Ukugubha uNyaka Omusha ngaphandle kwenkampani — umcabango wakho nje ungathusa abaningi. Kubonakala sengathi isimo esinjalo siphakamisa ukuthi kukhona okungahambanga kahle empilweni yethu, futhi silwela ukuthola abangani bethu - sibhalela abangani esingakaze sihlangane nabo unyaka wonke ophumayo, sizovakashela abazali bethu, sazi kusengaphambili ukuthi le mibuthano ngeke iphele nganoma yini enhle. Kodwa kuthiwani uma usazama ukuchitha lobu busuku obukhulu bonyaka uwedwa?
Uma sincane isikhathi esisele ngaphambi koNyaka Omusha, ijubane lokuphila liyashesha ngokuphawulekayo. Siyaxabana, sizama ukwenza konke ngesikhathi: ukuvala amacala emsebenzini, ukuhalalisela amaklayenti, ngesikhathi sethu samahhala sokuyothenga ukuze sithole ingubo, sithenge izipho kanye nemikhiqizo edingekayo - amalungiselelo eholide ahamba phambili.
Futhi phakathi kwemibuzo eminingi esibhekana nayo ngobusuku bangaphambi koNyaka Omusha (ukuthi yini ongayigqoka, yini ongayinika, yini ongayipheka), umuntu uhlukile: nobani okufanele bagubhe? Nguye okhathaza abaningi kakhulu ngobusuku obandulela uNcibijane.
Leli holide eliyinhloko lonyaka liphinde likhulise umuzwa wengqophamlando kanye noshintsho. Ngokuzenzakalelayo siqala ukucabanga: yini engiyizuzile, ngikuphi manje, ngisebenzise kanjani kulo nyaka, yini enginayo manje? Eminye imibuzo isenza sizizwe singaneliseki ngokujulile ngathi futhi sesabe ikusasa. Kulokhu kungase kwengezwe ukucasuka, ubuhlungu, umuzwa wokuba nesizungu, ukungabi nalusizo kwakho siqu, ukungabi nanzuzo.
Abaningi abafuni ukubhekana nemicabango nemizwa enjalo futhi bangene engxabanweni nokushesha kukaNcibijane, becasha ngomsindo ovamile nokumomotheka, izitsha zokudla kanye nama-sparklers.
Singase sithukuthelele izwe elisizungezile ngokuthi alinabulungisa, noma singavalelisa ngombono wokuthi lisikweleta okuthile.
Ngeke kudingeke ukuba sifune ngokukhulu ukushesha kangaka ukuthi sizogubha nobani leli holide, ukube bekungekwesabisi kangako ukuba sodwa. Kodwa, maye, bambalwa abantu abakwaziyo ukuba umngane kubo - ukusekela nokwamukela. Kaningi singabahluleli bethu, abagxeki, abamangaleli. Futhi ubani ongafuna umngane owahlulela unomphela?
Kodwa-ke, uma ugubha uNyaka Omusha wedwa, kodwa hhayi esikhundleni somuntu ohlukunyeziwe, uzitholela izibikezelo ezimbi nezincazelo kanye nokuzilahla, kodwa esikhundleni sokunakekelwa, isithakazelo kanye nobubele ngokwakho, lokhu kungase kube indawo yokuqala. ngezinguquko ezidingekayo. Okuhlangenwe nakho okusha kokuhlangana nathi, okwenzeka lapho siphazamiseka emsindweni osizungezile futhi silalela izifiso zethu.
Singase sithukuthelele izwe elisizungezile ukuthi alinabulungiswa, noma singavalelisa emcabangweni wokuthi kusikweleta okuthile, futhi siyeke ukulindela kukho nalabo abasizungezile ukuthi bazofika basisindise ekucikekeni, bahlekise futhi baxoshe. . Singahlela iholide lethu.
Singakwazi ukuhlobisa isihlahla sikaKhisimusi ngokwethu futhi sihlobise ifulethi. Gqoka ingubo enhle noma amaphijama anethezekile, yenza isaladi noma u-ode uhambe. Singakhetha ukubuka amamuvi amadala ngokwesiko noma sizenzele esathu isiko. Singavalelisa onyakeni ophumayo: khumbula zonke izinto ezinhle ezazikuwo, mayelana nempumelelo yethu, ngisho nezincane. Futhi ngalokho esingenaso isikhathi sokwenza, lokho esihlulekile ukukusebenzisa, ukuze sicabange ngalokho esingakufunda nalokho okufanele sikucabangele esikhathini esizayo.
Singavele siphuphe futhi senze izinhlelo, senze izifiso futhi sicabange ngekusasa. Futhi kukho konke lokhu, sidinga kuphela ukuzwa inhliziyo yethu futhi silandele izwi layo - futhi ngenxa yalokhu senele ngokwethu.