Okuqukethwe
- UMlababychou, oteketiswa ngelikaRoxane: “Ukuzithwebula nsuku zonke, kuzwakala kuwubuwula, kodwa kunomsebenzi omningi ngemva kwakho.”
- Sawubona Mama, obizwa ngokuthi uLaure: “Ngifuna ukukhombisa injabulo yokuphila komndeni okulula.”
- URebecca, oteketiswa ngesihloko esithi Diary of a Mom: “Angidlali indima, ngithembekile ngangokunokwenzeka.”
- U-NyCyLa, ogama lakhe lingu-Cécile: “Ngiyazithanda lezi zikhathi zokukhuluma nomuntu oyedwa nendodakazi yami.”
- U-Angélique, obizwa ngo-Angie Maman 2.0: “Namuhla, i-YouTube ingithatha amahora angu-60 ngesonto.”
UMlababychou, oteketiswa ngelikaRoxane: “Ukuzithwebula nsuku zonke, kuzwakala kuwubuwula, kodwa kunomsebenzi omningi ngemva kwakho.”
“Ngesikhathi ngikhulelwe, kwadingeka ngiyeke ukusebenza cishe ubusuku bonke. Ukuxuba ku-nightclub enesisu esiyindilinga noma nengane esanda kuzalwa ekhaya kwakungeyona inketho! Ngakho-ke ukuze ngithathe isikhathi sami, ngethule i-akhawunti ye-Instagram lapho ngabelane khona ngempilo yami njengomama.
Ngithole amavidiyo omama e-United States ... naseGreat Britain. Futhi nginqume ukwethula isiteshi sami lapho uMila enezinyanga eziyisi-6 ubudala. Bengilokhu ngithanda izinselelo. Nokho, angazi ukuthi yini eyenza lesi siteshi sibe yimpumelelo. Mhlawumbe uhlamvu lobuhlanya bomkhaya olukhanga abasebenzisi be-Internet? Ngibonisa izindlela zokupheka, imisebenzi, ngihlala ngithola okuthile engizokutshela khona. Futhi ngihlala ngiqinisile. Noma ikhanda lami lixega ngesikhathi sasekuseni. Anginikezi ukubaluleka emehlweni abanye. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, angiyidaluli indodakazi yami lapho igula noma iphakathi nezinyembezi… Lesi siteshi bekuyithuba elihle kimina. Kwadingeka ngiqhubeke noma kunjalo. Noma ngikhumbula ukuxubana ngezikhathi ezithile futhi kusewumsebenzi wami. Kuhle kakhulu namuhla, njengoba nginesikhathi sokunikela ngendodakazi yami. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ikhona ku-70% wamavidiyo. U-Alex usebenza ehhovisi lakhe kuyilapho mina ngingena endlini yokudlela.
Ukuze ngihlele, ngilinda kuze kube yilapho uMila esembhedeni noma ngivuke ngaphambi kwakhe ekuseni. Ngithathe uhlobo lwesigqi. U-Alex uyangeseka, ungichazele izinto eziningi mayelana nalolu hlelo futhi ngezinye izikhathi uyanginika isandla. I-ejensi ingiphathela ama-imeyili nezicelo zebhrendi. Ngiyakuzonda ukufakwa esigabeni sama-"influencers". Angithonyeli muntu. Ngihlola imikhiqizo, nginikeza umbono. Abantu bakhululekile ukwenza noma yini abayifunayo ngayo.
Ukuze uthole imibono, ngizama ukufunda yonke into futhi ngiphendule. Ngeshwa, lokhu akwenzeki ngaso sonke isikhathi! Uma sithola imilayezo yokubonga, “siyakuthanda”, kuyintokozo enkulu nokuqashelwa okunjena! Lapho sihlangana, ngikhumbula ukumangala kukamama lapho ethola isixuku esasizosihlangabeza. Kuzwakala kumangalisa futhi kulula ukukwenza. Kodwa empeleni, kufanele ube nomdlandla ngempela futhi ukhuthazeke ngoba kuthatha isikhathi esiningi namandla. Isikhathi esigcwele, empeleni! ” l
Sawubona Mama, obizwa ngokuthi uLaure: “Ngifuna ukukhombisa injabulo yokuphila komndeni okulula.”
“Ngangingumfundi weBTS ngesikhathi ngikhulelwa. Eduze kwami, amanye amantombazane ayengenakho ukukhathazeka okufanayo, ngangizizwa ngihlukanisiwe. Udadewethu omncane wayewathanda amavidiyo wobuhle futhi ngayithanda nefomethi. Ngakho-ke ngaqala ngaphandle kokuxhumana ...
