Ukuhlaziywa kwengane kuhlukile kunomuntu omdala.
Umbhali, umhlaziyi onolwazi olunzulu esebenza nezingane ezineminyaka ehlukene ubudala, uhlonza ukuhlukana okubili okuyinhloko: 1) isimo sokuncika kwengane kubazali, umhlaziyi akakwazi ukuzibamba ekuqondeni ukuphila kwangaphakathi kwesiguli sakhe, ngoba lokhu kuhambisana nakho. ukuphila kwangaphakathi kwabazali bakhe nasekulinganiseni kwengqondo yomndeni wonke; 2) ithuluzi eliyinhloko lokuveza okuhlangenwe nakho kumuntu omdala ulimi, futhi ingane iveza imithelela yakhe, amaphupho nezingxabano ngokudlala, imidwebo, ukubonakaliswa komzimba. Lokhu kudinga «umzamo othize wokuqonda» kusuka kumhlaziyi. Isidingo sokwelashwa okuphumelelayo sidalwa inqubo equkethe izimpendulo zemibuzo eminingi "yezobuchwepheshe" (nini futhi kungakanani ukuhlangana nabazali, noma ngabe uvumela ingane ukuthi isuse imidwebo eyenziwe phakathi neseshini, ukuthi ungayiphendula kanjani ulaka…).
I-Institute for Humanitarian Research, 176 p.