Le miqondo emibili kulula ukuyidida, kodwa umehluko omkhulu phakathi kwayo. Indlela yokuhlukanisa omunye komunye? Yini okufanele ulwele ukuyilwela, futhi iyiphi ikhwalithi engcono ukuyisusa? Udokotela wengqondo nesazi sefilosofi u-Neil Burton wabelana ngemicabango ekusiza ukuthi ubheke ngaphakathi kuwe futhi, mhlawumbe, uziqonde kangcono.
Abanye bethu bakuthola kulula kakhulu ukuzethemba kunokuthola ukuzihlonipha kwangempela. Ngokuhlala siziqhathanisa nabanye, senza uhlu olungapheli lwamakhono ethu, impumelelo kanye nokunqoba kwethu. Esikhundleni sokubhekana nokushiyeka nokwehluleka kwethu, sikufihla ngemuva kwezitifiketi nemiklomelo eminingi. Kodwa-ke, uhlu olubanzi lwamakhono kanye nezimpumelelo akukaze kwanele noma kudingekile ukuze uthole ukuzethemba okunempilo.
Siyaqhubeka nokwengeza amaphuzu amaningi kuyo ngethemba lokuthi ngelinye ilanga lokhu kuzokwanela. Kodwa ngale ndlela sizama kuphela ukugcwalisa isikhala esingaphakathi kwethu - ngesimo, imali engenayo, impahla, ubudlelwano, ucansi. Lokhu kuyaqhubeka unyaka nonyaka, kuphenduke umjaho ongapheli.
"Ukuqiniseka" livela kwelesiLatini elithi fidere, "ukukholwa". Ukuzethemba kusho ukukholelwa kuwena - ikakhulukazi, emandleni akho okuphumelela noma okungenani ukuxhumana ngokwanele nomhlaba. Umuntu ozethembayo ukulungele ukubhekana nezinselele ezintsha, abambe amathuba, asingathe izimo ezinzima, futhi aziphendulele uma izinto zingahambi kahle.
Ngokungangabazeki, ukuzethemba kuholela kokuhlangenwe nakho okuphumelelayo, kodwa okuphambene nakho kuyiqiniso. Kuyenzeka futhi ukuthi umuntu azizwe enokuzethemba endaweni eyodwa, njengokupheka noma ukudansa, futhi angazethembi nhlobo kwenye, njengezibalo noma ukukhuluma esidlangalaleni.
Ukuzethemba — ukuhlola kwethu kwengqondo nemizwa kokubaluleka kwethu, ukubaluleka
Lapho ukuzethemba kuntuleka noma kuntuleka, isibindi siyabusa. Futhi uma ukuzethemba kusebenza emkhakheni owaziwayo, khona-ke isibindi siyadingeka lapho kunokungaqiniseki okuvuselela ukwesaba. “Masithi anginaso isiqiniseko sokuthi ngizogxumela emanzini ngisuka endaweni ephakeme ngamamitha ayi-10 kuze kube ngiba nesibindi sokukwenza okungenani kanye,” udokotela wengqondo nesazi sefilosofi uNeil Burton unikeza isibonelo. “Isibindi siyikhwalithi esezingeni eliphezulu kunokuzethemba, ngoba sidinga amandla engeziwe. Futhi futhi ngoba umuntu onesibindi unamakhono angenamkhawulo kanye namathuba.
Ukuzethemba nokuzethemba akuhambisani ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ikakhulukazi, ungazethemba kakhulu kuwe futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ube nokuzethemba okuphansi. Ziningi izibonelo zalokhu - thatha okungenani osaziwayo abakwazi ukucula phambi kwezinkulungwane zababukeli futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo bacekele phansi futhi bazibulale ngisho ngokusebenzisa izidakamizwa.
"Inhlonipho" ivela kwelesiLatini elithi aestimare, okusho ukuthi "ukuhlola, ukukala, ukubala". Ukuzethemba kuwukuhlola kwethu kwengqondo nemizwa kokubaluleka kwethu, ukubaluleka. Kuyi-matrix lapho sicabanga, sizizwa futhi senza, sisabela futhi sinqume ubudlelwano bethu nathi, abanye kanye nomhlaba.
Abantu abanokuzethemba okunempilo abadingi ukukhombisa ukubaluleka kwabo kubo ngezinto zangaphandle njengemali engenayo noma isimo, noma ukuthembela ezindukuni eziwutshwala noma izidakamizwa. Kunalokho, baziphatha ngenhlonipho futhi banakekele impilo yabo, umphakathi kanye nemvelo. Bangakwazi ukutshala imali ngokugcwele kumaphrojekthi nakubantu ngoba abesabi ukwehluleka noma ukwenqatshwa. Yebo, nabo babhekana nobuhlungu nokudumazeka ngezikhathi ezithile, kodwa ukwehluleka akubalimazi noma kunciphise ukubaluleka kwabo.
Ngenxa yokuqina kwabo, abantu abazihloniphayo bahlala bevulekele ulwazi olusha kanye nobudlelwane obunenjongo, babekezelela ubungozi, bajabulele futhi bajabulele kalula, futhi bayakwazi ukwamukela nokuthethelela—bobabili kanye nabanye.
Mayelana nombhali: UNeil Burton ungudokotela wezengqondo, isazi sefilosofi, nombhali wezincwadi ezimbalwa, okuhlanganisa nethi The Meaning of Madness.