Uma ubheka ingxenye emfushane yomsebenzi, kungase kuhlukaniseke kakhulu - lena i-psychology enempilo noma i-psychotherapy, iba sobala uma usuvele ubona isiqondiso, umgomo - okuhlosiwe komsebenzi.
Ingabe Ukulalela Okusebenzayo Kudingekile Ku-Psychotherapy? Cha, kungaba noma yini. Uma ukulalela ngenkuthalo kusetshenziswa ukuze umuntu akhulume futhi akhulule umphefumulo kulokho okungagayekisiwe, lokhu kufana nokwelashwa kwengqondo. Uma ukulalela ngokuzimisela kusetshenziswa umphathi ukuze kube lula ukuthi umsebenzi atshele konke akwaziyo, lokhu kuyingxenye yenqubo yomsebenzi futhi akuhlangene nokwelashwa kwengqondo.
Kukhona indlela, futhi kukhona ukuphela, nakho okuhlosiwe. Ungasebenza ngokuthile okugulayo, okusho ukukhululeka kwempilo engeyinhle - lena ukwelashwa kwengqondo. Ungasebenza ngokuthile okunempilo ukuze unciphise ukungabi nampilo okuvamile - lokhu kuphinde kube yi-psychotherapy. Ungasebenza ngokuthile okunempilo ukuze uthuthukise amandla, ubungqabavu, ulwazi namakhono — lena ipsychology enempilo. Ngesizathu esifanayo, ngingasebenza nento egulayo (ngikhumbula izinto ezingigulelayo ukuze ngiphakamise wonke amandla ami, ngithukuthele futhi ngiwine imincintiswano) - lena i-psychology enempilo, nakuba kungabonakali ukuthi yiyona. ngempumelelo kakhulu.
Ekulapheni kwengqondo, okuhlosiwe kubagulayo, abagulayo njengento evimbela isiguli (iklayenti) ukuba siphile ngokugcwele futhi sithuthuke. Lokhu kungaba umsebenzi oqondile onengxenye egulayo emphefumulweni womuntu, umsebenzi onezithiyo zangaphakathi ezimvimbela ukuba aphile futhi athuthuke, futhi lokhu kungaba umsebenzi ngengxenye enempilo yomphefumulo - kuze kube sezingeni lokuthi lo msebenzi ungasiza ekuqedeni ogulayo. isimiso esingokomoya.
Ngakho-ke, ukusho ukuthi ukwelashwa kwengqondo kusebenza kuphela nengxenye egulayo, kuphela ngezinkinga nobuhlungu, akulungile. Iningi lama-psychotherapist asebenzayo asebenza nengxenye enempilo yomphefumulo, kodwa, siyaphinda, inqobo nje uma i-psychotherapist ihlala iyi-psychotherapist, umgomo wakhe uhlala egula.
Ku-psychology enempilo, okuhlosiwe kunempilo, lokho okuwumthombo wokuphila okugcwele nokuthuthuka komuntu.
Ukuhlaziywa kwecala elithile
UPavel Zygmantovich
Esihlokweni se-athikili yakho yakamuva mayelana nokusebenza kwengqondo enempilo, ngiyashesha ukwabelana - ngithole ilukuluku, ngokubona kwami, incazelo yokuhlangenwe nakho kweklayenti. Umbhali wencazelo yi-psychotherapist ethola ukwelashwa kwengqondo yomuntu siqu. Nganginesithakazelo esikhulu kulesi siqephu: “Futhi ngimbonga kakhulu umelaphi wami ngeqiniso lokuthi akazange asekele ukulimala kwami, kodwa okokuqala kukho konke ukusebenza kwami okuguquguqukayo. Azange akhale nami, wangimisa lapho ngiwela kokuhlangenwe nakho, ethi: «Kubukeka sengathi uthole ukulimala, asiphume lapho. Wayengasekeli ukuhlupheka, izinkumbulo zokuhlukumezeka (nakuba wabanika indawo), kodwa ukomela ukuphila, isithakazelo emhlabeni, isifiso sokuthuthukiswa. Ngoba ukusekela umuntu okuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu kuwumsebenzi oyize, ngoba ukuhlukumezeka akukwazi ukuphulukiswa, ungafunda kuphela ukuphila nemiphumela yako. Lapha ngibona inhlanganisela yesikhundla osigxekayo mayelana "nokuhlukunyezwa kokuqala" (ngiyaxolisa ngokushesha uma ngingakuqondi kahle ukugxeka kwakho) kanye neqhinga olisekelayo lokuthembela engxenyeni enempilo yobuntu. Labo. uhlobo lomelaphi lusebenza nabagulayo, kodwa ngokubonakaliswa okunempilo. Ucabangani ngalokhu? Ingabe yilokhu okumelayo? Ingabe i-psychotherapy noma intuthuko kakade?
NI Kozlov
Ngiyabonga ngombuzo omuhle. Angazi impendulo enhle, ngicabanga nawe.
Kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi kungaba okulungile kakhulu ukubiza lo chwepheshe ngesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, hhayi "umelaphi", futhi kungenzeka ukuthi kulokhu kwakungekho nhlobo ukwelashwa kwengqondo, kodwa ukusebenza ngaphakathi kohlaka lwe-psychology enempilo. Umfana wakhumula idolo, ubaba wamtshela ukuthi "Ungakhali!" Ubaba lapha akuyena udokotela, kodwa ubaba.
Ingabe lesi sibonelo siyisibonelo sokuthuthuka kwengqondo? Angiqiniseki nhlobo. Kuze kube manje, ngine-hypothesis yokuthi umelaphi (noma okuthiwa umelaphi) ugcine isithakazelo emhlabeni kanye nesifiso sokuthuthuka ngenkathi umuntu ehlushwa ukuhlukumezeka. Futhi ngokushesha nje lapho ukulimala kuyeka ukulimaza, ngicabanga ukuthi inqubo yokwelapha yema. Ingabe kuyiqiniso ukuthi othile lapha wayezothuthukisa?!
Ngendlela, naka inkolelo ethi "ukuhlukumezeka akukwazi ukuphulukiswa, ungafunda kuphela ukuphila nemiphumela yako."
Ngingajabula ukuqinisekiswa ukuthi nginephutha.