Ingane ngayinye ihlukile, ayifani, ngayinye ihlukile kwezinye. Noma kunjalo, ezinye izingane zifana kakhulu kunezinye. Bakhetha imidlalo efanayo, banezinto zokuzilibazisa ezifanayo, isimo sengqondo esifanayo soku-oda, ezemidlalo, umsebenzi wesikole, basabela cishe ngendlela efanayo ekucindezelekeni, enjabulweni noma ekuxabaneni. Iqiniso lokuthi izingane zinohlobo lokuziphatha olufanayo noma oluhluke kakhulu alincikile eminyakeni noma ezingeni lobudlelwano, kodwa kuhlobo lobuntu.
Kunezinhlobo ezine eziyinhloko:
- imvelo ethintekayo, ezwelayo;
- ingane enengqondo, eyisibopho;
- uhlobo olusha lwemizwa;
- umhleli wamasu
Ngokwalo, uhlobo ngalunye lunengqondo futhi luyinto evamile ngokuphelele. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sesikole u-Christina Kanial-Urban uthuthukise le typology yengane phakathi neminyaka yakhe eminingi yokuzijwayeza.
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi lezi zinhlobo cishe azenzeki ngendlela yazo ehlanzekile. Ngezinye izikhathi lawa amafomu axubile (ikakhulukazi, emvelo ebucayi kanye nengane eyisibopho), kodwa ngokuvamile kuba nokubonakala okuphawulekayo kolunye lwalezi zinhlobo. Kuyafaneleka ukuthola ukuthi ingane yakho ikuliphi iqembu.
Lokhu kuzosiza ukuhlola kangcono ingane yakho, amakhono akhe, ubuthakathaka bakhe futhi uzicabangele ngokuzwela okukhulu.
Enganeni, into embi kakhulu uma ukukhuliswa kwakhe kuphikisana nohlobo lwakhe lobuntu, ngoba ngale ndlela, njengokungathi, uthola umlayezo: iqiniso lokuthi ufana nalokhu akuyona into evamile. Lokhu kuyayidida ingane futhi kungaholela nasekuguleni. Ngokuphambene nalokho, ukuba umzali ngokohlobo lobuntu kuzosiza ingane ukuba ikhule kahle, iqinise amandla ayo, ithole umuzwa wokuzethemba nokulondeka. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu uma kunezinkinga ezinkulu nezincane: izinkinga nabangani, esikoleni, ukuhlukana nabazali, ukulahlekelwa othandekayo.
Sizochaza izinhlobo ezine zobuntu ekubonakalisweni kwazo okuyinhloko futhi sibonise indlela engcono kakhulu yokubhekana nengane yohlobo oluhambisanayo.
imvelo ebucayi
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Le yingane enobudlelwane, ezwelayo, enokuqonda okuthuthukile. Udinga ukusondelana nabanye abantu, nomndeni, nontanga. Ufuna ukuxhumana eduze nabo, ukunakekela abanye, ukubapha izipho. Futhi wazi okwengeziwe ngabo. Wayengumuntu wesifazane onjani ukhokho wami? Wayephila kanjani umkhulu esengumfanyana?
Izingane zalolu hlobo zijabulela izinganekwane nezindaba ezahlukene, ngakho zingabalaleli abamangalisayo nabaxoxi bezindaba abahle. Ngokuvamile baqala ukukhuluma kusenesikhathi, bayakwazi kakhulu ukufundisa izilimi zakwamanye amazwe. Emidlalweni yokulingisa, bangene shi endimeni yabo. Okufanayo kusebenza emhlabeni wefantasy. Akufanele bashiywe bodwa phambi kwe-TV: bazihlanganisa nabalingisi kangangokuthi ngezikhathi ezimangalisayo zesenzo badinga ukusekelwa. Izingane zalolu hlobo zifuna ngempela ukuthandwa nokwazisa, zidinga njalo ukuqinisekiswa ukuthi ziyinto ekhethekile, eyigugu.
