Okuqukethwe
“Siza, angifuni nhlobo! “
Ukuzalwa komntwana a i-adventure ethokozisayo okwenza ukuphila kube nenjongo yangempela. Kodwa futhi iveza a ingozi yenhlekelele kwabashadile. Ubulili, ikakhulukazi, ngokuvamile budlula a indawo yesiyaluyalu. Iyashintsha, ngaphandle kokuthi lokhu kube yinkinga. Konke kuncike emandleni umbhangqwana kanye nekhono labo ukuxhumana. Ukuguquka komzimba wakho, intshisekelo ekhonjiswa enganeni (ezayo) engase ikhiphe isithandwa sakho, ukukhathala, ubuhlungu obungokomzimba ... izinto eziningi ezingakuvumeli ngempela ukuthuthukiswa kwe-libido. Kodwa uma umbhangqwana udonsa kanzima ukuthola omunye nomunye, usuchithe amasonto ambalwa okuphazamiseka okuvamile, kungcono ukungavumeli okungakhulunywanga, imibuzo kanye nokuhlazeka kungene.
Umbono we-shrink: “Abanye besifazane banombono wokuthi isifiso sowesilisa asikunaki lokho abakuzwayo. “
“Ubulili bushintsha ngokuhamba kwezinyanga, kwabanye besifazane ukwehla kwe-libido, kwabanye, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukwanda kwe-libido. Kuya ngokuthi sizibona kanjani kulo mzimba oguqukayo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi siyakujabulela ukuthatha amafomu noma cha ... Kulokhu, ngokuvamile, owesifazane angase angasafuni ukuya ocansini ... Ngoba ucabanga ukuthi umlingani wakhe angathanda ukuthi abe njengakuqala. Ukuntuleka kwesifiso nakho kungahambisana neqiniso lokuthi ngokufika komntwana, umbhangqwana awuseyona into ehamba phambili. Eqinisweni, inhloso yokusungula umbhangqwana yayingefani kulaba bobabili. Owesifazane wayefuna ukuqala umndeni, indoda umbhangqwana. Kuye, inhloso yokulala kwakungesona isifiso sobulili, kodwa isifiso somntwana. Ukuza Kwakhe kugcwalisa futhi kuthatha indawo yezinye izifiso. Abanye besifazane bangase babe nomuzwa wokuthi isifiso sabesilisa asikunaki lokho abakuzwayo. Okuyinhloko iwukuba uzinike isikhathi sokulalelana, ukuhlakulela ukusondelana kwababili okukuvumela ukuba uthole izikhathi zokuvusa inkanuko ukuze ungasuki kakhulu ngokomzimba, ngisho nalapho ubuhlobo bobulili buyindlala. “
UDkt Bernard Geberowicz, udokotela wezifo zengqondo, umbhangqwana kanye nomelaphi womndeni, umbhali ohlangene we "Babyclash, umbhangqwana ovivinyweni lwengane", u-Albin Michel.
“Kujwayelekile ukuthi kube nokwehla kwe-libido. Singawamukela umbono wokuthi amasonto ayishumi, umbhangqwana awuyona into ehamba phambili. Kubalulekile ukuxoxa kakhulu, hhayi ukuzizwa unecala ... futhi uthole isifiso sokuyenga. “
Umbono womelaphi wocansi: “Kubalulekile ukuzibuza ukuthi uyafuna ... ukufuna. “
“Sivame ukukhuluma ngama-hormone. Kodwa abangeneleli ngendlela embi. Ngokuphambene nalokho, owesifazane okhulelwe usesimweni esihle kakhulu sokuphila ukuze abe nesifiso nobumnandi: isikhukhula se-estrogen senza isitho sangasese sowesifazane sangasese sibe namanzi futhi sisebenze. Ngaphandle kokuthi imfundo yethu isitshela ukuthi sizoba ngumama futhi siyakugwema ukuthintana ... Ngemva kokubeletha, yini evimbela ukuya ocansini, kungaba ukoma kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, okunembangela yamahomoni. Kukhona indlela yokwelapha yasendaweni ekhuthaza ukugeleza kwamanzi (okuzokhethwa kunezithambisi ezomisa ngokushesha futhi zivumele ukungena, kodwa bese zenza umbiko ube inkimbinkimbi). Ngalesi sikhathi, kubalulekile ukuthi uzibuze ukuthi uyafuna yini ... ukufuna. Ngoba umthetho wangempela kwezocansi ukuphindaphinda! Uma siyeka, asisafuni. Uma ungavinjiwe, ukuzijabulisa ngama-caresses kungagcina isibopho sabashadikazi. Futhi, kuye ngomlando wayo, kuthatha isikhathi eside noma esifushane ngaphambi kokuqala kabusha ngokocansi: uma, izinyanga ezingu-2 emva kokuzalwa, ungenalo ubuhlobo nokungena, kufanele ukhulume ngakho futhi ngemva kwezinyanga ezingu-4, bonisana . “
UDkt Sylvain Mimoun, udokotela wezifo zabesifazane, uchwepheshe kwezocansi. Umbhali no-Rica Étienne de “Côté inhliziyo, uhlangothi locansi, izisekelo zenjabulo kwababili ”, u-Albin Michel.