Ukusabela ekuthukutheleni okunenkani kufana nokucisha umlilo osuvele uvutha. Ubuciko babazali abukona ukuhlula ingane ngekhono noma ukuphumelela ngokuphumelelayo empini enzima, kodwa ukuqinisekisa ukuthi impi ayiveli, ukuze ingane ingakwenzi umkhuba we-hysteria. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi ukuvimbela ukucasuka, iziqondiso eziyinhloko lapha zimi kanje.
Okokuqala, cabanga ngezizathu. Yini ebangela isiphithiphithi sanamuhla? Isimo kuphela, isizathu esingahleliwe - noma kukhona okuhlelekile lapha okuzophindwa? Ungakwazi ukuziba isimo nokungahleliwe: phumula futhi ukhohlwe. Futhi uma, kubonakala, sikhuluma ngokuthile okungaphinda kuphindwe, udinga ukucabanga ngokujulile. Kungase kube ukuziphatha okungalungile, kungase kube yinkinga. Qonda.
Okwesibili, ziphendule wena umbuzo, ingabe usuyifundisile ingane yakho ukuthi ikulalele. Akukho ukucasuka enganeni abazali abayifundisa ukuyala, abazali bayalalela. Ngakho-ke, fundisa ingane yakho ukuthi ikulalele futhi ikulalele, uqale ngezinto ezilula nezilula kakhulu. Fundisa ingane yakho ngokulandelana, iqonde kusukela kokulula kuye kokunzima. I-algorithm elula "Izinyathelo Eziyisikhombisa":
- Fundisa ingane yakho ukwenza imisebenzi yakho, uqale ngalokho yona efuna ukuzenza.
- Fundisa ingane yakho ukufeza izicelo zakho, uziqinise ngenjabulo.
- Yenza ibhizinisi lakho ngaphandle kokusabela enganeni - kulezo zimo lapho wena ngokwakho uqiniseka ukuthi uqinisile futhi wazi ukuthi wonke umuntu uzokweseka.
- Funa okuncane, kodwa uma wonke umuntu ekusekela.
- Nikeza izabelo ngokuzethemba. Vumela ingane ikwenze lapho kungenzima kuye, noma ngisho nangaphezulu uma ifuna kancane.
- Nikeza imisebenzi enzima nezimele.
- Ukwenza, bese uza uzokhombisa (noma ubike).
Futhi-ke, isibonelo sakho sibalulekile. Ukufundisa ingane uku-oda uma wena ngokwakho unesiphithiphithi ekamelweni futhi etafuleni kuwukuhlola okuphikisana kakhulu. Mhlawumbe awunalo ikhono lezengqondo elanele lalokhu. Uma emndenini wakho i-oda lihlala ezingeni Lesithonjana, i-oda lihlonishwa ngokwemvelo yibo bonke abantu abadala - ingane ingase ibambe umkhuba wokuhleleka ezingeni lokulingisa okuyisisekelo.