Abanye bathi akukho lutho olungalungile ngalokho. Abanye bathi lokhu kuyinkinga yangempela. Futhi abanye bayesaba nje. Sikhuluma ngani? Uhamba kanjani nengane.
Icebo lihlala lidingeka, noma ngabe uhamba ngaphandle kwezingane. Kepha uma ingane inawe emgwaqeni, isinyathelo sokuqala ukwenza uhlu lwazo zonke izinto ezidingekayo. Izingubo, amanabukeni, amanzi, ukudla, amathoyizi, ikhithi yosizo lokuqala - isethi ephansi okufanele ibe nawe. Pakisha lezi zinto ukuze ungazihloli emithwalweni yakho ehloliwe. Kungadingeka unikele ngezinto ezingabalulekile emithwalweni yakho yokuphatha ukuze, ngokwesibonelo, kungabikho ukukhuluphala ngokweqile endizeni.
Kepha, kufanele uvume, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ingane izolile, yanelisekile futhi inentshiseko kuyo yonke indlela. Ngasikhathi sinye, kufanele kube khona "ukuzijabulisa" okuningana, ngoba izingane zidlala umdlalo owodwa kungapheli imizuzu eyi-15. Ungayikhiphi ngasikhathi sinye, vumela into yokumangala ihlale. Ngokushesha nje lapho ama-whims eqala, ngokushesha shintsha isihloko sokufunda.
Lapho ukhetha uhlobo lweholide, khumbula ukuthi ukuvakasha nengane engaphansi kweminyaka eyi-12 ngeke kukukhanyisele. Izingane ziyashesha ukubhoreka ngendaba yomhlahlandlela. Kanye nokubabaza izindawo. Uma ukuzijabulisa kungabandakanyeki, ukuphumula kungaphenduka ukuhlukunyezwa. Awungeke uzungeze idolobha nengane: kunzima (ngeke uphathe ingane kuphela, kodwa nesikhwama “sikamama”), isimo sezulu singashintsha kakhulu, futhi udinga ukukhumbula ngokudlisa. Uhambo olwandle lungcono kakhulu - lapho-ke useduze nehhotela. Uma ufuna ukubona okungaphezulu kogu lolwandle kuphela, zama ukushintshana ngohambo - umama uhlola indawo ezungezile, ubaba uhlala nengane, bese ngokufanayo.
Buza kusengaphambili uma ihhotela linikezela ngezinsizakalo ezilungele umndeni. Amanye amahhotela anama-animators okugcina izingane zijabule ngenkathi abantu abadala bejabulela ichibi, i-spa noma ukudla kwasendaweni. Ikhishi, ngasendleleni, lingafaka nemenyu yezingane.
Kuhle uma kunezinkundla zezemidlalo zezingane, amagumbi okudlala, imishini yokuqasha izingane. Indawo yehhotela nayo ibalulekile - ukusondela esiteshini sesitimela noma esikhumulweni sezindiza, kungcono. Hhayi lokho kuphela, kusukela e-resort, imvamisa sibuya kokusebenzisiweоIzikhwama ezingaphezulu zezikhumbuzo nezipho zawo wonke umndeni nabangane, ngakho-ke engeza lapha amathuba okuma esiminyaminyeni sezimoto nengane yakho.
Ngisho noma uhambela eningizimu ehlobo, isimo sezulu sendawo singahle singabonakali kahle kubahambi abasebasha. Futhi ushintsho olubukhali ezimweni zezulu ngokuvamile luyingcindezi enkulu. Esimweni esihle kakhulu, kuzothatha usuku noma ezimbili ukuze umzimba uvumelane nezimo. Kepha okuncane ingane, kuba lula ukuthi le nqubo ibe ngaye.
Uma kuhlelwa izwe eliyingqayizivele, kungcono ukugoma okudingekayo emasontweni ama-2-3 ngaphambili, kungakadluli isikhathi. Futhi qaphela ngezitsha zasendaweni! Izisu zezingane ezingazijwayele kungenzeka zingakwamukeli ukuphathwa. Abahambi abanokuhlangenwe nakho babuye beluleke ngokuza kwelinye izwe noma idolobha ngesikhathi sokuqhakaza kwezitshalo zasendaweni, ukuze bangabangi ukungezwani komzimba.
Abazali abaningi bathambekele ekukholweni ukuthi kungcono, njengoba besho, ukulala. Umshuwalense wezokwelapha, ikakhulukazi kwelinye izwe, ungasiza kakhulu uma kungazelelwe kunezinkinga ngempilo yengane. Phesheya, ngaphandle kolwazi olushelelayo lolimi, kulula ukudideka. Thola ukuthi amabhange ahlinzeka ngamiphi imibandela, thola leyo ekufanele, futhi ungakhathazeki nganoma yini. Uma kwenzeka umcimbi onomshwalense, inkampani uqobo izokutholela udokotela, iphinde ilawule inqubo yokwelashwa.
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