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Inhlanganisela eyingqayizivele yezindlela zesayensi nezingokomoya ezizokwenza ikhaya lakho libe yindawo yokuphumula, ukubuyisela nokuthola ukuvumelana. Incwadi izokukhombisa indlela efanele, icacise iqiniso elilodwa elibalulekile: umphefumulo wakho ufana nendlu. Indlu ifana nomphefumulo. Futhi ungenza zombili lezi zikhala zivuleke, zigcwale ukukhanya nenjabulo.
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Kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcwalisa igumbi lezingane ngobuciko kanye nemilingo. Kuphela ekamelweni elinjalo ingane izokwazi ukuthuthukisa ngempela futhi iphumule ngokugcwele, ijabule nabangani futhi ifunde ngenjabulo. U-Tatyana Makurova uyazi ukugcwalisa inkulisa ngezinto ezinhle nezisebenzayo. Encwadini yakhe ethi How to Arrange a Nursery, umbhali unikeza imihlangano yokufundisa eminingi yokuhlela indawo nokuhlobisa. Kodwa ubani owathi konke ukuzijabulisa nomlingo kufanele kube kuphela enkulisa? Eminye imibono ingasetshenziswa ngokuvumelana futhi ingene ekwakhiweni kwanoma yiliphi ikhaya noma igumbi.
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Kuphakathi kokuthi ulawula imali noma iyolawula wena nempilo yakho. Le ncwadi izosiza ukubheka kabusha izinto eziza kuqala kanye nesimo sengqondo sezinto ezibonakalayo. Ukukhangisa nokulindelwe ngabanye abantu ngeke kusakuphoqa ukuthi usebenzise izinto ezingenasidingo.
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Amashumi ezinkulungwane zabantu kuleli zwe (kanye nezigidi emhlabeni wonke) bafunde I-China Study futhi bathola izinzuzo zokudla okusekelwe ezitshalweni. Le ncwadi iqhubekela phambili futhi ayiphenduli kuphela umbuzo othi "kungani?" kodwa futhi umbuzo "kanjani?". Kuyo, uzothola uhlelo olulula lokushintsha okunomsoco oluzokuvumela ukuthi ujabulele imikhuba yakho emisha enempilo, impilo, nokuqina. Kule ncwadi, uzofunda ukuthi kungani ikhaya lidlala indima ebalulekile ekushintsheni indlela odla ngayo, nokuthi yiziphi izinguquko okudingeka uzenze ukuze ushintshele ekudleni kwemifino.
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Incwadi izokusiza ukuthi ubeke phambili impilo yakho futhi ikutshele ukuthi ungenza kanjani okuncane futhi uzuze okwengeziwe. Isikhathi sakho namandla akho ayigugu futhi akufanele uchithelwe ezintweni nakubantu abangabalulekile kuwena. Wena kanye nawe kuphela kufanele ninqume ukuthi yini okufanele izinsiza zenu ezinomkhawulo.
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Incwadi ethi “Ukuphupha akulimazi” yanyatheliswa ngo-1979. Ithengwa kakhulu kunazo zonke ngoba iyakhuthaza futhi ilula. Ngokuvamile, ngempumelelo yangaphandle, abantu bazizwa bengajabule ngokuthi abakwazanga ukufeza amaphupho abo angempela. Bese beqala ukugcwalisa ukungakhululeki kwengqondo ngokuthengwa kwezinto ezintsha. Le ncwadi ibhalelwe ukukusiza ukuthi ufunde, isinyathelo ngesinyathelo, ukuthi ungayiguqula kanjani impilo yakho ibe yimpilo obulokhu uyifisa.
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UDkt. Hallowell uye wahlola umsuka wezimbangela zokungakwazi kwabantu ukugxilisa ingqondo—futhi uyaqiniseka ukuthi iseluleko esivamile njengokuthi “yenza uhlu lwezinto okumelwe ukwenze” noma “ukuphatha kangcono isikhathi sakho” asisebenzi ngoba asizixazululi izimbangela zokuthi uzokwenzani. ukuphazamiseka. Ubheka izimbangela zokulahlekelwa ukugxila - kusukela ekwenzeni izinto eziningi kuya ekuphequluleni okungenangqondo kwezokuxhumana - kanye nezinkinga ezingokwengqondo nemizwa ezingemuva kwazo. Ungavumeli izinto ezingadingekile zesimo namagajethi kukuphazamisa emigomweni yakho yangempela kanye nokuxhumana okuqotho nozakwenu nabangane.