Lapho sinquma ukuthi sithathe umshwalense, iyiphi i-dessert esingayikhetha ku-cafe, noma iyiphi ingubo evela eqoqweni elisha esizoyithenga, singasho ngokungananazi ukuthi yini esiqhubayo?
Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sokuziphendukela kwemvelo uDouglas Kenrick kanye nesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Vladas Grishkevichus banikeza incazelo: izisusa zethu zingaphansi kwezidingo ezihlukahlukene zokuziphendukela kwemvelo ezakhiwa okhokho bethu. Ngesidingo ngasinye, "i-subpersonality" ethile inesibopho, eyenziwa ngaphansi kwethonya le-stimuli.
Akulula ukuthola ukuthi yimuphi “okhulumayo” okwamanje. Uma sinquma ukuthenga ibhayisikili (nakuba ngokuvamile sihamba ngemoto), singase sesabe indaba yomngane wethu ngengozi, sifuna ukugcizelela imibono yethu eqhubekayo, noma sifuna ukujabulisa uzakwethu othanda imvelo. Ababhali bathemba ukuthi imibono yabo izosisiza siqonde kangcono izimbangela zokuziphatha kwethu futhi simelane nalabo abazama ukusikhohlisa.
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