I-Psychology

Uma bebuzwa ukuthi iyini imfihlo yempumelelo yabo osaziwayo bakhuluma ngokuzikhandla, ukubekezela nokuzidela okumangalisayo. Kodwa ngaphandle kwalokhu, kunezici ezihlukanisa abantu abaphumelelayo kuwo wonke umuntu.

Akuwona wonke umuntu ozuza impumelelo empilweni. Ungasebenza iminyaka ngaphandle kosuku lokuphumula futhi ungasakwazi ukuziphilisa, uthole amadiploma amathathu emfundo ephakeme futhi ungenzi umsebenzi, bhala izinhlelo zebhizinisi eziyishumi nambili, kodwa ungaqalisi nokukodwa. Uyini umehluko phakathi kwabantu abaphumelelayo nabafayo nje?

1. Bakholelwa ukuthi impumelelo ayinakugwenywa.

Ungakholelwa ukuthi izintandokazi zenhlanhla ekuqaleni zazinokuthile thina ngokwethu esingenakho: ithalente, imibono, ukushayela, ubuciko, amakhono akhethekile. Lokhu akulona iqiniso. Bonke abantu abaphumelelayo baya empumelelweni ngamaphutha nokulahlekelwa. Abazange baphele amandla baqhubeka nokuzama. Uma ufuna ukuzuza imiphumela evelele, okokuqala, yeka ukuziqhathanisa nabanye. Khetha umgomo futhi uzilinganise ngokuthuthuka kwakho kuwo.

2. Bazikhethela bona.

Ungalinda iminyaka ukuze ubonwe, ukhethwe, noma uphromothwe. Lokhu akwakhi. Namuhla, ngenxa ye-inthanethi nezinkundla zokuxhumana, amathuba okukhombisa ithalente lakho awapheli. Ungabelana ngomculo wakho ngaphandle kosizo lwanoma ubani, udale futhi ukhangise imikhiqizo yakho, futhi uhehe abatshalizimali.

3. Basiza abanye

Impumelelo yethu ixhumene nempumelelo yabanye. Abaphathi bezinga eliphezulu basiza abangaphansi ukuthi bathole ulwazi olusha futhi baqalise amaphrojekthi athakazelisayo, futhi ngenxa yalokho bafinyelele imigomo yabo. Umeluleki omuhle uyaphumelela ngokusiza amaklayenti ukuxazulula izinkinga zawo, kodwa izinkampani eziphumelele ngempela zikhiqiza imikhiqizo efanele futhi zinikeze isevisi yamakhasimende enhle kakhulu. Ngokusekela abanye, usondela empumelelweni yakho.

4. Bayazi ukuthi isiguli esiningi siyawina.

Okuxakayo ukuthi lo wakamuva angase abe owinile. Lokhu kwenzeka lapho izimbangi zilahlekelwa izinzwa futhi zishiye, ziyeke, zikhaphele izimiso zabo futhi zikhohlwe ngezindinganiso zabo. Abaqhudelana nabo bangase bahlakaniphe, bafunde kakhulu, bacebe, kodwa balahlekelwe ngoba abakwazi ukufinyelela ekugcineni.

Ngezinye izikhathi kunengqondo ukuyeka imibono namaphrojekthi, kodwa awukwazi ukuziyeka. Uma ukholelwa kokwenzayo, ungadikibali.

5. Benza lokho abanye abangafuni ukukwenza.

Abantu abaphumelelayo baya lapho kungekho muntu ofuna ukuya khona futhi babone ithuba lapho abanye bebona ubunzima kuphela. Ingabe kukhona ama-potholes nama-spikes kuphela ngaphambili? Bese uqhubeka!

6. Abaxhumi, bakha ubudlelwano bangempela.

Kwesinye isikhathi ukuxhumana kwenethiwekhi kungumdlalo wezinombolo. Ungakwazi ukuqoqa amakhadi ebhizinisi angu-500 emicimbini ehlukene futhi wenze abangani abangu-5000 ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, kodwa lokhu ngeke kukusize nganoma iyiphi indlela ebhizinisini. Udinga ukuxhumana kwangempela: abantu ongabasiza nabakwethembayo.

Lapho wenza okuthile, ungagxili kulokho okuthola ekugcineni, kodwa kulokho ongapha abanye. Lena ukuphela kwendlela yokwakha ubudlelwano bangempela, obuqinile nobuhlala njalo.

7. Basebenza, abagcini nje ngokukhuluma nokuhlela

Isu akuwona umkhiqizo. Impumelelo ayitholakali ngokuhlela, kodwa ngesenzo. Thuthukisa umbono, dala isu futhi ukhulule umkhiqizo ngokushesha okukhulu. Bese uqoqa impendulo futhi uthuthukise.

8. Bayazi ukuthi ubuholi kufanele busebenze.

Abaholi beqiniso bayakhuthaza, bakhuthaze futhi benze abantu bazizwe bebalulekile. Abaholi yilabo abalandelwa hhayi ngoba kufanele, kodwa ngoba befuna.

9. Abayiboni impumelelo njengesikhuthazo.

Benza lokho abakholelwa kukho futhi basebenze ngokufinyelela imingcele yabo, hhayi ngoba othile wabatshela ukuthi bazothola imali nokuhlonishwa. Abazi nje ukuthi kanjani.


Mayelana Nombhali: UJeff Hayden uyisikhulumi esikhuthazayo.

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