Ngokuvamile emotweni, izingane azifuni ukugcina amabhande azo ezihlalo. Ngempela, izingane ezisacathula zikuthola kunzima ukuthobela imithetho futhi abazali bavame ukuba nomuzwa wokuthi bachitha isikhathi sabo bephindaphinda imiyalelo efanayo usuku lonke. Kuyakhathaza, kodwa kuyadingeka ngoba kuthatha isikhathi ukuthi izingane zifunde ukuziphatha okuhle, ukuhlanganisa amakhodi okuphila emphakathini.
Indlela kaGordon eyeluleka ngayo:Ukubopha ibhande emotweni kuyimpoqo, umthetho! Ngakho-ke kuyancomeka ukukugcizelela: “Ngeke ngiyekethise ngoba kubaluleke kakhulu kimina ukuthi uphephe futhi ngibe nokuma okuhle nomthetho. Ngiyifake, iyangivikela, iphoqelekile! Akwenzeki ukuthi uhlale emotweni ungalifasanga ibhande, uma wenqaba, wehla emotweni! ” Okwesibili, ungakwazi ukubona isidingo sokunyakaza kwengane yakho : “Ayihlekisi, iqinile, awukwazi ukunyakaza, ngiyaqonda. Kodwa imoto akuyona indawo yokuhamba. Ngemva kwesikhashana, sizodlala umdlalo webhola, sizoya epaki, uzohamba ugibele. »Uma ingane yakho isendleleni, ingakwazi ukuthula, inyakaza esihlalweni futhi ayikwazi ukuma ihlezi etafuleni, futhi, kutuswa ukuba uqine, kodwa ucabangela izidingo zengane. Enganeni ekhuthele kakhulu, izikhathi zokudla zabadala zinde kakhulu. Ukumcela ukuthi ahlale imizuzu engu-20 etafuleni sekuvele kuhle. Ngemuva kwalesi sikhathi, kufanele avunyelwe ukuthi ashiye itafula futhi abuye azolanda uphudingi ...
Uvuka ebusuku eze azolala embhedeni wethu
Ngokuzenzakalelayo, abazali bangase balingeke ukuba bayekethise: “Kulungile, ungaza embhedeni wethu, kodwa inqobo nje uma ungasivusi!” Basebenzisa isixazululo, kodwa inkinga eyisisekelo ayixazululeki. Uma abazali bengalokothi bazibophe bese bethi cha, igiya, baqinisa indlela yokuziphatha edala inkinga futhi enobungozi obuhlala iminyaka ...
Indlela kaGordon eyeluleka ngayo: Siqala ngomlayezo othi “Mina” ocace kakhulu futhi ogomelayo wokubeka imingcele: “Kusukela ngehora lesi-9 ebusuku, isikhathi sikamama nobaba, sidinga ukuhlala ndawonye futhi silale ngokuthula embhedeni wethu. Ubusuku bonke. Asifuni ukuphaphama nokuphazamiseka, sidinga ukulala ukuze sibe sesimweni esihle ngakusasa ekuseni. Ingane ngayinye ilinda umkhawulo, iwudinga ukuze izizwe ivikelekile, yazi okufanele ikwenze nokungafanele ikwenze. Indlela kaGordon igcizelela ukulalela izidingo zomuntu wonke, kuqala ngezabo, kodwa awubeki umkhawulo ngaphandle kokulalela ingane yakho, ngaphandle kokukhomba izidingo zakhe. Ngoba uma singazicabangeli izidingo zethu, singase sibangele ukusabela okunamandla okungokomzwelo: intukuthelo, ukudabuka, ukukhathazeka, okungaphumela ekubeni nolaka, izinkinga zokufunda, ukukhathala nokuwohloka kobuhlobo bomkhaya. . Ukuze sicabangele isidingo sengane evuka ebusuku, sibeka izinto ngokuthula, "sicabanga" ngaphandle komongo wenhlekelele. : “Uma udinga ukuza uzogona umama nobaba embhedeni wethu, akunakwenzeka phakathi kwamabili, kodwa kungenzeka ngoMgqibelo ekuseni noma ngeSonto ekuseni. Kulezi zinsuku ungafika uzosivusa. Bese sizokwenza umsebenzi opholile ndawonye. Ungathanda senzeni? Ukuhamba ngebhayisikili ? Ikhekhe ? Hamba uyobhukuda ? Hamba udle u-ayisikhilimu? Ungakwazi futhi ukumema umngane wakho, umzala wakho noma umzala wakho ngezikhathi ezithile ukuba balale uma uzizwa unesizungu kancane ebusuku. Ingane iyajabula ukubona ukuthi isidingo sayo siyaqashelwa, ingakhetha isixazululo esilula ukusisebenzisa esimfanele futhi inkinga yokuvuka kwasebusuku iyaxazululwa.