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Imithetho yemfundo kaMilana Kerzhakova
Unkosikazi kaZenit footballer Alexander Kerzhakov Milan wabeletha indodana yakhe Artemy ngo-April kulo nyaka. Futhi ubuye akhulise u-Igor oneminyaka emine ubudala - indodana yomyeni wakhe wase-Ekaterina Safronova (unina womfana wayencishwe amalungelo omzali. - Approx. Wday). UMilana, oneminyaka engu-24, wakhuluma ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe njengomzali.
“Asikho isidingo sokukhulisa izingane”
Abazali abaningi bacabanga ukuthi: bafundele ingane yabo incwadi, bahlole idayari, bamthethise ngama-deuces - yilokho, ukukhuliswa kwaphumelela. Kodwa uMilana Kerzhakova uqinisekile ukuthi izimfundiso zokuziphatha ezinjengokuthi "Kumelwe ngifunde kahle kuphela" azihlangene nemfundo futhi zidlula izindlebe zomntwana ngekhwelo.
“Ngicabanga ukuthi asikho isidingo sokufundisa izingane. "Hhayi ukusho izinto ezimbi, hhayi ukudonsa amantombazane ngeminsalo" - izindawo ezivamile. I-postulates inobudlova kakhulu, yohlobo: "umshado owodwa kanye nokuphila", "ngenxa yokweba - ngizoxosha endlini" futhi zonke ezinye izinkolelo ze-Komsomol ezibangelwa ubusha bami azinamsebenzi.
U-Milana uqinisekile: izingane zibheka abazali bazo futhi zilingise kukho konke. Futhi uma amazwi engqubuzana nezenzo, khona-ke noma yikuphi ukuphawula kuyoba yize.
“Futhi basibhekile. Ngendlela esimemeza ngayo, sizivalela ekamelweni, silungisa ubuhlobo, ngendlela esihlala ngayo nebhodlela likabhiya kumabonakude ohlelweni lwezingxoxo olulandelayo, ngamazwi ethu enhlamba, ngenxa yokungakwazi ukulawula imizwelo yethu nolaka, ngenxa yokuntuleka kwesifiso sokuthuthuka - futhi manje yilezi zinto ezakha ingane yethu encane nawe. Futhi hhayi nje ukuziphatha okuthile, isikole, indawo… Lokhu kuyafana, kunjalo, kodwa ngokwezinga elincane, ”u-Milana uqinisekile.
"Ngikholelwa ukuthi u-90% womuntu uwumndeni wakhe," kubhala uKerzhakova.
Okuhle noma kubi, imikhuba nokuziphatha kwabazali okukopishwa yizingane. Yiqiniso, imfundo idlala indima, kanye nesifiso sabazali sokuzibona. Futhi uma abazali befuna ukuthi ingane yabo ibe umuntu othakazelisayo, kufanele kuqala ibe yibo ngokwabo. Ukuthuthukisa impilo yakhe yonke, ukuba ngcono, khona-ke ingane izoba nesidingo esinjalo.
“Zikhulise Wena, Hhayi Izingane”
Abazali kufanele bahlale bekhumbula ukuthi bayisibonelo ezinganeni. Futhi uma isibonelo sisihle, khona-ke izingane zizokhula zibe abantu abafanelekayo. Ngakho-ke, kufanelekile ukuqala imfundo kuwe, uzibheke ngaphandle, ngamehlo omntanakho. Khona-ke “ngokuqinisekile futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi bayonibonga ngethuba lokunibiza abazali babo ngokuziqhenya, njengoba ngibiza abami ngokuziqhenya.”
Imfundo, njengoba eyiqonda, kuMilana “iwukuguqulwa kwendoda encane ibe inhloko ecabangayo ekhanyayo, ibe umuntu onezifiso zayo, onothando lwentuthuko nomsebenzi. Futhi ngenxa yezizathu eziqondile, akanakwazi isibonelo esingcono, ngaphandle kwabazali bakhe. Ngakho-ke isiphetho sami esilula - abazali, okokuqala, kufanele bazifundise futhi bazifundise, bese kuba yingane kuphela. “
Abalandeli bakaMilana ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ngokuvamile bayameseka. Kodwa kunezinye izibonelo ezinikezwayo.
“Kukhona okuhlukile, engibaziyo abantu abambalwa abavela emindenini ephuzayo abathi, bebheka abazali babo, bathi: ngeke kube njena emndenini wethu. Futhi laba ngabantu abafundile kakhulu, oprofesa, abanemindeni emangalisayo, izingane ezinothando nomfazi. Futhi kukhona izingane zabantu abadumile kakhulu, lapho abazali behle kakhulu, besebenza kanzima. Omalukazana basamthanda umamezala wabo futhi bayaxhumana, futhi amadodana (nakuba eneminyaka engama-30-45 ubudala) awakwazi neze ukuba nemindeni evamile, ngoba awakwazi ukusebenza noma ukondla umndeni futhi aqhubeke ephila ngemali. kubazali abacebile. “.