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Izintaba ezingama-88 zabantu abajabule
Kulesi sahluko esithi "Izinyathelo ezingama-88 zabantu abajabulayo" ngichaza ukuthi kubaluleke kanjani ukwamukela zonke izinto ezingaphandle nezangaphakathi
Uyisipanji uma… wamukela kahle. Uyazivumela ukuthi ubheke kunokuba wahlulele, ungene ngaphakathi esikhundleni sokwenqaba, hlala uzolile noma ngabe ungayithandi kangakanani into esikhundleni sokusabela nokuqhuma. Sikhuluma ngento ebuswa ukulalela, ukuzindla nokuzithiba.
Uyi-cactus uma… uyasebenza. Uhlala usesimweni sokuxwayisa nokuvikela, ekuzivikeleni; uzimisele ukubhoboza iziqu zakho noma ngubani owela umugqa obomvu owudalile; ukubeka owokuqala odlula ileveli yakho yokubekezelela okuphansi. Ilawulwa ukwahlulela, ukubona kanye nokujezisa.
Kokubili, izipanji kuphela eziseduze nempumelelo yangaphakathi.
Lesi Sinyathelo sixhunyaniswe kakhulu naleso esedlule, ngoba ukwamukela ukunqotshwa ukuphazamiseka futhi ukwamukela ukusinqoba, futhi ngale mibono, inhloso yami ukuthi kusukela namuhla wazi inani lezikhathi lapho uyi-cactus, okungukuthi, reagent. Ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho uvumela ukuphazamiseka kushaye ukushaya kwakho futhi kukwenze uzwe ukwenqatshwa okushintshiwe kothile noma okuthile, okuncane noma okukhulu, womabili uma ukuveza futhi noma ungakwenzi, uzobe usinqotshwe umzuzwana wokuphinda usebenzise, futhi lokho kuyosho impi elahlekile. Uyini umgomo wakho maqondana neSinyathelo? Kwangathi usuku lungafika lapho izinga lakho lokuzithiba kanye nePumelelo yangaphakathi lifana nokuthi inani lakho lezikhathi ezisebenzayo lilingane no… zero.
Thatha lokhu kuhlolwa okusheshayo. Unjani umbala we-cactus? Ukuze uthole, yima ucabange futhi ubale inani lezikhathi lapho, uma ungathandi okuthile, uyisisulu sokuphinda wenze okuthile, mhlawumbe ngoba “weqa” / wahlubuka / waqhuma, noma ngoba, noma ngabe ungathandi iveze, ingaphakathi lakho selingene esimeni sokuphazamiseka. (Qaphela: intukuthelo, ukufutheka, noma ukufutheka kuhlala kuyingxenye yalesi simo.)
I-RED CACTUS: uyasebenza izikhathi ezingaphezu kwezinhlanu ngosuku.
I-ORANGE CACTUS: uyasebenza kanye ngosuku.
I-CACTUS YAMAJUPA: kanye ngenyanga.
ISIKHATHI ESIKHULU: izikhathi ezingama-zero ngonyaka odlule.
"Kuthiwani uma umshayeli engithuka ngoba ngimiswe isikhathi eside kunokudingekile ngifaka ilambu eliluhlaza?" Thatha lokho kuthuka njengoba nje ubungathatha isimemo sokwenza ubugebengu. Uma isela likucela ukuthi usize ukweba amathelevishini amabili ukushintshanisa ngokugcina eyodwa, ubungakwenza? Cha. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ubungeke uwele kuleso silingo, ungaweli nakulesi. Njengoba unenkululeko yokukhetha ukungantshontshi lapho umenyiwe, unenkululeko yokungasabeli lapho ucasulwa. Ukwenza okuphambene akugcini ngokukhombisa ukwehlulwa empini, kukhombisa nobuthakathaka. Kuthiwani uma ngithola ukuthi indodana yami ibingasayi esikoleni? Angikwazi yini ukuthukuthela uma kunjalo? ”Cha. Empeleni ukuthukuthela akwengezi. Susa nje. Ngabe usho ukuthi kufanele ngisonge izandla zami futhi ngiyivumele njengeze? Impela. Beka imingcele efana ncamashi naleyo ongayibeka namhlanje ukuyivimba ukuthi ingakwenzi lokho, kepha… kusuka esikhwameni esimhlophe, okungukuthi, ngaphandle kokumemeza, ngaphandle kolaka, ngaphandle kolaka. "Ngakho-ke, ngingaqina yini ngikucacisele ukuthi akwamukeleki?" Yebo kunjalo.
Yilapho kulele khona umlingo.
Isipanji siyamukela ngoba siyamunca futhi samukele. Noma inyathelwe, ukuqina kwayo kubuyela esimeni sayo sokuqala ngemuva kokunyathelwa. I-cactus iyasebenza ngoba iyenqaba futhi iyahamba. Futhi sonke sinenkululeko yokuzikhethela ukuba sibe yinye noma esinye nsuku zonke zempilo yethu.
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