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Xhasa ingane: isebenza kanjani?
Ngokuqondile, umxhasi uyakhokha njalo ngenyanga isamba esinqunyiwe (ngokuvamile esingama-euro angu-30) esizokwenza ngcono impilo yengane - i-godson - kanye nedolobhana lakubo, ngesenzo senhlangano yokusiza abantu ekhona ngaleso sikhathi.
Kancane kancane, uzodala a ubuhlobo bangempela nalengane: umbhalela, umthumelele izipho ezincane. Ngokubuyisela, ukuthumelela izithombe, izincwadi, imidwebo ezokutshela ngempilo yakhe yansuku zonke, ukuze akwazise emndenini wakhe… Yebo, izinhlamvu zidlula kumhumushi we-NGO uma ungakhulumi ulimi olufanayo.
Umzimba onesibopho iphrojekthi futhi ikunikeza izindaba zakho godson, ikutshela ngenqubekelaphambili yakhe esikoleni, impilo yasemaphandleni ... Ezinye izinhlangano zize zihlele nohambo (ngezindleko zakho) ukuze zihlangane nonkulunkulu nemindeni yazo.
Ukwazi: uzuza ku-a ukudonswa kwentela 66% enani oyikhokhayo. Umnikelo wama-euro angama-25 ngenyanga ngakho-ke ubiza ama-euro angu-8,50 ngempela.
Uxhaso lwenziwani?
Imali oyinikelayo ayikhokhelwa idlozi lakho ngqo, kodwa ikhokhelwa isigodi sonke. Ngaphandle kwalokho bekuyoba okungalungile kakhulu: ezinye izingane zizoxhaswa, ngakho-ke zisizwa, kanti ezinye azizange zixhaswe. Ngokuvamile lezi usizo lwentuthuko ukhonkolo kakhulu: ukuthengwa kwemishini yezolimo, ukufakwa kwenethiwekhi yamanzi okuphuza. Noma ukwakhiwa kwesikole, ukuthengwa kwezinto zesikole … Ezinye izinhlangano “zikhethekile” kakhulu ekusizeni imfundo, ezinye kwezempilo, izinsiza zezingane ezikhubazekile, ezinye zisafunda. ukuthuthukiswa kwekhaya. Lokhu kuthinta cishe zonke izindawo.
Izinhlangano eziningi zithumela cishe eyodwa ukuhlolwa okulinganiselwe kwesenzo sabo. Futhi esizeni sabo, uzokwazi ukuya ekwakhiweni kwesikole, isivuno sedolobhana… Ngakho ungabona kahle ukuthi imali oyinikezayo isetshenziselwa ini.
Ngingakwazi yini ukukhetha ingane engizoyixhasa?
Kuncike ezinhlanganweni. Abanye bakunikeza yona, abanye bazikhethela bona, ngokuya ngezinto eziza kuqala abazichazile. Ngokuvamile ungakwazi, uma uthanda, khetha izwekazi godson wakho, kanye nobulili bakhe. Lokhu kungaba umqondo omuhle wokukusiza ukhethe: isibonelo, uma ukhuluma kahle iSpanishi, kuzoba lula ukubhalelana nengane yaseNingizimu Melika.
Ezinye izinhlangano zivuna ama- ukuxhaswa kwamantombazane amancane : ezingxenyeni eziningi zomhlaba, yibo abathunyelwa kaningi esikoleni.
Uxhaso luthatha isikhathi esingakanani?
Isikhathi esiningi uzocelwa ukuthi wenze xhasa ingane iminyaka eminingana: ukuze iphumelele, iphrojekthi kumele iqhubeke. Ngezinye izikhathi kunembile kakhulu: isibonelo, isikhathi sokufunda esikoleni samabanga aphansi, ukwakhiwa kwe-dispensary. Nokho, ungakwazi cishe njalo ukuqeda uxhaso lwakho noma nini lapho ufuna. Buza.
Ubufakazi buka-Emmanuèle, unina kaJeanne (iminyaka engu-8), u-Adèle (iminyaka engu-2 nengxenye) no-Lola (izinyanga ezingu-9)
“Selokhu kwazalwa indodakazi yethu uJeanne, siye saxhasa ngezimali intombazanyana yaseVietnam. Manje u-Tran uneminyaka engu-10 ubudala. Sizwa kuye njalo, futhi mina, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngimthumelela izipho ezincane: unodoli wosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa, amapensela anemibala, izinto zesikole ... Ngiyazi ukuthi imali esiyinikeza inyanga ngayinye isiza idolobhana lakubo ekwenzeni umsebenzi owusizo kuwo wonke umuntu. , ukunakekela isikole… Akwaziwa igama lakhe kunomnikelo nje, futhi siyazi ukuthi imali iya kuphi.
Okuhle ngempela ukuthi uJeanne noTran baye bakha ubuhlobo bangempela: babhalelana, bathumelelana imidwebo, izithombe. Iphinde ivuleleke kwelinye isiko, ilungele uJeanne. Lapho u-Adèle, uthunjana wami, ezalwa, sanquma ukwethula olunye uxhaso, ukuze naye abe “nomngane ovela kolunye uhlangothi lwezwe”: ngu-Aïssa, umMaliya omncane. Ngo-Lola, asikaqali. Impela uzoba ngowaseNingizimu Melika omncane. Amazwekazi amathathu, amasiko amathathu, futhi ngithemba, amathuba aphindwe kathathu kulawa mantombazanyana akhe ikusasa elingcono. “
Ezinye izinhlangano zoxhaso
>>: isebenza e-Afrika, e-Asia, eNingizimu Melika. Uxhaso losizo lwentuthuko (ukwakhiwa kwedolobhana, ukutholakala kwamanzi okuphuza, imikhankaso yezempilo, njll.).
>>: kugxile kakhulu osizweni lwesikole.
>>: inhlangano ehlinzeka ngoxhaso lwamantombazane amancane avela emincane yaseMiao nase-Dong eningizimu yeChina. Abazali babo, abampofu kakhulu, bahambisa abafana esikoleni kuphela. Ngama-euro angu-50 ngonyaka, singabanikeza unyaka wesikole samabanga aphansi.