Okuqukethwe
Uma wena nomlingani wakho nisesimweni esikahle, ukuzwana kulula. Enye into ukuxabana. Ukuze wenze ubudlelwano buhlale isikhathi eside, funda ukulwa ngendlela efanele. Umbhali uBrianna Wiest ukhuluma ngalokhu.
Ukuhambisana kwabantu ababili kunganqunywa ngezindlela eziningi ngokusekelwe ezimfanelweni zomuntu siqu zabalingani. Wonke umuntu uyazi izici eziyinhloko zokuhambisana: izindinganiso ezivamile, ukuxhumana kwekhwalithi, ukwethembeka komunye nomunye. Kodwa into ebaluleke kakhulu ayibonwa - isitayela sakho sokulwa.
Indlela enilwa ngayo noma eniphikisana ngayo yiyo enquma amandla obudlelwano esikhathini esizayo. Lapho bobabili abalingani besesimweni esihle sengqondo, abacindezelwa izinqumo ezinzima futhi yonke into ihamba njengewashi - ukuzwana kulula. Izinkinga ziqinisa noma zibhidlize ubudlelwano. Lokhu akwenzeki ngephutha - kungalezo zikhathi lapho ubona khona okufanele ukwazi ngomuntu.
Ngezansi kunohlu lwezitayela abantu abazisebenzisayo lapho belwa, kusukela kwezinebhadi kakhulu kuye kwezisebenza kahle kakhulu. Ukushintshela kwisitayela esinempilo kuzozuzisa imibhangqwana eminingi. Kodwa okubaluleke nakakhulu, bobabili abalingani basebenzisa isitayela esifanayo. Uma abantu bexoxa ngezindlela ezahlukene, ukungqubuzana kuba nzima kakhulu ukukuxazulula.
Abstraction
Ozakwethu abaxoxi ngenkinga ngokungathi sína: lapho nje omunye eyiphakamisa, omunye ushintsha isihloko sengxoxo. Abantu abanalesi sitayela bayenqaba ukuvuma imizwa noma imibono engqubuzana nezinto abazithakaselayo. Bavame ukuphikisa izingxabano, babe nomuntu siqu, futhi babe nolaka. Ngokuvamile lokhu kuwumphumela we-entekenteke «I» - abantu abakwazi ukubekezelela ukuzwa ukuthi banephutha. Abafuni ngisho nokucabanga ngokushintsha ukuziphatha ngenxa yomunye umuntu.
Ukucindezelwa kwemizwa
Abantu abanjalo baqale bacindezele imizwa, bese behluleka ukuzibamba. Besaba ukuthi abanye ngeke bakubone okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo noma ngeke bakunake ukubaluleka kwabo. Kodwa ngesinye isikhathi, bagcwala imizwelo, futhi “baqhuma”. Isizathu silula - abantu bayakhathala ukuzwa sengathi imibono yabo ayisho lutho. Ngentukuthelo nokufutheka kwemizwelo, bazama ukubonisa ukubaluleka kwabo. Esinye isici sabantu abanjalo ukuthi ngemva kokuphazamiseka, bayakhohlwa ngokushesha futhi baqhubeke nokuziphatha sengathi akwenzekanga lutho.
Ukubusa
Abantu ababusayo bayayiqaphela imizwelo yomunye umuntu, kodwa ungabalaleli. Kunalokho, bathola izindlela eziyindilinga zokukholisa ophikisana naye ukuthi imizwa yakhe ayilungile noma isekelwe olwazini olungalungile. Abantu besitayela esivelele ngokuvamile abanalo uzwela. Nakuba bona ngokwabo, njengomthetho, bangabantu abangokomzwelo nabasengozini. Yingakho bengafuni ukuvuma ukuthi benze okubi noma bacasule othile. Ukubukeka kweNarcissus kuvikela umuntu ozwelayo emhlabeni wangaphandle.
Usizo lwe-ecology value-chain kanye nokuqanjwa kabusha kwemikhiqizo phakathi kwama-SME
Abantu abanalesi sitayela banomgomo owodwa - ukuzuza ukuvumelana. Ukuziqhenya okubuhlungu akuyona into evamile kubo, ngakho bamukela ngokuthula izingxabano zabanye abantu futhi baveze umbono wabo ekuphenduleni. Abantu abanjalo balawula iphimbo lezwi futhi bazigcine bebambene kahle. Basebenzisa amaqhinga akhethekile ukuze bagcine ingxoxo ingaphumi esandleni: isibonelo, bahlaba ikhefu engxoxweni noma babhale amaphuzu njengoba ingxoxo iqhubeka. Abalingani abasebenzisa izitayela ezahlukene esikhathini esidlule, kodwa bafunde ukuxhumana kangcono ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngokuvamile beza kwisitayela sokusiza. Uma omunye wabashadikazi ethambekele kulesi sitayela ekuqaleni, akulula ukukholisa omunye ukuthi asebenzise amasu afanayo.
Ukuxhumana kwamahhala
Ukuxhumana kwamahhala kuwumgomo omkhulu. Ngalesi sitayela, bobabili abantu bazizwa bekhululekile ngokwanele ukuveza imizwa ngaleso sikhathi abavuka ngaso. Abantu balesi sitayela baqonda kahle imizwa yabo futhi bayakwazi ukuyiveza ngokunembile, okusiza umlingani ukuba abaqonde. Ukulawula iphimbo nokucasuka kubalulekile ekukhulumisaneni okukhululekile okuphumelelayo, futhi imibhangqwana ivamise ukufunda lokhu ngokuphatha kahle isitayela sokusiza. Abantu abasebenzisa indlela yokukhulumisana ngokukhululekile abazigwemi njalo izinkinga. Kodwa-ke, yizona ezilula kakhulu ukunqoba ubunzima ebudlelwaneni futhi sifinyelele isixazululo sokuyekethisa lapho wonke umuntu ezwa ezwiwa.