Okuqukethwe
Emgwaqweni oya ekuphepheni!
Abahamba ngezinyawo, abashayeli bezimoto, abagibeli bamabhayisikili… umgwaqo uyindawo egcwele izingibe. Yingakho, kusukela esemncane, kuhle ukwethula ikherubi lakho ezinyathelweni eziyinhloko zokuphepha. Ukukusiza kulokhu kufunda, imithetho yegolide yokuziphatha okuhle!
Ukuphepha emgwaqeni ezinganeni
– Ingane yakho kufanele njalo ukukunika isandla. Futhi ngesizathu esihle: ngobukhulu bayo obuncane, insimu yayo yokubuka inomkhawulo. Ngokuqondene nabashayeli, bangase bangaboni.
– Ohambweni olunokuthula, kuhle ukuba izingane ezisacathula zihambe eceleni kwemizi nezitolo, hhayi umgwaqo.
- Uma uwela, cacisa ekherubhini lakho ukuthi siwela kuphela ezimpambanweni zabahamba ngezinyawo, nalapho umfanyana eseluhlaza.
– Mchazele ukuthi kuyingozi ukudlala eceleni komgwaqo noma uwela umgwaqo.
– Uma uzithola ukolunye uhlangothi lomgwaqo, phambi kwezingane zakho, gwema ukubabingelela. Ebuswa imizwelo yakhe, angagijima ayokujoyina.
- Fundisa ingane yakho encane ukuthi ingalokothi ifake izandla zayo kumaphothali noma emabhokisini eposi. Inja yayingamluma.
- Ukuze ibhola lakhe lingaphunyuki ezandleni zakhe ezincane, ligcine esikhwameni. Futhi, mtshele ukuthi angalokothi agijime ngemuva kwebhola emgwaqeni.
- Ukuze ujwayelane nezithiyo, khomba iziqephu eziyingozi njengezindawo ezifile, igaraji noma izindawo zokupaka kanye nezimpawu ezihlukahlukene zokukhanya.
Ikhohlisi : Ekuphumeni ngakunye, ungangabazi ukuphinda imithetho yokuphepha enganeni yakho. Uzothola ukukhalipha okuhle ngokushesha okukhulu. Ungaphinda ukhethe umdlalo wemibuzo nezimpendulo endleleni eya esikoleni…
Uya esikoleni yedwa: imithetho okufanele ilandelwe
- Lapho eneminyaka engu-8-9, ingane ingakwazi ukuya esikoleni yodwa, njengomuntu omdala. Kodwa qaphela, uhambo kufanele lube lufushane futhi lube lula. Khumbuza ingane yakho ngemithetho eyisisekelo.
– Ngaphambi kokumvumela ukuthi ahambe yedwa, qiniseka ukuthi uyayazi indlela.
- Tshela omkhulu wakho ukuthi ahambe phakathi nomgwaqo.
– Mchazele ukuthi kufanele abheke kwesokunxele, bese kwesokudla, futhi kwesokunxele, ngaphambi kokungena emgwaqeni. Futhi mtshele ukuthi awele umugqa oqondile.
– Uma kungekho indawo yokuwela abahamba ngezinyawo, mtshele ukuthi kufanele akhethe indawo lapho izobonakala kubashayeli. Kuzodingeka futhi aqinisekise ukuthi ubona kahle kude, kwesokunxele nakwesokudla.
- Ungangabazi ukunamathisela amabhande akhanyayo esikhwameni sakhe sesikole nasemikhono yejazi lakhe.
- Gqokisa inzalo yakho izingubo ezikhanyayo noma ezinemibala egqamile.
– Uma uhambo luhamba nabanye abangani, gcizelela ukuthi umgwaqo akuyona indawo yokudlala. Mtshele ukuthi angasheshi noma agijime endleleni.
- Ingane yakho encane kuyodingeka futhi iqaphele izimoto ezimile. Abashayeli ngezinye izikhathi bavula iminyango ngokuzumayo!
- Ukuze ugweme ukuhamba okucindezelayo kanye nokubeka ingozi ngokungadingekile, qiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho ifika ngesikhathi.
Kumele kuqashelwe : Abazali bavame ukulingeka ukuba bacele omdala ukuba aphelezele umfowabo omncane (udadewabo) esikoleni. Kodwa qaphela ukuthi ngaphambi kweminyaka engu-13, ingane ayivuthwa ngokwanele ukuba iphelezele enye. Ukukhathazeka ngokuphepha kwakho sekuvele kuningi!
Ngo-2008, izingane ezisacathula ezicela ku-1500, ezineminyaka emi-2 kuya kweyi-9, zaba yizisulu zengozi yomgwaqo ngesikhathi zihamba ngezinyawo.
Ukuphepha kokushayela ngamaphoyinti angu-5
- Sebenzisa izihlalo zezingane ezifanelana nesisindo sengane yakho encane.
– Bopha amabhande ezihlalo zezingane zakho, ngisho nohambo olufushane kakhulu.
- Vimba ngokuhlelekile iminyango yangemuva.
– Gwema ukuvula amafasitela ohlangothini lwezingane. Futhi, fundisa abancane ukuthi bangalokothi babeke ikhanda noma izingalo zabo ngaphandle.
- Ukuze ugweme ukuphazanyiswa esondweni, cela abancane ukuthi banganyakazi kakhulu.
Ukukhumbula : Emgwaqeni, njengakuyo yonke indawo, abazali bahlala beyisibonelo ezinganeni. Phambi kwengane yakho encane, kubalulekile ukumbonisa isibonelo kanye nokuziphatha okufanele ukulandele, noma ngabe ujahile!