Izinkinga zokuzihlonipha: kuyini?

Ukuzethemba a umqondo ongokwengqondo okusho ukuthi isahlulelo Jikelele omuhle ou kubi ukuthi umuntu anakho ngokwakhe.

Thezenani ukuthi umuntu uzoba nakho kuye kuzoncika kumapharamitha amaningi. THE’ozungezayo, L 'imfundo ubuntu, lo amakhono omzimbas et ubuhlakani, njll… konke okuguquguqukayo okuzothonya ukwahlulela esikwenzayo ngathi. Ukuzethemba kwakhelwa ebuntwaneni futhi kuzovela phakathi nenkathi yempilo kanye nolwazi lwe impumelelo futhi D 'ukwehluleka.

A ukuzenyeza kungabangela ukungakhululeki kanye nobunzima ebudlelwaneni nabanye abantu. Kuzoba yingozi futhi ekuthuthukisweni kokuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Abantu abanokuzethemba okuphansi abakaze bazizwe belungile ngokwanele, abakaze balinganise futhi bahlupheke kakhulu.

Ngokuphambene nalokho, a ukuzethemba okuphezulu kakhulu kungase kuholele umuntu ekuziphatheni nasezimo zengqondo ngokuvamile ezingaqondwa kahle ngabanye abavame ukumbona njengomuntu ozidlayo futhi oqiniseka ngokweqile ngaye. Ukuzethemba okuphakeme kakhulu kungaholela umuntu ukuba aziphathe engozini, ecabanga ukuthi uvikelekile kukho konke.

Ekugcineni, ukuzethemba “okuhle” kungahambisana nokuzethemba okwanelisayo, okungephansi kakhulu noma okuphezulu kakhulu, okuthuthukisa ubudlelwano kanye nenhlalakahle yomuntu.

Sekunesikhathi eside abacwaningi nabezindaba benentshisekelo kulokhu eduze ukuzethemba kanye nezenzo eziningi zezempilo zihlelwe ukuthuthukisa "ukuzethemba okuhle". Le ndlela izovumela izingane kanye nabantu ukuthi bachume ezindaweni eziningi futhi izobavimbela ekuthuthukisweni kwezifo ezinjengokucindezeleka kanye nokuphazamiseka okuthile kokukhathazeka.