Abazali banokuningi okufanele bakufunde ezinganeni zabo, umqeqeshi webhizinisi uNina Zvereva uqinisekile. Lapho sikhula, kuba nzima nakakhulu ukubona okusha. Futhi sivame ukukhohlwa ukuthi sinabasizi abakhulu ekubambeni ulwazi olusha - izingane zethu. Into esemqoka ukungalahlekelwa ukuxhumana futhi ube nesithakazelo empilweni yabo.
Izingane zingabafundisi abakhulu. Bayazi ukuthi basithatha kanjani ngokwezwi lethu, ngakho-ke kufanele ucabangisise ngaphambi kokuthembisa okuthile. Bayakwazi ukucela ukwenza into esingakaze siyenze ngaphambili.
Ngikhumbula ukuthi ebusuku mina nomyeni wami sasisika futhi sithunga izincwadi ezincane zonodoli bakaKatya ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa. Akabuzanga nokubuza. Wayethanda ngempela imininingwane emincane enjalo, wayethanda ukudlala onodoli "empilweni yabantu abadala". Yilokho esikuzamile. Isikhwama sethu esincane esinezincwadi zokubhalela zikanodoli sesicishe saba yisipho esihle kunazo zonke emhlabeni!
Kimina kwakuyisivivinyo. Bekulokhu kulula kimi ukuhaya inkondlo kunoku-ayina ingubo yengane ngama-frills. Ukwenza amakhekheba eqhwa ngamaholide enkulisa kwakuyisijeziso sangempela - angizange ngifunde ukuwenza. Kodwa ngenza i-herbarium yamaqabunga ekwindla ngenjabulo!
Ngaze ngafunda nokuhlanza amafasitela amakhulu ekilasini, nakuba ngake ngacishe ngawa ngisuka esitezi sesine, kwethusa lonke ithimba labazali. Ngabe sengithunywa ngokuhlonishwa ukuthi ngiyowasha amadeski ezivumelwaneni ezahlukene zothando namanye amagama angafuni ukushabalala.
Zakhula izingane. Bavele bayeka ukuthanda ukudla okunamafutha, ngafunda ukupheka ukudla okudliwayo. Baphinde bakhulume isiNgisi esihle kakhulu, futhi kwadingeka ngisebenze kanzima ukuze ngikhumbule yonke imishwana endala yesiNgisi futhi ngifunde entsha. Ngendlela, isikhathi eside nganginamahloni ukukhuluma isiNgisi enkampanini yezingane zami. Kodwa bangisekela ngemfudumalo, bangincoma kakhulu futhi ngezikhathi ezithile bashintsha ngokucophelela imishwana engaphumeleli babe enembe kakhudlwana.
“Mama,” indodakazi yami endala yangitshela, “akudingeki usebenzise “ngiyafuna”, kungcono ukuthi “ngingathanda”. Ngizame konke okusemandleni ami, futhi manje sengikhuluma isiNgisi esihloniphekile. Futhi konke sibonga izingane. UNelya washada nomHindu, futhi ngaphandle kwesiNgisi, besingeke sikwazi ukuxhumana noPranab esimthanda kakhulu.
Izingane azifundisi abazali ngokuqondile, izingane zikhuthaza abazali ukuba bafunde. Ukube ngoba kungenjalo bebengeke babe nesithakazelo kithi. Futhi kusesekuseni kakhulu ukuba nje into ekhathazayo, futhi angifuni. Ngakho-ke, umuntu kufanele afunde izincwadi akhuluma ngazo, abuke amafilimu awancomayo. Isikhathi esiningi kuba yinto enhle kakhulu, kodwa hhayi njalo.
Siyizizukulwane ezihlukene nabo, lokhu kubalulekile. Ngendlela, uKatya wangitshela ngalokhu ngokuningiliziwe, walalela inkulumo ejulile ethakazelisayo mayelana nemikhuba nemikhuba yalabo abaneminyaka engu-20-40-60. Futhi sahleka, ngoba kwavela ukuthi mina nomyeni wami siyisizukulwane “sokufanele,” izingane zethu ziyisizukulwane “sokungakwazi,” futhi abazukulu bethu bayisizukulwane “engisithandayo” — kukhona “angifuni” phakathi kwabo. bona.
Abasivumeli siguge zingane zethu. Bagcwalisa impilo ngenjabulo nomoya omusha wemibono emisha nezifiso.
Yonke imibhalo yami - amakholomu nezincwadi - ngithumela ezinganeni ukuze zibuyekezwe, futhi kudala ngaphambi kokushicilelwa. Ngaba nenhlanhla: abagcini ngokufunda ngokucophelela imibhalo yesandla, kodwa futhi babhala ukubuyekezwa okuningiliziwe ngamazwana emaphethelweni. Incwadi yami yokugcina ethi, “Bafuna Ukuxhumana Nami,” inikezelwe ezinganeni zethu ezintathu, ngoba ngemva kokubuyekezwa engakuthola, ngashintsha ngokuphelele isakhiwo nomqondo wencwadi, futhi yaba ngcono ngokuphindwe kayikhulu futhi yesimanje ngenxa ye lokhu.
Abasivumeli siguge zingane zethu. Bagcwalisa impilo ngenjabulo nomoya omusha wemibono emisha nezifiso. Ngicabanga ukuthi minyaka yonke baba yiqembu lokusekela elibaluleke kakhulu, ongathembela kulo.
Kukhona nabantu abadala nabazukulu abancane. Futhi bafunde kakhulu futhi bahlakaniphe kakhulu kunathi ngeminyaka yabo. Kulo nyaka e-dacha, umzukulu wami omdala uzongifundisa ukupheka izitsha ze-gourmet, ngibheke phambili kulezi zifundo. Umculo engingazidawuniloda wona ngizowudlala, ngafundiswa indodana yami. Futhi kusihlwa ngizodlala i-Candy Crash, igeyimu ye-elekthronikhi eyinkimbinkimbi futhi ejabulisayo engangitholela yona umzukulu wami waseNdiya uPiali eminyakeni emithathu edlule.
Bathi uthisha oshonelwe umfundi kuyena mubi. Ngeqembu lami lokusekela, ngithemba ukuthi angikho engozini.