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Ukuvimbela kanye nokwelashwa kwe-frigidity
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Kwabesifazane abahlushwa i-anorgasmia yesibili, kunconywa ukuba bazijwayeze ukuvuselela i-perineum, i-muscular perineum ibalulekile ekuqaleni kwe-orgasm. Ubuhlobo obunempilo nobuvumelanayo kanye nokulinganisela okuhle kwempilo ngokungangabazeki yizici ezibalulekile zempilo yocansi eyanelisayo. Ukubekela eceleni isikhathi somlingani wakho, ukuvumela ukuxhumana phakathi kwabashadile kanye nokuzama ukugcina ubulili obusebenzayo kuyizinyathelo ezisebenzayo zokubuyisela isifiso nenjabulo uma ziba buthuntu. |
Imithi yokwelashwa
Kuze kube manje, akukho ukwelashwa kwezokwelapha ukusiza abesifazane abane-anorgasmia. Awukho umuthi ohlolwe ezinhlolweni zomtholampilo ezehlukene oboniswe ukuthi usebenza kangcono kune-placebo. Kodwa-ke, ucwaningo oluningi luyaqhubeka lokuzama ukuthuthukisa ukwelashwa okusebenzayo kwe-libido nokuzijabulisa kwabesifazane.
Ukwelashwa kwe-anorgasmia, lapho kubhekwa njengokuyinkinga ngowesifazane noma umbhangqwana, ngakho-ke kuncike okwamanje ezinyathelweni ezingokwengqondo nezokuziphatha. Lokhu kwelashwa akuhlanganisiwe kahle kakhulu, kodwa kukhona amasu afakazelwe9-10 .
Ukubonisana nomelaphi wocansi noma owelapha ngocansi uzobheka isimo kanye nanoma yiziphi izinyathelo okufanele zithathwe.
Ukwelashwa ngocansi
Ukwelashwa ngocansi kuqala kukho konke ukuqeqesha i-perineum. Lezi yizivivinyo ezifanayo nalezo ezinconyelwe abesifazane ngemva kokubeletha ukuze baphinde bathole imisipha emihle ye-perineal.
Kwabesifazane abahlushwa i-anorgasmia ephelele, kugcizelelwa ekutholeni i-clitoral orgasm, okulula ukuyifinyelela, yedwa noma nomlingani wabo.
Ukwelashwa kwengqondo nokuziphatha
Ukwelashwa kwengqondo nokuziphatha okuhloselwe ukwelapha i-anorgasmia kuhloswe ikakhulukazi ukunciphisa ukukhathazeka okuhlobene nobulili, ukwandisa ukuvumela ukungena ebudlelwaneni obuseduze, kanye nokuphakamisa ukuzivocavoca okuthile, ikakhulukazi ukuvivinya umzimba kanye nokuhlola umzimba. ukushaya indlwabu. Umgomo uwukubuyisela umzimba wakho kuze kube yilapho uzama ukufinyelela i-orgasm uwedwa, “ngamasu” ahlukene, ngokuhlonza izindawo nokuthinta komzimba okungase kunikeze injabulo.
Umqondo uwukuqeda noma yikuphi ukukhathazeka okuhlobene nokuba khona kozakwethu njengokukhathazeka kokusebenza, ikakhulukazi.
Ngokuvamile inqubo iqala ngokuhlola okubonakalayo komzimba (ngesibuko) kanye nolwazi mayelana ne-anatomy yezitho zangasese zowesifazane.
Uma owesifazane esefinyelele i-orgasm eyedwa, umlingani wakhe angafakwa ekuzilolongeni.
Lokhu “kwelashwa” kusekelwe ocwaningweni oluningi olubonise ukuthi iningi labesifazane likwazile ukufinyelela i-orgasm ngokushaya indlwabu nge-clitoral, kalula kakhulu kunangesikhathi sokuya ocansini.11.
Qaphela, lapho owesifazane ekhishwa ngokuzivocavoca kokushaya indlwabu, ungagcizeleli, engozini yokubangela ukuvinjelwa kunokushintsha isimo. Kwabanye besifazane, kungcono ukuzilolonga nomlingani wakho. |