Ucansi nokukhulelwa: omama bayafakaza

Cha, angizange ngikuzwe ukuqhuma kwe-2nd trimester ...

UMarie walinda kwaba nhlanga zimuka nomoya ukukhuphuka kwesifiso: “Ngangixwayiswe ngokuthi ku-trimester yokuqala, ngangizifaka engozini yokulala kancane. Bengilindele okusele, ngase ngizwe okuningi ngalokhu “kwanda kobumnandi”… Ngakhala ngokunengeka kakhulu ngocansi ”.

Isimanga! Esiphithiphithini esikhulu esiwukukhulelwa, besilindele konke ngaphandle kwalokho: akusekho isifiso! Siyazi ukuthi ku-trimester yokuqala, izinkathazo ezincane zokukhulelwa ngokuvamile ziba ngcono ku-libido yethu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, "uthenjiswe" ukuphakama kwesifiso - ukuphila isikhathi eside amahomoni - kusukela ku-2nd trimester. Futhi uzithola ungenamandla okungezwa lutho oluhlukile. Okubi kakhulu ! Ukuze ube ngaphansi kwesidingo kunangaphambili. Kuyenzeka ! Okubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina ukusondelana kwakho nomlingani wakho ngoku-caress, imidlalo evusa inkanuko, zonke izindlela ezikuvumela ukuthi uhlale uxhumene.

Siza, i-libido yami isisezingeni eliphezulu!

“Ukukhulelwa kwangivumela ukuba ngithole imizwa ngaphandle kwaleyo enganginayo ngaphambili,” kuchaza uGeraldine. Ngizwela kakhulu ukuphululwa okuthile, ukuthinta okuthile… futhi ngikuthola kumnandi “ukuthola kabusha” umzimba wami… ”Abanye besifazane abakhulelwe bayamangala nge-libido yabo entsha sha. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi ngaphansi komphumela we-progesterone (i-hormone yenjabulo) ukuzwela kwesikhumba, amabele kanye ne-clitoris kuyakhula futhi ukuzwa kwe-vagin kungase kuqine kakhulu. Ku-Hélène, imizwa emisha inobudlova nakakhulu: "Kusukela emasontweni okuqala okukhulelwa kuze kube sekupheleni, ngine-libido efanelwe i-movie ye-X, engekho nhlobo emikhubeni yami. Bengidinga ukuba nempilo yocansi ephuphumayo nsuku zonke, ucansi lwethu lwacishe lwaqina futhi ngangidinga ukukunonga ngezesekeli. “

Umyeni wami uyenqaba ukwenza uthando nami

U-Agathe ukhathazekile: “Akasangithinti, ngisho nokunganga, akusekho lutho okwesikhashana, mnumzane ulele!” Kuyadabukisa ngempela, ngizizwa kabi ekhanda lami nasemzimbeni wami… Angazi noma uyaqaphela yini, kodwa ngicindezelekile. “

Ezikhathini eziningi abayeni bayamangala ngesimo sakho esisha “njengomthwali wempilo”. Ngaphambili wawungunkosikazi wakhe nesithandwa sakhe manje usungumama wengane yakhe. Ngezinye izikhathi akuthathi okwengeziwe ukuze kubangele ukuvinjelwa okuncane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umzimba wakho uyashintsha, ngezinye izikhathi ngokuphawulekayo, okungase kukhuthaze indawo ethile yokugcina, ngisho nokuhlehla. Akasenaso isibindi sokukuthinta, wesaba ukukulimaza (wena nombungu) noma akasahehwanga lomzimba omusha. Ungathuki, konke kwenzeka ngokushesha! Ngezinye izikhathi kuthatha isikhashana nje, ngezinye izikhathi ububele nokugona kuzokugcina ubekezele kuze kube ngemva kokuzalwa.

