I-Psychology

Basintshontshela isikhathi sokulala, sokuphumula, ukukhulumisana nabathandekayo. Omakhalekhukhwini bethu sebebaluleke kakhulu kithi kunezingane zethu nabazukulu. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Christophe Andre sithemba isizukulwane esisha futhi usibheka njengesincike kancane kumagajethi.

Indaba yokuqala yenzeka esitimeleni. Intombazane eneminyaka emithathu noma emine ubudala iyadonsa, ihlezi maqondana nabazali bayo. Umama ubukeka ecasukile, kubonakala sengathi ngaphambi kokuhamba kwakukhona ukuxabana noma uhlobo oluthile lwenkathazo: ubheka efasiteleni futhi ulalele umculo ngama-headphone. Ubaba wabuka isikrini socingo lwakhe.

Njengoba intombazane ingenamuntu engaxoxa nayo, ikhuluma yodwa: “Emdwebeni wami, umama ... Ulalela ama-headphones akhe futhi uthukuthele, umama ... Umama ulalela ama-headphones akhe ... akajabule ... «

La mazwi uwaphindaphinda kaningana kusukela ekuqaleni kuze kube sekugcineni, ejeqeza uyise ngekhoneni leso, enethemba lokuthi uzomnaka. Kodwa cha, uyise, ngokusobala, akanandaba naye nhlobo. Okwenzeka ocingweni lwakhe kumthatha kakhulu.

Ngemva kwesikhashana, intombazane iyathula - yayiqonda yonke into - futhi iqhubeka nokudweba ngokuthula. Khona-ke, ngemva kwemizuzu eyishumi, usafuna inkhulumomphendvulwano. Ube esekwazi ukulahla zonke izinto zakhe ukuze abazali bakhe bagcine bekhulumile naye. Kungcono ukuthethiswa kunokunganakwa...

Indaba yesibili. … Umfana uyaphenduka ebuka kabi futhi ayokhuluma nomkhulu wakhe. Uma ngiqhamuka nazo, ngizwa: “Mkhulu, sivumelene: awekho amagajethi uma siwumkhaya!” Indoda ikhuluma okuthile ngaphandle kokukhipha amehlo ayo esikrinini.

Kuyamangaza! Ngabe ucabangani nangeSonto ntambama, edlalisa umshini wokukhipha ubudlelwano? Ifoni ingaba yigugu kanjani kuye ukwedlula ukuba khona komzukulu?

Izingane ezibone ukuthi abantu abadala baziphuca kanjani ngama-smartphone bazoba nobudlelwano obuhlakaniphe kakhulu namagajethi abo.

Isikhathi esichithwa phambi kwezikrini ze-smartphone sintshontshwa nakanjani kweminye imisebenzi. Ezimpilweni zethu zangasese, lesi ngokuvamile isikhathi esintshontshwa ekulaleni (kusihlwa) nasebudlelwaneni bethu nabanye abantu: umndeni, abangani noma ngokuzenzakalelayo (ntambama). Siyakuqaphela lokhu? Uma ngiqalaza, kimina kubonakala sengathi akukho...

Amacala amabili engiwabonile angicasula. Kodwa futhi bayangikhuthaza. Ngiyaxolisa ukuthi abazali nogogo nomkhulu bagqilazwe amagajethi abo.

Kodwa ngiyajabula ukuthi izingane, eziye zabona indlela abantu abadala abampofu ngayo futhi bezilulaza ngayo ngalezi zisetshenziswa, zizogcina ubuhlobo obuqaphile futhi obunengqondo ngamagajethi abo kunezizukulwane ezindala, izisulu zokumaketha, ezithengiswa ngempumelelo umfudlana ongapheli wolwazi kanye amadivaysi okusetshenziswa kwawo ("Noma ngubani ongathinteki akayena umuntu", "Angizikhawuleli kunoma yini").

Wozani, basha, sithembele kini!

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