Lapho kuba nzima
Kunzima ngemvelo ebucayi ukudweba umugqa phakathi kwami naWE. "Bayahlanganisa", begeleza ngokoqobo kumuntu othandekayo. Lokhu kubabeka engcupheni yokuzidela futhi bancibilike ngokuphelele ebuntwini bomunye - ngoba babheka okuhle lokho umuntu amthandayo akubheka njengokuhle. Ngenxa yalokhu, bakhohlwa kalula ngezidingo zabo. Emindenini ebheka kakhulu ezemidlalo neminye imisebenzi esebenzayo, ingane ezwela ngokuvamile izizwa ingenakuzisiza. Kulokhu, udinga umuntu omdala onomqondo ofanayo nofana naye.
Usabela kanjani enkingeni?
Usefuna ukusondelana nabanye ngaphezu kokujwayelekile, abambelele ngokoqobo kubo. Abanye basabela ngokufutheka kwemizwelo, ukukhala nokukhala. Abanye bayahoxa, bahlupheke buthule. Abaningi bangene shi emhlabeni wemicabango yabo.
Isitayela esifanele somzali
Ngezinsuku zaphakathi nesonto nasezinkingeni: imvelo ebucayi idinga umuntu (omunye wabazali, umkhulu noma ugogo) onganikeza isikhala nokudla emcabangweni wakhe, izimfanelo zakhe zobuntu. Ngangimtshela izinganekwane, ngidwebe, nginikele emlandweni womndeni.
Ingane enjalo idinga ukuqashelwa amakhono ayo, umuzwa wayo wobuhle (izingubo ezinhle!) kanye nesikhathi sokuphupha emini. Ukugcona obona umbono kusho ukumenzakalisa ngokujulile.
Ngokuvamile izingane ezinjalo zizizwa kahle ezikoleni ezinaka ngokukhethekile ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono okudala abafundi. Badinga induduzo, ukuqinisekiswa, nokusondelana okukhulu ngangokunokwenzeka. Ikakhulukazi ezimweni ezinzima.
Uma lesi sidingo esengeziwe sokusondelana singahlangatshezwana nayo, inkinga iyanda. Ukuncoma komuntu ngamunye okuzwelayo nakho kubalulekile (“Yeka indlela okwenze ngayo!”). Izindaba ezixazulula izinkinga lapho ingane elingana nayo ibhekene nobunzima obufanayo nazo ziyasiza.
ingane entsha
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Ngokuvamile akanaso isikhathi esanele, ngoba umhlaba ujabulisa kakhulu, ugcwele izigigaba, izivivinyo zesibindi. Izingane ezithanda ukuzijabulisa zidinga umsebenzi - cishe ubusuku nemini.
Ziyizimo ezishisekayo, ezinobudlelwane, zazi umhlaba ngayo yonke imizwa yazo. Babhekana kahle nezinkinga, abesabi ukuzifaka engozini, futhi bazimisele ngokuzama. Okungasenandaba kubo, bavele bayeka.
Akumangalisi ukuthi igumbi lezingane zabo livame ukuba nesiphithiphithi. Lapho, eduze nomdlalo wekhompiyutha, noma iyiphi imfucumfucu ingaqamba amanga.
Banesidingo esinamandla sokunyakaza, badla ngokudla, babonise ngokukhululekile imizwa yabo. Izinkinga zabo yilezi: isikhathi (esivame ukufika sekwephuzile), imali (abazi ukuthi basingatha kanjani) kanye nesikole. Banesithukuthezi esikoleni, ngakho baphazamisa amakilasi futhi bavame ukwenza njengosomahlaya ekilasini. Umsebenzi wasekhaya awenziwa noma awenziwa ngokukha phezulu.
Lapho kuba nzima
Emndenini obeka ukubaluleka okukhulu ekuhleleni nasekulawuleni, ingane ezamazama iba nesikhathi esinzima ngoba ihlale ibangela ukucasuka. Ngakho-ke, ingane enjalo ihlupheka kakhulu ohlelweni lwethu lwesikole.
Usabela kanjani enkingeni?