Umyeni wami ushaqekile ngesifiso sami socansi

“Phakathi nezinyanga ezimbili zokuqala, phakathi kokukhathala nokucanuzela kwenhliziyo, kwakuzolile, kodwa kubi kakhulu, nginamaphupho amangalisayo! Isithandwa sami siphenduka ithoyizi lami locansi engilithandayo futhi ngiyabona ukuthi liyamkhathaza kancane ”, uyamangala u-Estelle. Akumangalisi: i-trimester yesibili ngokuvamile iyinkathi emnandi kakhulu yokukhulelwa. Owesifazane okhulelwe uzizwa efiseleka futhi ekhanga, amabele akhe asekhulile kodwa akakakasindwa kakhulu futhi uzizwa ekhathele kancane ... Futhi ama-hormone akhe, abheke phezulu, avame ukuvusa izifiso zobulili zangempela kuye ... Umyeni wakho angaphatheka kabi. ngesifiso sakho esisha. Mqinisekise, vele umchazele ukuthi konke lokhu kujwayelekile … kanye namahomoni. Kungukubheja okuphephile ukuthi nobabili nizoyithokozela le njabulo.

Nginamahloni ngamaphupho enkanuko enginawo

“Ezinyangeni ezi-3 ngikhulelwe ngaqala ukuba namaphupho avusa inkanuko. Izikhathi eziningi angikhulelwa, noma ngingekho nomyeni wami. Nokho impilo yethu yocansi imnandi kakhulu. “UGeraldine ukhathazekile:” Ngezinye izikhathi ngizithola nginowesifazane, noma amadoda amaningana. Kunoma ikuphi, ngivame ukuvusa inkanuko futhi lokho kuyangethusa. Ingabe lokhu kuyimvelo yami yangempela? ” Ukukhulelwa isikhathi sokuhlelwa kabusha kwengqondo lapho ukuqaphela kwakho kuzosebenza kakhulu. Engeza kulokho amahomoni akho akhulisa i-libido yakho ngokuphindwe kashumi (futhi angami ebusuku), unamaphupho avusa inkanuko kunamanye futhi uvuka usesimweni sokuvuka okunzima ukusilawula. Ukuthi mahle noma anenhlamba, yehlisa isithunzi, ungakhathazeki, amaphupho awalona iqiniso. Futhi ukusizakala ngakho ngoba akuqiniseki ukuthi uzoqhubeka yini ngemva kokuzalwa.

Ngikuthola kungafaneleki ukwenza uthando kuze kube usuku lokugcina

“Ngangingakwazi ukwenza uthando lapho ngikhulelwe, kuchaza u-Estelle, futhi ngaphandle kwalokho umyeni wami wayenamahloni. Kubonakale kungafaneleki kithi kangangokuthi sabona ingane ngeso lengqondo ”. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi phakathi kwesisu sakho esikhulu kanye nazo zonke izivivinyo, ikakhulukazi ama-ultrasound anikeza isithombe esinembayo, ugcina “ubona” ingane yakho. Kodwa ungesabi, akakuboni! Ivikelwe kahle esibelethweni bese kuba sesakeni le-amniotic. Ayikho ingozi ngakho. Uma nje kungekho ukuphikisana kwezokwelapha, ungaya ocansini… ngisho kuze kube usuku lokugcina. Yebo, kufanele uguqule imikhuba yakho ifane nesibalo sakho esisha, esingakusiza nokusungula izinto ezintsha!

Okokugcina, kangcono kunengilazi, ukwenza uthando kungasiza ekuqaliseni ukubeletha. Okokuqala nje ngoba isidoda sine-prostaglandin, ebamba iqhaza ekuvuthweni komlomo wesibeletho nangenxa yokuthi phakathi ne-orgasm, ukhipha i-oxytocin, i-hormone ethuthukisa imihelo ngesikhathi sokubeletha.

Ngathola imikhuba emisha yocansi

 UHélène wabuthakasela ubulili bakhe: “Ngasheshe ngaba nesifiso sokuthola izinto ezintsha nomyeni wami. Unginike indandatho edlidlizayo futhi sahlola imizwa eminingi emisha ”. Ukukhulelwa, nokuqhuma kwayo okudumile kwe-libido (lapho ifika), kuyithuba lokuthola imikhuba emisha. Ungakwazi ukukhokhela yonke into, ngobumnene! Amathoyizi ocansi ngokwesibonelo awekho nhlobo contraindicated, futhi uma uzizwa uthanda it - ngezinye izikhathi isikhathi eside - ungakwazi ukuzitika sodomy!

Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ungalahlekelwa umbono kanye "nesikhumba" nomlingani wakho. Ngakho-ke noma ngabe inkanuko ingekho, ungangeni ebudlelwaneni obungenabulili. Ukuthintana ngokomzimba kungenziwa ngendlela ehlukile, ngezimo zokudlala, ukuphululwa ngomlomo,… Ungangabazi!