Ukufunda ulimi kunezigaba eziningana. Kusukela ekuphimiseni kokuqala kuye emshweni ocebile nophelele, kuhlanganise namagama okuqala omntwana, ingane ngayinye ishintshashintsha ngejubane layo. Emasontweni ambalwa nje, uzokwazi ukuveza imizwa yakhe.

Esikhathini eside ngaphambi kokuphimisa amagama okuqala, umntwana noma usana luzama ukuxhumana nalabo abaluzungezile. Kufanele uzinakisise kakhulu lezi zimpawu ukuze uziqonde futhi uhlangabezane kahle nokulindelwe izingane ezisacathula.

Izinsana ziqala ukukhuluma ngokulalela abazali bazo nangokubonisa ukunaka. Noma nini lapho ekwazi, uphendula ngokumamatheka. Ukukhala kuyindlela ethandwa kakhulu yokuxhumana kulesi sikhathi. Izwakalisa ukukhathala, indlala, ukwesaba, intukuthelo, inabukeni elingcolile, njll.

Ukuze ungene ekukhulumisaneni nosana, kuyadingeka ukuvumelanisa ulimi lwayo nephimbo lezwi lakhe. Ngakho, umntwana uyazi ukuthi kukhulunywa naye futhi angangena ekuxhumaneni. Ezinganeni ezisacathula, kubalulekile ukusebenzisa ukuxhumana okungenazwi futhi. Kufanele uthinte ingane futhi uyigone.

Iphimbo lokuqala lokuzithandela lomntwana lifika cishe ezinyangeni ezi-4. Umntwana ube esekhipha imisindo yakhe yokuqala kanye nethi “areuh” edumile! Ngokuvamile ingane izama ukuxhumana ngokwenza imisindo. Uyatshiyoza, ahleke kakhulu futhi azame nokuphindaphinda amazwi azwakalayo. Kukule minyaka lapho ebona khona igama lakhe lokuqala namagama alula afana nokudla, ukulala, ukudlala noma ukuhamba.

Ukusiza ingane ukuba ithuthuke, kuyadingeka ukusabela ekukhulumeni. Ingane yakho kufanele yazi ukuthi abantu abaseduze kwayo bayalalelisisa nokuthi ingakwazi ukuxhumana nayo. Abazali bangakwazi ukuphindaphinda ukuphimisela kwengane. Kufanele futhi futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke bamhalalisele ngenqubekela phambili yakhe.

Phakathi namasonto, umntwana uzophimisa kakhulu. Lezi zizophenduka amagama. Amazwi okuqala omntwana alula kakhulu. Ngokuvamile, ubaba, umama, ukulala, ukupha, ingubo, njll. Nsuku zonke, uthuthukisa ulwazimagama lwakhe. Ufunda amagama amasha, awahlanganise futhi aphinde awasebenzise. Lesi sinyathelo sithatha isikhathi eside. Ulimi ngalunye lucebile kakhulu futhi kuthatha izinyanga noma iminyaka ukuthola lolu limi.

Kulinganiselwa ukuthi ingane ikhuluma kahle lapho ineminyaka engu-3. Nokho, iyazi ukwenza izigwebo kusukela eneminyaka eyizinyanga ezingu-18. Phakathi kwalezi zinyathelo, kufanele ukhulume naye, umazise ukuthi uyamqonda. Kumele azethembe ukuze athuthuke.

Ukuze usize umntwana akhule futhi aphumelele ekufundeni ulimi, kufanele umsize nsuku zonke. Ukwenza lokhu, kunezixazululo eziyi-1001. Ukufunda kungenye yazo. Ivumela ingane ukuthi ifunde inqwaba yamagama. Kusukela esemncane, izincwadi zezithombe zingamathuluzi okufunda anamandla kakhulu. Ingane ikhombisa isithombe bese umuntu omdala emtshela ukuthi siyini! Ukufunda izindaba kukuvumela ukuthi ubone amagama umntwana awaziyo kodwa futhi uthuthukise umcabango.

Enye indlela yokumsiza ukuthi asho amazwi amaningi ukumethula emhlabeni. Ngesikhathi sokugibela, emotweni, phakathi nemijaho, okwenza ingane ithole indawo ngayinye izocebisa ulwazimagama lwakhe.

Kuyenzeka futhi ukuthi umculele imilolozelo yasenkulisa noma umvumele adlale nabafowabo nodadewabo noma izingane ezingontanga yakhe. Abancane bayasizana futhi bathuthuke!

Amazwi okuqala omntwana ayisigaba esibalulekile ekuphileni. Ziphawula inguquko ekuziphendukeleni kwayo. Kubalulekile ukuthi abazali basize ingane. Ukuze benze lokhu, kufanele bakuvumele ngokuphoqelekile ukuthi kuzwakale. Ngezinye izikhathi kungase kukhathaze noma kucasule ingane ukuba ikhulume, ikhulume, ikhulume ngaphandle kokuzwakalisa utho. Ngokwenza lokhu, ingane ithuthukisa imisindo emisha futhi isebenze ekubizeni amagama amasha.

Phakathi namazwi okuqala omntwana, kungcono ukungamlungisi uzibeka engozini yokumdikibalisa. Kuphoqelekile ukuthi ungasho cha ngemva kokuphimisa igama. Ingane ingase icabange ukuthi ukukhuluma kuyiphutha. Ukulungiswa kungenziwa ngaphezu kweminyaka emi-2. Kule minyaka, kuyadingeka ukwenza ukuphindaphinda kodwa hhayi ukugcizelela.

Uma umkhaya ukhuluma izilimi ezingaphezu kolulodwa, ingane kufanele ikhuthazwe ukuba ikhulume zonke izilimi ezizaziyo. Phakathi neminyaka yokuqala yokuphila kwakhe ingane izofunda ulimi lwangaphandle ngokushesha kakhulu futhi izoba izilimi ezimbili ngokushesha.

Ukuthola ulimi kubalulekile ekukhuleni kwengane. Kusukela ezikhathini zokuqala zokuphila kwakhe, ingane ixhumana. Ama-tweets namazwi aphenduka abe amagama bese abe imisho. Ngenxa yokwesekwa komuntu siqu, ingane izokwazi ngokushesha ukulusebenzisa kahle ulimi lwayo lwebele.