Okuqukethwe
Kunoma iyiphi inhlolokhono yomsebenzi, kuhlale kunesiphakamiso sokuthi "ngitshele ngawe" maduze noma kamuva. Kubonakala sengathi impilo yethu yonke isilungiselela impendulo yalo mbuzo, kodwa abaningi abafaka izicelo bayalahleka futhi abazi ukuthi baqale kuphi. Ingabe lowo obuza imibuzo ufuna ngempela ukuzwa ukulandisa okuningiliziwe ngemisebenzi yethu kanye nempilo yomuntu siqu?
Eqinisweni, lo mbuzo uwuvivinyo lwamakhono okuxhumana omfakisicelo, ngakho ukubhala impendulo usohambeni kuyingozi kakhulu. Kodwa uma ukwazi ukwenza umqashi abe nentshisekelo emlandweni wendlela yakho yomsebenzi, kuzokusiza kakhulu ekuphenduleni yonke imibuzo elandelayo. “Ukukhuluma ngawe kuyingxenye ebalulekile yenhlolokhono. Kukunika ithuba lokuqinisekisa labo abaxoxa nabo ukuthi usifanele lesi sikhundla,” kusho uJudith Humphrey, umsunguli wenkampani yokuqeqesha abasebenzi.
Umqeqeshi ophethe kanye nomeluleki uSabina Nevaz, osebenze kwaMicrosoft iminyaka engu-14, uchaza ukuthi ulungiselela amaklayenti akhe ukuphendula lo mbuzo kwasekuqaleni. "Ngokukhuluma ngabo, umuntu ozongenela ukhetho uthola ukulawula inqubo yenhlolokhono futhi angagxila kulezo zici zomsebenzi wakhe ezibaluleke kakhulu kumqashi omusha."
Ukuze ulungiselele indaba ehloniphekile ngawe, kuzodingeka wenze umzamo omkhulu. Nakhu okubalulekile okufanele ukunake.
Ungawenzi amaphutha ajwayelekile
Umuntu oxoxisana naye kungenzeka ukuthi useyifundile i-resume yakho, ngakho-ke ungayiphindi futhi. “Akwanele ukusho ukuthi: Nginolwazi olunjalo, ngathola imfundo ethi naleyo, nginezitifiketi zokuthi nalokhu, ngasebenza ezinhlelweni ezinje nezingajwayelekile,” kuxwayisa uJosh Doody, owayengumphathi oqashayo nomqeqeshi oqeqeshayo. amaklayenti. ukuxoxisana ngamaholo. Abaningi abafuna umsebenzi bakhuluma ngalokhu, kodwa lena yindlela elula. Ngokudabukisayo siqala ukufaka kuhlu konke osekuvele ku-resume yethu. "
Uma uthatha indlela elula, uphuthelwa yithuba lokukhuluma okuthile okusha ngawe. “Akufanele” ulahle “intaba yolwazi ngawe kobuza imibuzo,” kugcizelela uJudith Humphrey.
Yisho ngokucacile umqondo oyinhloko
U-Humphrey uncoma ukwakha indaba ngawe mayelana nesitatimende esikhulu, enikeza ubufakazi obuthathu bayo. Ngokwesibonelo: “Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi nginamakhono amahle kwezamabhizinisi. Nginolwazi oluningi kule ndawo. Ngiyasithakasela lesi sikhundla njengoba sizonginika ithuba lokuthuthukisa amakhono ami.”
Ukuze ngandlela thize ugqame kwabanye abafake izicelo, udinga ukukholisa ababuza imibuzo ukuthi ukufika kwakho kuzokhuphula ukusebenza kahle kwabasebenzi. Kubalulekile ukwazi ngokuningiliziwe kusenesikhathi ukuthi yimiphi imisebenzi ithimba lakho lesikhathi esizayo eliyixazululayo, kanye nokusho ngqo lokho abaphathi abafuna ukukuzwa.
“Ngokwesibonelo, unentshisekelo esikhundleni somkhangisi. Uthola ukuthi ithimba lakho elisha libheke ukusebenza kakhulu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, ucaphuna uJosh Doody njengesibonelo. — Uma ku-interview ucelwa ukuba usho ngawe, ungathi: “Ngithanda kakhulu izinkundla zokuxhumana, sengineminyaka eyi-10 ngizisebenzisa, ngokwezinjongo zobungcweti nezomuntu siqu. Ngihlale ngifuna ithuba lokuletha umbono kubabukeli abaningi ngisebenzisa amapulatifomu amasha. Ngiyazi ukuthi iqembu lakho manje selifuna amathuba amasha futhi lizama ukuqhuba umkhankaso wokukhangisa ku-Instagram. Kungangijabulisa kakhulu ukubamba iqhaza kulokhu.”
