Ungathola ukuthi ingane izoba ubulili buni ekuhlolweni kwe-ultrasound. Kodwa zikhona nezinye izindlela! Ngaphezu kwalokho, umntwana osesiswini uvame ukujika, engafuni ukuveza zonke izimfihlo okwamanje.
Umfana noma intombazane? Kukhona “ababoni” abathi bayakwazi ukubona ukuthi ubani ozozalwa ngokuma kwesisu. Kodwa wena ngokwakho ungakwazi ukubikezela ukuthi yimuphi umbala ukuthenga bodysuits nezingubo zokulala. Futhi ngaphandle kwe-ultrasound. Kunezimpawu eziyi-13 zokuthi kungenzeka ukuthi uthwele umfana ngaphansi kwenhliziyo yakho.
1. Omama bakusasa babafana bangabesifazane abajabulayo. Imvamisa azisindiswa ekuqaleni (futhi sekwephuzile kakhulu) i-toxicosis.
2. Ukushaya kwenhliziyo kwengane ingakhombisa nobulili bomntwana. Ingabe unayo idivaysi ekala izinga lokushaya kwenhliziyo yengane? Noma okungenani uhlelo lokusebenza ocingweni lwakho? Ngakho-ke, uma inhliziyo yengane ishaya ngesivinini esingaphansi kwezingu-140 ngomzuzu, kuphuma kumfana.
3. Ukuqubuka kwesikhumba, izinduna, izinduna ngokuvamile kwenzeka uma kungumfana ezinzile esiswini.
4. Izintandokazi zokudla shintsha ube muncu futhi unosawoti. Akuvamile ukuheha izimpahla ezibhakiwe namaswidi.
5. Ukuma kwezilwane kusebalulekile. Uma itholakala phansi impela, lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi kuyoba umfana.
6. Izinguquko ekuziphatheni: abesifazane abaphethe isoka bavame ukuba nolaka, isibindi, baqale ukuyala, noma ngabe lokhu bekungesona isici sabo phambilini. Izinguquko ezinjalo zihlotshaniswa nokwanda kwezinga le-testosterone egazini.
7. Umbala womchamo. Cishe njalo ishintsha ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Uma kuba mnyama ngokuphawulekayo, futhi ngokusho kokuhlaziywa akukho okungavamile, khona-ke lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi ukhulelwe umfana.
8. Usayizi webele: i-bust ikhula kubo bonke abesifazane abakhulelwe, kodwa kubafana abakhulelwe, ibele langakwesokudla liba likhulu kunesobunxele.
9. Kwaphawulwa ukuthi omama bamadodana ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa bavame ukukhononda ngokuthi izinyawo zabo zazibanda. Izinyawo ezibandayo – bhala phansi olunye uphawu lokuthi umfana uzozalwa.
10. Kwabesifazane abakhulelwe, ngaphezu kwesisu namabele, ngesilinganiso esisheshayo izinzipho nezinwele ziyakhula... Kodwa umfana wakusasa wenza izinwele zakhe zikhule ngokushesha kunokujwayelekile.
11. Esinye isibonakaliso - indawo yokulala… Kulabo abalindele umfana, kulula ukulala ngakwesokunxele.
12. Njalo izandla zomile, ngezinye izikhathi kangangokuthi imifantu ibonakala esikhumbeni - futhi lokhu kubonisa ukuzalwa komfana.
13. Ukusatshalaliswa kwesisindo: uma kusengumfana, amakhilogremu azuziwe agxile kakhulu esiswini. Endabeni yentombazane, "ukweqile" kuzovela kuwo wonke umzimba, kuhlanganise nobuso. Yingakho bethi amantombazane “antshontsha ubuhle” konina.
Indlela yokuthola ubulili bengane ngezinye izimpawu?
Uma kungenakwenzeka ukunquma ngezici zomzimba nezinkolelo ezithandwayo ukuthi kuzoba nendodana noma indodakazi, ungasebenzisa izindlela ezisebenzayo. Okhokho bethu babezisebenzisa. Zidumile namuhla:
- Uzodinga indandatho yomshado. Kuboshwe intambo bese ilenga esiswini sikamama wakusasa. Uma indandatho iphenduka, kuzoba nendodana. Inaliti yokuthunga ingasetshenziswa kule ndlela.
- Umyeni kufanele abeke ukhiye womnyango ongaphambili phezu kwetafula, acele umkakhe ukuthi awuthathe. Uma efinyelela ingxenye ende yesihluthulelo, khona-ke kuzoba neqhawe.
- Uma umndeni usunabantwana, udinga ukukhumbula ukuthi yiliphi igama abalisho kuqala. Ngokwesibonelo, uma bethi “baba,” kusho ukuthi ingane elandelayo kufanele ilinde indodana.
- Ngokwenkolelo evamile, izinga lokuzalwa kwezingane zesilisa liyakhula phakathi nezimpi nezingxabano.
Kungenzeka ukunquma ukuthi kuyoba yini indodana ngokwekhalenda elikhethekile. Ibonisa izinsuku lapho ukukhulelwa komfana kungenzeka. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukuthola usuku olulinganiselwe lokukhulelwa kulo. Uma ingasethiwe kahle, ungabuka ulwazi mayelana nezinsuku eziseduze kuyo.
Kungenzeka ukunquma ubulili bomntwana ngokwezinkolelo, kodwa akufanele uqondiswe yizo. Ngokuvamile, owesifazane ogqoke indlalifa yesikhathi esizayo uzizwa ngokwakhe. Omama abaningi bane-intuition ebukhali kakhulu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, futhi ayibavumeli. Kodwa ukuze unqume ngokunembile ubulili bomntwana, ungahlolwa. Kwenziwa ngenyanga yesi-4 yokukhulelwa usebenzisa i-ultrasound scan - khona-ke izitho zangasese sezivele zakhiwe ngokwanele ukuze ukwazi ukuthola ukuthi ubani ozozalwa.
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