Ingane ayizange ithengwe ithoyizi esitolo. Kuyini - izimiso zemfundo, ukonga ngempoqo noma ukuhlukumeza ngokwezimali?
Ukuhlukumeza ngokwezimali kuwuhlobo lodlame lapho umuntu oyedwa elawula izimali zomunye. Imvamisa kukhulunywa ngayo kumongo ubudlelwano phakathi kwabashadile, kodwa empeleni kungase kwenzeke nasebudlelwaneni bomzali nengane. Futhi nakuba le nkinga sekukhulunywe ngayo kakhulu muva nje, imibono yabantu ngayo isahluka.
Ngakho-ke, ingxabano mayelana nokuthi yini engabhekwa njengokuhlukunyezwa kwezimali ohlangothini lwabazali nokuthi yini engekho, yaqubuka ngaphansi kokunye kokuthunyelwe ku-Twitter. Umsebenzisi u-@whiskyforlou ubuze abanye abasebenzisi: “Ingabe nawe wawuhlukunyezwa ngokwezimali useyingane, uhlale uthi ayikho imali, futhi manje uhlale ukhathazekile ngokuchitha imali ezintweni?” Futhi abahlaziyi bahlukaniswa amakamu amabili.
"Asinayo imali"
Abahlaziyi abaningi bavumelana nalesi sitatimende futhi bacobelela izindaba zabo. U-@ursugarcube uthe uyise wayehlale ethola imali ye-iPad entsha, kodwa engakwazi ukuthenga igrosa noma ukukhokhela isikole somculo.
Umsebenzisi @DorothyBrrown wazithola esesimweni esifanayo lapho esemncane: abazali bakhe babenemali yezimoto, izindlu namajazi amasha oboya, kodwa hhayi yokuthenga indodakazi yabo.
U-@rairokun waphawula ukuthi uzizwa ekhohlisiwe: “Abazali bameseka ngokugcwele umfowabo, bamthengele noma yiluphi Uhlu lwezifiso olubizayo futhi bamnike imali yephakethe yezinkulungwane eziyishumi, nakuba isimo singakashintshi ngokwezimali.”
Futhi umsebenzisi u-@olyamir uthe, kubonakala sengathi, ngisho nalapho esekhulile ubhekene nokubonakaliswa kokuhlukunyezwa kwezezimali okuvela kubazali bakhe: "Kuze kube namuhla, ngenkathi ngithola iholo lami elihle, ngizwa kumama ukuthi udinga ukuba nesizotha kakhudlwana, wena ocebile, ngeke uqonde. Ngakho-ke, ngivame ukubiza intengo izikhathi ezingu-1,5-2 ngaphansi futhi angikhulumi nganoma yikuphi ukuthenga kwami nhlobo.
Noma kunjalo, ubuhlobo obungesihle nabazali akukona ukuphela kwento ebangela ubudlova bezomnotho. Lapha nokukhathazeka, nokungakwazi ukuphatha izimali. Ngokusho kuka-@akaWildCat, manje akakwazi ukuthola indawo ephakathi phakathi konga nokusebenzisa imali.
"Akukona ukuhlukunyezwa okufanele kusolwe, yi-infantilism"
Kungani kwaqubuka impikiswano? Abanye abasebenzisi abazange basijabulele lesi simo sengqondo futhi beza nombono ophambene, bekhuluma ngobugovu nokungakwazi kweningi ukuqonda ubunzima babazali babo.
“Nkulunkulu, ungabahloniphi kanjani abazali bakho bese ubhala lokhu,” kubhala u-@smelovaaa. Intombazane yabelana ngendaba ebuntwaneni bayo emndenini omkhulu, lapho lalingekho ithuba lokuya e-cinema futhi lithenge ama-chips, kodwa wagcizelela ukuthi wayeqonda ukuthi kungani behlala kanjalo.
Abanye abahlaziyi baphawule ukuthi abazali babo babakhulise kahle, babafundisa ukwazisa imali. Futhi ukukhombisa ukuthi ungagcina kanjani umkhondo wezezimali, ukuthi yini okufanele usebenzise imali kuyo, nokuthi yini engekho. Futhi abayiboni inkinga enkulumweni ethi “asinamali”.
Yiqiniso, uma ufunda amazwana eduze, ungaqonda isizathu sangempela sengxabano - abantu bakhuluma ngezinto ezihluke ngokuphelele. Kungenye into ukuba nesimo esinzima ngokwezimali nokungakwazi ukusebenzisa imali ezintweni eziwubuntwana, kanti okunye ukonga ingane. Singathini ngezinkulumo zokuvikela ukuthi umndeni awunamali, okuvame ukwenza izingane zizizwe zinecala.
Isimo ngasinye esivela kumazwana sisodwa futhi sidinga ukuhlaziya ngokucophelela. Kuze kube manje, into eyodwa kuphela engashiwo ngokuqinisekile: akunakwenzeka ukuthi abantu bafinyelele ukuvumelana ngalolu daba.
Umbhalo: Nadezhda Kovaleva