Ngiqopha impilo yethu yansuku zonke. Ithuba, imihlangano yenza ukuthi iketango likhule. Ekuqaleni, kwakuyimina engangilinde ukuqinisekiswa ekukhetheni kwami kokuthenga okunjalo noma okunjalo kwesikhwama sokushintsha. Namuhla, kuphambene, ngiletha isipiliyoni sami. Yilo muzwa wokudlulisa ongikhuthazayo. NgiwuMadam wonke umuntu futhi ngijabule nginjalo, iwona mlayezo engifuna ukuwudlulisa. Ngakho ngifunda ukuphawula okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka, ngizitshala imali, ngizama ukuthuthukisa ikhwalithi yamavidiyo ami. Sekuyintandokazi yami, umsebenzi wami. Sixoxe kakhulu ngengozi yokudalula i-Edene futhi sathola uhlobo lomkhawulo wokuvikela wonke umuntu: Ngiqopha impilo yethu yansuku zonke, kodwa hhayi ubumfihlo bethu. Ngamafuphi, azikho izingxabano phakathi kwabashadile… Ukubeletha kwami akuzange kuqoshwe. Abantu bake bangibona ngingena egumbini lokuzalwa base bengihlangabeza nendodakazi yami. “
URebecca, oteketiswa ngesihloko esithi Diary of a Mom: “Angidlali indima, ngithembekile ngangokunokwenzeka.”
“Ngesikhathi kufanele ngibuyele emsebenzini ngemva kokuzalwa kuka-Eliora, umzanyana wami wangikhulula. Uma ngicabanga ngakho, phakathi namahora kaLois nelami, sasingeke sizuze kangako endodakazini yethu. Ngamafuphi, ngancamela ukuzinikela empilweni yami njengomama.
Ngizizwa ngiwusizo. Ngokushesha, ngaba nomuzwa wokuthi kufanele ngithole indlela yokugqashula ukuzehlukanisa. Njengoba ngangisebenza kakhulu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana futhi ngikhuluma ngokunethezeka, ngethula isiteshi sami. Ngenze i-Fine Arts, ngakho-ke ngaba nokuzwela okubonakalayo. Ngenza i-vlogging nsuku zonke (inqubo ibalulekile) kanye nezihloko zobuso nobuso. Angizange ngicabange lapho ngiqala ukuthi ngiyothola iholo elincane ngolunye usuku! Ngikholwa ukuthi abantu bayalwazisa uhlangothi lwami lwemvelo noluseduze nabo. Angidlali indima, ngithembekile ngangokunokwenzeka. Yimpendulo yabantu enengqondo. Ngizizwa ngiwusizo. Futhi ngiyavuma, inohlangothi oluluthayo, sifuna lusebenze. Ingasaphathwa imihlangano nabanye abablogi, abasebenzisi be-YouTube, imicimbi engimenywe kuyo. Akuvamile ukuthi ukwazi ukuphila ngokuthanda kwakho kuyilapho unakekela ingane yakho. Iphuzu elibucayi yindaba! Ngaqala nge-laptop yami endala kanye nekhamera enikezwa ngoKhisimusi…”
U-NyCyLa, ogama lakhe lingu-Cécile: “Ngiyazithanda lezi zikhathi zokukhuluma nomuntu oyedwa nendodakazi yami.”
“I-NyCyLa ekuqaleni yayiyibhulogi kamama. Bengilokhu ngikuthanda ukubhala futhi ngifuna ukwabelana ngempilo yendodakazi yami nomndeni wami, abantu engibathandayo. Bengenza amavidiyo ukukhombisa okuthunyelwe kwami. Futhi ngabona ngokushesha ukuthi ifomethi yevidiyo ithandeka kakhulu kunemibhalo. Eqinisweni, uchungechunge lwaqala ngempela lapho sithuthela eCalifornia ngo-2014. U-Nicolas waba nethuba futhi sashiya i-French Riviera.
Ngihlanganyela izikhathi ezimangalisayo. Ukutshela ukuphila kwethu kwansuku zonke kulabo abasizungezile ababehlala ngakolunye uhlangothi lwezwe sekuyisidingo. Futhi kithi, imele imayini yegolide yezinkumbulo. Ukufakwa kwethu phakathi neSilicon Valley, ukuqhubeka kukaLana, ukuphuma kwakhe, nohambo lwakhe. Ngicabanga ukuthi amandla ami lawo: ukuvumela abantu ukuthi babaleke kukho konke, bahambe ngommeleli. Nginethuba lokuphila izikhathi ezimangalisayo futhi ngikwazi ukwabelana ngazo: indiza enophephela emhlane e-Grand canyon, ukutshuza endaweni ephahlazekile, uhambo lwesikebhe namahlengethwa. Ngihlanganyela izikhathi zenjabulo kuphela.
