatheni kwakhe kudala - lapho kufanele abhalise indodana yakhe kudokotela wezengqondo esemncane. Kodwa ngesizathu esithile wanquma ukungakuvumi noma ukukushaya indiva ukuxilongwa. Futhi, ngenxa yalokho, akazange aqale ukusiza ngokwelashwa.

Ngeshwa, njengoba uchwepheshe ephawula, ukuziphatha okunjalo akuvamile. Ezinhlekeleleni ezinjalo, abazali abaningi bathi babengasoli ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle ngendodana noma endodakazini yabo—nakuba bebona ushintsho ekuziphatheni kwabo. Futhi lena inkinga enkulu. 

“Ezimweni ezingu-70%, izihlobo ziyaphika ukuthi abantu ababathandayo bayaphazamiseka emqondweni futhi bavimbele ukubonwa kwabo emtholampilo. Yikho-ke okufanele sisebenze - ukuze izihlobo zabagula ngengqondo zikhulume ngesimo sabo, zifune ukwelashwa ngesikhathi, ziyeke ukuba namahloni futhi zifihle amakhanda esihlabathini. Futhi-ke, mhlawumbe, inani lobugebengu obenziwa abantu abagula ngengqondo lizokwehla. ”

Umthombo: abazali.ru

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