I-"50 Shades of Gray" ikwenze kwakamuva, isimo socansi siyisithako esiwusizo kubabhangqwana abadinga injabulo. Umkhuba oqalayo, isifiso esibunayo… isenzo sesikhathi esiyingozi singavinjwa umcabango kanye nokusetshenziswa kwesimo socansi. Ukunonga ubulili bakhe, imibono emi-4 yocansi ngesimo.

Ucansi olunesimo akuwona nje umkhuba we-libertine obekelwe ozakwethu abanesibindi kakhulu. Indlela entsha yokubheka ubulili bakhe, ukuthuthukiswa nokwenziwa kwesimo socansi kungaba yindlela ephumelelayo yokukhulisa lo mbhangqwana ongenaso isifiso nokuvuselela ilangabi. Isigaba esibaluleke kakhulu njengokugcwaliseka kwefantasy ngesikhathi socansi, ukumiswa kwesimo socansi ngokwaso kusiza ukucasula isimiso sabathandi ngendlela enhle. Ngakho-ke uzilungiselela kanjani kahle ukwenza ifilimu yakho evusa inkanuko ye-amateur?

Isenzo sokuqala: cabanga ngesimo socansi

Ukuvela kwesigcawu kungalungiselelwa okungu-2 noma oyedwa, omunye uzakwethu ethatha isinyathelo sokumangaza omunye. Kunoma yikuphi, isimo socansi singaba umphumela wezindlela ezi-3 ezihlukene:

• Ngokusekelwe kokukhona:

Umbhangqwana ungathola ugqozi kuleli phuzu lokubuka ividiyo ye-porn noma isiqephu esivusa inkanuko esivela kufilimu edumile: lapho uLeonardo DiCaprio ependa u-Kate Winslet enqunu ku-Titanic, imigilingwane kaNicole Kidman noTom Cruise ku-Eyes Wide Shut, ukutholakala kocansi. kugxiliswe nguNkk Robinson ku-Laureate noma ukwanga okungamaki kuka-Scarlett Johansson no-Jonathan Rhys Meyer emvuleni ku-Match point, isibonelo.

Ozakwethu bangaphinda basebenzise umdlalo odlalwa kwezocansi odumile: umhlengikazi nesiguli, uthisha nomfundi, isitolo esisebenziseka kalula emakhaya noma nabantu ongabazi abahlangana okokuqala ngqa.

Ngenxa yogqozi, abathandi badonsa imibono yabo yocansi ngesimo ezimweni ezi-4 ezingezansi.

• Hijack a classic cinema scenario:

Ikakhulukazi, indaba yothando yenkosi nencekukazi egqugquzelwe uchungechunge lomlando ingaveza zonke izinhlobo zezimo zocansi. Isigcawu esivela enganekwaneni yenganekwane noma izithandwa ezidumile nazo ziwumthombo omuhle wogqozi lwesimo socansi esingase sinonge ubulili bomuntu.

• Cabanga ngesakho isimo socansi:

Abantu abanobuhlakani obukhulu badonsa emicabangweni yabo ukuze baqhamuke nendaba eyingqayizivele neyiyo esiteji ngesikhathi sokuhlangana kwabo ngokocansi okulandelayo.

Isenzo sesibili: lungiselela inkundla yokudlala

Uma isimo socansi sesihlanganiswe kahle, umbhangqwana uhlela ukuqaliswa kwawo: indawo efanele nesikhathi esifanele, izesekeli ezidingekayo kanye nethuba lokuqopha ukudideka kwabo, konke kufanele kucatshangelwe ukuze kufezeke ngokugcwele isimo socansi.

Kusukela embonweni wocansi olunesimo kuya ekuhleleni ukuqaliswa kwalo, zonke izigaba zokulungiselela le nganekwane sezivele zineqhaza ekukhuthazeni isasasa lozakwethu.

Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi ukuze avuse isithandwa sakhe

Ngaphandle kodlame, imidlalo enolaka iwumthombo wesasasa. Kulesi simo, kungahle kube lusizo kwabashadile abantula i-libido ukucabanga ngesimo socansi lapho umlingani aqala khona ukulwa i-duffel noma alingise impi yesibhakela.

Ibhalansi yamandla

Ubudlelwano obubuswa kakhulu futhi buwumthombo wokuvusa ucansi kweminye imibhangqwana, kepha futhi nethuba labathandi lokufuna ukwenziwa kwamaphupho angakahlolwa ngaphambili. Ukuze kusetshenziswe le bhalansi yamandla, ozakwethu bangasebenzisa izibalo ezihlukene ezifana nojele nesiboshwa sakhe noma umgeli nesisulu sakhe.

Ethula umuntu ongamazi ekhaya

Umuntu ogqekezayo, osebenza ngamapayipi amanzi noma olethayo, umfokazi ongena ekhaya uyiphupho elivela njalo, elingasebenza njengesisekelo sezimo eziningi zocansi.

Shwi nomtekhala

Uma ucansi olunesimo lungahlelwa, lungashiya nengxenye yokumangala, ukuze kuvuselelwe ucansi oluvusa amadlingozi. Mangaza omunye endaweni yomphakathi, sebenzisa ucansi ngocingo, hlela ukuzingelwa kodoti ngokushiya imikhondo mayelana nesimo esizayo socansi … imibono eminingi ongadweba kuyo ukuze uthole isimo socansi esiyimpumelelo, eqinisekisa umthamo omuhle kapelepele kwezocansi zabashadikazi.