Ukukhathazeka okwengeziwe. Isifiso sokunyakaza siphenduka umsebenzi ongapheli, isidingo sokugqugquzela sibe yi-excitation, ukuhlukahluka kwezithakazelo zibe ukuthatheka. Ezimweni ezinzima, izingane ezinjalo zivame ukulahlekelwa umuzwa wazo wokuzigcina, okubaluleke kakhulu kubo, futhi ngokudumazeka okuncane bawela ekuthukutheleni okunamandla. Ekugcineni, ingane enjalo ingase ibe nobunzima ekukhulumeni nezingane).
Isitayela esifanele somzali
Ukunikeza inkululeko yokuzikhethela emikhawulweni ethile kuyisidingo esiyisisekelo maqondana nohlobo olusha. Imithetho ebophayo nesiqondiso esiqinile kubalulekile, njengoba kunjalo ngokuthintana nontanga (ngisho noma ingane ezenza inhlanhla ifuna ukuzimela). Uma kwenzeka izinkinga esikoleni, umuntu akufanele avimbele, isibonelo, imisebenzi yezemidlalo, kodwa unake kakhulu umbuso nokuhleleka. Izingane ezinjalo zidinga umuntu ozohlanza ikamelo naye, ahlele indawo yokusebenza, azibonise. ungayinikeza kanjani indawo eyamukelekayo ekufuthekeni — ngokwesibonelo, ukusebenzisa isikhwama sokubhoboza ukuze uqeqeshe umshayisibhakela, ukuvivinya umzimba okusebenzayo
ingane ehlakaniphile
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Imvamisa ihlakaniphe kakhulu futhi ihlale yenza ngokucabangela — uhlobo lwengane ekhaliphile. Uhlale ebuza imibuzo eyengeziwe, ufuna ukwazi yonke into kahle, ufuna ukuqonda umhlaba ukuze azizwe eqiniseka.
Noma yimiphi imisebenzi yeqembu nemidlalo enobudlova njengengxenye yeqembu ngokuvamile ayikhangi kakhulu kuye, ukhetha ukuxhumana nomngane, intombi. Noma ngekhompyutha. Igumbi lakhe limapeketwane uma uthi nhlá, kodwa ngokungafani nohlobo lokuzamazama, ngokushesha uthola akudingayo ngoba une-oda lakhe.
Izingane ezihlakaniphile zisheshe ziqale ukuziphatha njengabantu abadala, ngezinye izikhathi zihlakaniphe ngaphezu kweminyaka yazo. Bathanda ukuhlanganyela engxoxweni elinganisiwe ngakho-ke bajoyina ngokuzithandela abantu abadala. Bagxile emiphumeleni futhi baphishekela ezabo izinhloso. Bazenzela izimfuno eziphakeme, balwela ukuzuza okwengeziwe.
Lapho kuba nzima
Ingane ehlakaniphile ayikwazi ubuciko bokujabulisa, ngakho-ke ivame ukubukeka ikhukhumele, ibanda, iba ngumuntu wangaphandle kalula. Kukho konke lokhu, umntwana osengozini kakhulu.
Usabela kanjani enkingeni?
Ngokuvamile umthetho ophakeme kakhulu ezinganeni zalolu hlobo ukuhlala uzolile. Ezikhathini ezinzima, ziba nengqondo nakakhulu, zingayikhiphi imizwelo. Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi, ngokwesibonelo, ngemva kwesehlukaniso sabazali bazo, abantwana abanjalo basaziphatha kahle, kodwa ukuzola kwabo kuwukuzenzisa, kodwa ngokomzwelo bazilimaza ngokwabo. Ngenxa yalokho, balahlekelwa ukuxhumana nabo kanye nabathandekayo babo. Ukuzizwa uhlobo oluthile lokusongela kuzo ngokwazo, izingane ezihlakaniphile zisabela kukho - ngokungalindelekile kwabanye - ngokomzwelo ngokwedlulele, kuze kufike ekufuthekeni kwentukuthelo. Ngokuhluleka, isibonelo esikoleni, balahleka kalula, bezama ukufeza ukuphelela okukhulu, okungase kuphenduke isimo esicindezelayo.