Ngokuchaza ngokushesha umqondo oyinhloko wendaba yakho, ubonisa obuza imibuzo ukuthi yini okufanele ayibheke kuqala.
Sicela uqaphele ukuthi usho okuningi ngawe, kodwa lonke lolu lwazi luhlobene ngokuqondile nezinjongo nezinhloso zeqembu elisebenzayo ofuna ukujoyina.
Ngokuchaza ngokushesha umqondo oyinhloko wendaba yakho, ubonisa obuza imibuzo ukuthi yini okufanele ayibheke kuqala. USabina Nevaz unikeza lesi sibonelo sendaba ephathelene naye: “Ngingathi nginezimfanelo ezintathu eziye zafeza indima ebalulekile emsebenzini wami, futhi ziyoba usizo kakhulu [esikhundleni esisha]. Ngizokunikeza isibonelo. Ngo-2017, sabhekana nenkinga - [indaba emayelana nenkinga]. Inkinga kwaba [lokho]. Yilezi zimfanelo ezangisiza ukuba ngibhekane nenkinga - [ngayiphi indlela]. Yingakho ngibabheka njengamandla ami.”
Amaphuzu amabili abaluleke kakhulu okulungiselela kusengaphambili
Umsebenzi wakho awukona nje ukubhala amaqiniso omlando wakho, kodwa ukuxoxa indaba ehambisanayo ngawe. Kuzodingeka kusetshenzwe kusengaphambili.
Ukuxoxa indaba emnandi, qala uzibuze ukuthi iziphi izinto ozifezile oziqhenya ngazo nokuthi lokho okufeziwe kugqamisa kanjani amandla akho. Yiziphi kulezi zimfanelo ezizoba wusizo kuwe esikhathini esizayo?
Ungabi banal. “Noma ngubani uzothi uhlakaniphile, ukhuthele futhi uyakwazi ukufeza izinhloso zakhe. Kunalokho, sitshele ngezici zakho eziyingqayizivele, mayelana nalezo zimfanelo ezikuhlukanisa kwabanye, u-Sabina Nevaz uyeluleka. "Kungani zibaluleke kangaka emsebenzini wakho omusha?"
Umgomo wakho uwukuqonda ukuthi inkampani yenzani, yiziphi izinjongo eziphishekelayo, yiziphi izingqinamba ehlangabezana nazo endleleni yokuzifeza.
Ungaqoqa kanjani izibonelo eziningi zezimpumelelo zakho? "Ngincoma ukuthi amakhasimende ami akhulume nozakwethu, ozakwethu, abangani ngaphambi kwenhlolokhono - bazokusiza ukhumbule amacala athakazelisayo okungenzeka ukuthi usuwakhohliwe," kusikisela u-Nevaz.
Kubaluleke ngokufanayo ukuqonda ukuthi kungani inkampani ifuna umsebenzi walesi sikhundla nhlobo. “Eqinisweni, kungxoxo uyabuzwa:“ Ungasisiza kanjani? Uma ufika uzilungiselele, usuvele uyazi ukuthi umqashi wakho wesikhathi esizayo udingani,” uqinisekile uJosh Doody.
Kuyini lokhu kulungiselelwa? U-Doody uncoma ukuthi ufunde ngokucophelela incazelo yomsebenzi, useshe i-inthanethi ngolwazi mayelana nenkampani, zama ukuthola amabhulogi noma amavidiyo ozakwenu bakusasa. “Inhloso yakho ukuqonda ukuthi inkampani yenzani, yiziphi izinjongo eziphishekelayo, yiziphi izingqinamba ebhekana nazo endleleni yokuzifeza,” kugcizelela yena.
Ungayikhiphi indaba
“Ukuvikela izethameli ekulahlekelweni yintshisekelo yazo, zama ukwenza indaba yakho ithathe umzuzu owodwa. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, cishe ngeke ube nesikhathi sokusho yonke into ebalulekile, kodwa uma ulibala, impendulo yakho cishe izoqala ukubukeka njenge-monologue, "kuncoma uJudith Humphrey.
Yiqiniso, kuzodinga ukuhlakanipha okungokomzwelo okuthuthukisiwe ukuqonda ukuthi izilaleli zinesithakazelo kangakanani. Zama ukuzwa isimo sezethameli. Kubalulekile ukuthi abaxoxisana nabo bawuqonde ngokucacile umqondo wakho oyinhloko. Indaba engahlangani "mayelana nayo yonke into" ikhombisa ukuthi umfakisicelo akanawo wonke umbono wokuthi uXNUMXbuXNUMXbhimself.