Ukushintsha konyaka ekhalendeni kuyisizathu esinamandla “sokuqalisa kabusha”, silalele igagasi lenjabulo futhi silungele yonke into esisilungiselele yona unyaka “osanda kwenziwa”. Phela, lokhu yikho kanye esikulindele kusukela esikhathini somlingo soNyaka Omusha namaholide kaKhisimusi! Kodwa-ke, izimangaliso ziyizimangaliso, kodwa impilo iyashintsha ibe ngcono, njengoba wazi, incike kakhulu kithi. Ngakho-ke, ezinye izincomo ezilula zokuthi ungafaka kanjani isandla ekushintsheni okuhle kwempilo kusukela ekuqaleni konyaka: Isinyathelo sokuqala: yenza ukuhlela kabusha okuhlelwe isikhathi eside endaweni yakho yokusebenza nasefulethini lakho - lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuthi uqale uchungechunge lwezinguquko, uqale. ngobuncane. Hlela kabusha ifenisha, mhlawumbe ubeke iphepha lodonga elisha, ulahle ngokweqile: hlela indawo ngendlela othanda ngayo ukuhlala, ukusebenza nokuthuthukisa kuyo. Ideskithophu ehlanzekile nehlelwe kahle enamafolda amasha amahle izokwenza uzizwe sengathi ushintsho lusaqala futhi ikukhuthaze ukuthi wenze izinguquko ezinkulu onyakeni ozayo. Unyaka omusha uyisiqalo esisha futhi ukukhombisa uthando oluncane nokuzinakekela kubalulekile. Shintsha isitayela, umbala wezinwele, uma yilokho obufuna ukukwenza isikhathi eside, kodwa awuzange ulinge. Thenga okuthile (nakuba kungabalulekile kakhulu, kodwa okufisayo) ngokwakho. Futhi-ke, i-dessert oyikhonzile kuleli phuzu iyadingeka! Umsebenzi okhuthazayo futhi odalula ukusungula indlela engcono kakhulu yokuqala unyaka omusha. Hhayi nje ngoba imisebenzi enjalo izokujabulisa, kodwa izokwenza ujabule, uzolile futhi uvumelane, izokuvumela ukuba ukwandise imingcele yokucabanga. Uma ngonyaka odlule ubungaphansi kokucindezeleka okukhulu, thola isikhathi nendawo ejabulisayo yokuzindla, qaphela incwadi ethakazelisayo. Iviki lamaholide, isikhathi sokuphumula kanye … nokubuyela endleleni yokusebenza! Ngokungangabazeki, uzibekele imigomo futhi wenze izinqumo eziningi eziqinile ngaphambi kukaNcibijane, ezivame ukukhohlwa ekuseni ngemva kwewashi le-chiming. Hhayi-ke, sekuyisikhathi sokushintsha igeyimu futhi ukhumbule zonke izinjongo nezinhlelo ezihlosiwe, kanye nokuqala ukuya ekusetshenzisweni kwazo, noma kancane, kodwa nsuku zonke. Uma isinqumo sakho esiqinile sokwehlisa amaphawundi engeziwe, sekuyisikhathi sokuthi uhambe uyothenga okubhaliselwe ekilabhini yokuzivocavoca izinyanga eziyi-6 - ngale ndlela ngeke uzibuyisele emuva (phela, unembeza wakho ngeke ukuvumele ukuthi ushiye ijimu, uchithe isikhathi imali oyithole mahhala 🙂). Ngamunye wethu unentaba yamathalente angakasetshenziswa alindele ukudalulwa. Ziphonsele inselelo - thola ithalente lakho! Ukudansa, ukudweba, ukucula, ukuhlanganisa, noma yini. Ungase udinge ukuthenga izincwadi ezifanele noma ufunde izifundo eziku-inthanethi ngendlela ekhethiwe. Ngokunokwenzeka, phakathi nonyaka (noma iminyaka eminingi?), uzenzela isithembiso sokuyeka ukubhema noma ukukhiqiza kakhulu. Noma ngabe bekuyini, sekuyisikhathi sokuguqula imicabango ibe iqiniso: MANJE. Izimfanelo zethu ezimbi, imikhuba kanye nakho konke esifuna ukukuqeda kungahlala kithi iminyaka eminingi. Uma ziqhubeka isikhathi eside, kuba nzima nakakhulu ukuziqeda. Unyaka Omusha Okhiqizayo!
2022-11-11