Ukuthi umuntu uzobona ubunzima bakhe njengomsebenzi noma inkinga, noma ngabe isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sizosebenza emthanjeni we-psychotherapeutic noma ngefomethi yesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esinempilo, kuncike kakhulu ekutheni isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sisebenza neklayenti, ngokunembile, ukuthi isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sizinikele kangakanani. esimweni se-psychotherapeutic.
Isimo sengqondo se-psychotherapeutic sibona kumuntu othile odinga ukwelashwa, ongafundiswanga, ovikelwe, ongacindezelwe, odinga usizo nokuvikelwa, okudingeka asuse izinkinga. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sibheka izinkinga zangaphakathi nokunye ukulinganiselwa okuphazamisa umuntu: “Uma umuntu efikile, khona-ke kukhona okumvimbelayo ukuba aqhubekele phambili emigomweni yakhe. Udinga usizo ukuze axazulule izinkinga zakhe.”
Ngokuphambene nalokho, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esizibophezele ezimisweni ze-psychology enempilo sibona kumuntu othile okwazi ukufunda nokuthuthukisa, okwazi ukuzibekela imisebenzi futhi ayixazulule ngempumelelo. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo-umqeqeshi ubona kulabo abeza kuye - abantu abanempilo abanemisebenzi ebalulekile. Lapho esebenza neklayenti, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sibheka amakhono akhe, sinquma naye imigomo yakhe kanye nohlelo lwesenzo sokuyifeza. Ichaza imisebenzi yeklayenti. "Uma umuntu efikile, ufuna ukuqhubekela phambili!"
“Unakho konke okumele uye phambili. Zibekele imigomo yonyaka olandelayo, cabanga ngohlelo lokusebenza — bese uqhubekela phambili! - kusho umqeqeshi wezengqondo.
“Unakho konke okumele uye phambili. Ake sibone ukuthi yini ekuvimbela ukuthi uthathe izinyathelo eziya phambili? ukwakhiwa kwe-psychotherapist↑.
Uma i-psychotherapist ilungele ukubona umuntu ogulayo kunoma yimuphi umuntu onempilo futhi enesipho sokusikisela, abantu abanezinkinga bazovela eduze kwakhe. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo singaguqula kokubili abagulayo babe abanempilo, nabanempilo babe abagulayo.
Uma umuntu eqala ukuqaphela (futhi ezwa) ubunzima bakhe njengenkinga, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo singase singadlali i-psychotherapy futhi siqondise kabusha iklayenti ekuboneni okuhle futhi okusebenzayo: "Sithandwa, i-pimple yakho ekhaleni lakho ayiyona inkinga, kodwa umbuzo ngoba wena: ingabe uhlela ukuvula ikhanda lakho futhi ufunde ukungakhathazeki, ukubhekana nezindaba ngomoya ophansi? ↑ Kunalokho, umelaphi angadalela iklayenti inkinga lapho ibingekho khona ekuqaleni: “Iziphi izinkinga ozivikela kuzo ngokumamatheka kwakho?” ↑
Ingabe wena neklayenti lakho niyayenza i-psychotherapy? Uma iklayenti lifika kuwe nomsebenzi, futhi umxake ngenkinga futhi edidekile ebusweni bayo, uqala umsebenzi we-psychotherapeutic. Uma iklayenti lifika kuwe linenkinga, ulilalele imizuzu eyisishiyagalombili, futhi emizuzwini embalwa ulidlulisele esikhundleni soMlobi waqala ukufuna isisombululo senkinga yakhe kanye naye, khona-ke sebenzisa i-psychotherapy imizuzu yokuqala eyishumi↑.