Izimbangela ezisobala zezinkinga ziwubunzima nezinkinga ezibonakala ngeso lenyama futhi zingaxazululwa ngezinga lomqondo ovamile.
Uma intombazane inesizungu ngoba ihlezi nje ekhaya futhi ayiyi ndawo, okokuqala, kufanele ilulekwe ukuba yandise umbuthano wayo wokuxhumana nabantu.
Lezi yizinkinga ezivame ukuba sobala kubo bobabili uchwepheshe wezengqondo kanye nomuntu ngokwakhe. Umuntu uyazazi izinkinga zakhe, kodwa akakwazi ukubhekana nazo, noma akwenze ngendlela engafanele.
“Uyazi, nginezinkinga zokukhumbula nokunaka”, noma “Angiwathembi amadoda”, “Angazi ukuthi ngingajwayelana kanjani nomgwaqo”, “Angikwazi ukuzihlela”.
Uhlu lwezinkinga ezinjalo lude, kunalokho ngokwemibandela lungancishiswa lube yizigaba ze-"problem states" kanye "nobudlelwano benkinga". Izimo eziyinkinga ukwesaba, ukudangala, ukulutheka, i-psychosomatics, ukungabi namandla, izinkinga ngentando nokuzithiba ngokomthetho ... Ubudlelwano obuyizinkinga - isizungu, umona, izingxabano, ukunamathela kokugula, ukuthembela ...
Izinkinga zangaphakathi zingahlukaniswa ngezinye izindlela, isibonelo, njengezinkinga ezingokomoya nezinkinga, izinkinga zekhanda, izinkinga zengqondo, izinkinga zobuntu, izinkinga zengqondo, ubunzima bokuziphatha.
Umsebenzi wesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo
Ukukhuluma ngokuqinile, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo singakwazi futhi akufanele sibhekane nanoma yikuphi kwangaphakathi, kodwa kuphela ngezinkinga ezingokwengqondo. Kodwa-ke, esimweni lapho abantu benokuzikhethela - ukuphendukela kumakhelwane, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo noma umbhuli, umsebenzi wesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo ungenza umqondo - kungacatshangwa ukuthi ngisho nezincomo zakhe zezwe ngeke zibe zimbi kunezincomo yababhuli, ngaphezu kwalokho, cishe nganoma yisiphi isicelo, kungenzeka ukuthakazelisa iklayenti esinye isihloko, esihlobene kakhulu nengqondo.
Uma manje isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo enikeza izinga eliphezulu, izincomo professional, wasebenza ngokwanele futhi professional.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sizizwa singafaneleki esicelweni seklayenti futhi singase sicabange ukuthi iklayenti lidinga kakhulu usizo lwezenhlalo, lwezokwelapha noma lwengqondo, khona-ke kulungile kakhulu ukumdlulisela kuchwepheshe okhethekile.
I-psychopath ayilona iklayenti lethu.
Inombolo enkulu yezinkinga zangaphakathi ezisobala zingaxazululwa ngokuqondile, ngezinye izikhathi ngokucaciswa, ngezinye izikhathi ngokwelashwa (psychotherapy).