Isitayela esifanele somzali
Lapho bekhula, yilapho ungathembela khona egunyeni, ngoba bazibheka njengegunya elinqumayo. Noma ubani ofuna ukuba enze okuthile udinga ukubakholisa. Baholwa ukuqonda kuphela. Uma kwenzeka ihluleka esikoleni, ingane enjalo idinga ukusekelwa ngokushesha.
Kubalulekile ukugcizelela amakhono akhe ngokuphindaphindiwe, ukuqinisa ukuzethemba kwakhe - nokumchazela ukuthi amaphutha nawo abalulekile, ukuthi ngaphandle kwawo bekungeke kwenzeke ukuqhubekela phambili. Ezimweni ezinzima ezingokomzwelo, abazali bangayisekela ngomusa ingane ngokuqala ingxoxo ngemizwa yabo siqu. Isibonelo: "Ngiphatheke kabi ngalokhu futhi ngicabanga ukuthi nawe ubhekene nento efanayo." Ngokunokwenzeka, uzobheka eceleni, ehlanekezela umlomo wakhe. kodwa sekwanele. Akukho ukubonakaliswa okukhulu kokudabuka okufanele kulindelwe kuye.
Ingane eyimpoqo
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Uye wakwazi ubuciko bokuba usizo. Ukuzizwa ungowomndeni nakho kuyinani eliphakeme kakhulu. Izingane ezinjalo zilwela ukuzuza ukusondelana okukhulu ngokwenza (ngokungafani nohlobo lwemvelo ebucayi) okuthile okunenjongo, okungokoqobo, ukusiza ngokuzithandela endlini, ukuthatha imithwalo yemfanelo ethile (ngokwesibonelo, ukusetha itafula), kodwa kuthanda ukwenza okuthile okwengeziwe. nomama noma nobaba.
Ukhathazeke kakhulu uma benganconywa. Bazivumelanisa kahle nesimiso sesikole nemithetho yaso, ngoba abanankinga nesiyalo, ukukhuthala, ukuhleleka. Kuvela ubunzima lapho, ngesikhathi sabo samahhala, kufanele bakhethe owabo umsebenzi. Lezi izingane ezinengqondo engokoqobo ezikwazi ukuzuza imiphumela evelele. Bathanda amaholide omndeni, banesithakazelo endleleni izihlobo eziziphatha ngayo.
Lapho kuba nzima
Ingane enjalo ithambekele ngokungagxeki, ngaphandle kokucabangisisa kahle, ekwamukeleni imithetho nemibono yabanye abantu. Noma ubani olindele ukuzimela kuye kusenesikhathi, ngaleyo ndlela usetha umsebenzi ongenakwenzeka kuye. Emikhayeni engenawo isimiso esicacile sansuku zonke, ngaphandle kwesikhathi sokudla njalo, amasiko azinzile, umntwana onjalo uzizwa engenakuzisiza, udinga ukuhleleka okucacile.
Usabela kanjani enkingeni?
Uzama ukulalela nakakhulu. Ingane ephoqelekile iziphatha kahle kakhulu, igcwalisa zonke izidingo zangempela noma ezicatshangwayo ngenxa yokwesaba. Ubambelela emasikweni, angase amlethe ezimeni ezicindezelayo, kodwa futhi angasongela: “Uma ngingakwazi ukuvula i-computer, ngizoya kubaba!”
Isitayela esifanele somzali
Ingane enesibopho ikakhulukazi idinga impendulo, ukudunyiswa, ukuqinisekiswa kwamakhono akhe - nemibuzo eqhubekayo mayelana nokuthi yini angathanda. Lokhu kuyadingeka ikakhulukazi ngezikhathi ezinzima. Kuhle ukumnikeza izinketho ezahlukahlukene - ongakhetha kuzo. Abazali kufanele bamnikeze isiqondiso esengeziwe sendlela okufanele yenze ngayo ekuphileni. Ungabeki izimfuno ezeqile kuye maqondana nokuzimela. Kunengqondo uma umsebenzi wakhe wesikole ewenza ngezingxenye nangendlela uthisha achaza ngayo. Lapho kunengxenye enkulu yemisebenzi yamahhala, ingane enjalo ngokuvamile izizwa ingalondekile.
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