Ngokushesha kakhulu, kusukela emsebenzini “wokujabulisa,” isiteshi saba umsebenzi wami oyinhloko. Ikakhulukazi njengoba ngifuna ukuphatha ama-imeyili ngokwami, ubudlelwano nemikhiqizo. Ngalokho, akunankinga, ngenze iziqu ze-master in communication marketing. Amanye amasu, ngawafunda emsebenzini. Mayelana nokukhuluma phambi kwabantu, bengilokhu ngikuthanda. Ngaphezu kokubonisa ikhanda lami… Ngakho-ke abantu bangizwa kakhulu kunokuba bangibona.
Ngokuqondene nendodakazi yami, enamahloni futhi ekhululekile ekuphileni, nginomuzwa wokuthi iyayithanda ikhamera. Ngezinye izikhathi uyangithethisa: “Mama, bengifuna ukwenza ividiyo nawe!” Kuyangihlekisa lapho abantu bengitshela ukuthi “ubukeka ephelele!”. Ungumuntu ongenangqondo njengazo zonke izingane, kodwa ngimthwebula kuphela ezimeni ezimthuthukisayo. Okwamanje, ngiyazijabulisa futhi uNicolas uyakuqonda ukukhetha kwami. Esikhathini esizayo, mhlawumbe indodakazi yami ngeke isakufuna lokho. Sizobona, anginendaba, ngoba ngokuhlala lapha, ubalekela udumo. Angiyena muntu naphezu kwezinkulungwane zami zababhalisile. Kuyasiza ukugcina ikhanda elipholile. ”
U-Angélique, obizwa ngo-Angie Maman 2.0: “Namuhla, i-YouTube ingithatha amahora angu-60 ngesonto.”
“Bengingacabangi ukuthi iphrojekthi yami izolingana ngale ndlela. Ngangiyintatheli, ngisebenza kwezokuxhumana. Ngabe sengiguqukela ekubeni umeluleki womshado nomndeni. Ngasebenza iminyaka emibili emnyangweni wezifo zabesifazane nokubelethisa. Bengifuna umsebenzi ozwakalayo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ngoJanuwari 2015, ngethula isiteshi, ngaso sonke isikhathi nginesifiso sokusiza, ukuletha izinto kwabanye, kodwa nokubhala.
Ngisebenza nomsizi. Ngangingumama osemusha, kwakuhlekisa futhi kumnandi kimi. Izwi lomlomo lasebenza ngokushesha okukhulu. Bekuyinto entsha kuwebhu. Ngithuthukise indlela yami ngesofthiwe yokuhlela ethuthuke kakhulu. Ngiyaqhubeka nokuqeqesha uma ngikwazi. Lapho ngisemncane, ngenza ishashalazi encane. Impela idlalile emsebenzini wami. Namuhla, i-YouTube ingigcina ngimatasa amahora angu-60 ngeviki. ANGINAWO umsebenzi OWODWA, kodwa eminingana: umbhali, umthwebuli, umhleli, umphathi wephrojekthi, umphathi womphakathi… Akufanele ngempela usabe isithombe sakho. Ngine-ejensi ephethe uhlangothi lobudlelwano nemikhiqizo, ngisho noma ngigcina ukuxhumana okuqondile, ngoba akuyona yonke imikhiqizo engifanele. Kusukela ngoSepthemba 2016, bengisebenza nomsizi, u-Colin, naye obamba iqhaza kumavidiyo ami, njengoba abangani bami nomakhelwane bengenza ngezikhathi ezithile. Ubumnandi bokufunda ukuphawula buhlale bufana. Ngokusobala, ngenza abantu bamamatheke, kungukwaneliseka okukhulu. Lawa mavidiyo angamanganekwane. I-synopsis yami ibhalwe kusenesikhathi. Angikhulumi ngokuphila kwami kwansuku zonke noma okukaHugo. Yiqiniso, uhlanganyela ngenkuthalo. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi usuke ecikekile ngakho ngenze ngaphandle kwakhe, angiphikeli neze. Asenzi 15 sithatha nomntwana oneminyaka emi-5. Futhi ikakhulukazi uma eguqula imigqa, angishintshi lutho. Ngifuna ukuthi ihlale izenzekela. Sekukonke, akumthathi amahora angaphezu kwamabili ngesonto. Iwubungani nomndeni, wonke umuntu ubamba iqhaza lapho efuna ukuzijabulisa, futhi yilokho! Okwesikhathi esizayo, nginezinhlelo eziningi, kodwa okwamanje ngiyasijabulela lesi sikhathi samanje. ”