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I-convent: lapho ubaba ecabanga ukuthi ukhulelwe
Obaba bakusasa abakhula ngezinga elifanayo nelomfazi wabo okhulelwe, noma abahlushwa isicanucanu nokuphazamiseka kwemizwelo? Lena akuyona inganekwane. Lesi simo sinegama, i-Couvade, futhi singathinta cishe indoda eyodwa kwabayi-1. Odinga ukukwazi ngalokhu kukhulelwa kwabesilisa okumangalisayo.
Iyini i-Couvade?
I-Couvade syndrome iwukusabela okungokwengqondo okungahleliwe ngokuphelele okuzibonakalisa emadodeni (noma abesifazane) abanomlingani wabo olindele ingane. Ukuhunyushwa kwesiNgisi kwegama elithi “sympathetic pregnancy” kuyasho: umuntu one-Couvade Syndrome ubonakala ezwelana nokukhulelwa kangangokuthi aze abe nezimpawu ezithile zaso.
Izimpawu ze-Couvade
Uphawu owaziwa kakhulu futhi obonakala kakhulu we-brood ukuzuza kwesisindo, okuvame ukutholakala endaweni yesisu esisha. Kodwa kungavezwa ngezinye izindlela eziningi: isicanucanu, ukukhathala, ukuphazamiseka kwemizwelo, ubuhlungu bokugaya ukudla, iqolo, ukulangazelela ukudla ... yokukhulelwa.
Izimbangela zendlu yezindela: ivelaphi?
Izizathu ezingachaza i-covade zihluka kakhulu kumuntu oyedwa kuya kwesinye. Lokhu kukhulelwa kwemizwa kungabonisa ukukhathazeka mayelana nenqubekelaphambili enhle yokukhulelwa nokubeletha, impilo yengane. Ingase futhi izwakalise ukwesaba ukungakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi njengomzali noma ukungayitholi indawo yakho kulokhu kucushwa komndeni okusha. Ngaphandle kokudlulela ekukhulumeni ngomhawu, isigodlo singabuye sibe ukubonakaliswa kokukhungatheka okuthile kokungakwazi ukuphila lokho umama wakusasa abhekene nakho.
Izimpawu zokukhulelwa zingaya kude kangakanani kubaba wesikhathi esizayo?
Kusukela ekuqaleni kwawo-2000, izifundo ezimbalwa zibonise ukushintshashintsha kwama-hormone kwabanye obaba bakusasa, okuhlanganisa ukwehla kwe-progesterone kanye / noma ukwanda kwe-prolactin, i-hormone eqala ukuncelisa.
Indlela yokunqoba i-covade?
Ngokuya ngezimpawu zakhe, ubaba wesikhathi esizayo angasebenzisa amakhambi afanayo nomngane wakhe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukunciphisa isicanucanu, i-acid reflux noma ubuhlungu beqolo. Ukulwa nokufakwa kwamakhilogremu engeziwe, kuphinde kube nesithakazelo sakhe ukulingisa umama ozoba ngokudla okulinganiselayo nokunyakaza okwengeziwe.
Ngokuyisisekelo, okubalulekile ukuvumela ubaba wesikhathi esizayo ukuthi akhulume ngalokho abhekana nakho, lokho akuzwayo. Ngisho noma ngezinye izikhathi kungeyona into engokwemvelo emadodeni, kufanele akwazi ukukhuluma ngakho konke lokhu nomngane, umzali, nozakwethu ... Lokhu kuzomvumela ukuba abeke izinto ngendlela efanele, abone ukuthi ukude kakhulu nokuba yedwa. icala, hhayi ukuzizwa unecala, ukuqonda kangcono lokho abhekene nakho futhi mhlawumbe ukuthola izindlela zokuphila ukukhulelwa kangcono. I-Haptonomy, ngoba ikuvumela ukuthi uxhumane ngokuthinta nengane yakho yesikhathi esizayo, ngokuvamile iphenduka ibe usizo oluyigugu. Kungase futhi kube usizo ukubamba iqhaza eqenjini lengxoxo elihloselwe obaba bakusasa, ziyanda izibhedlela zababelethisayo ezibanikezayo. Ukuhileleka ngendlela ebambekayo ngokwenza kabusha igumbi lomntwana, ukuchitha amahora amaningi ezinkundleni zokwenza ukukhetha okungcono kakhulu kwezinsiza zokunakekela izingane, ukulungiselela izimemo nakho kuyindlela yokuzizwa ubalulekile endimeni yakho njengobaba. Ekugcineni, kusobala ukuthi umama wakusasa unendima okufanele ayidlale ngokunaka lokho umngane wakhe abhekene nakho.
Uma konke lokhu kungenele, uma kungena ukungakhululeki kwangempela, ungangabazi ukukhuluma ngakho nombelethisi, udokotela wezifo zabesifazane, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kwabakhulelwe ...