Indodakazi yami isikhuluphele kakhulu!

NginoDominique-Adèle Cassuto, isazi se-endocrinologist kanye nesazi sokudla okunempilo, umbhali wencwadi ethi "Indodakazi yami iyindilinga kakhulu" nethi "Sidlani? Ukudla kwentsha kusuka ku-A kuya ku-Z ”e-Odile Jacob.

Kusukela eminyakeni engu-6-7 futhi ngisho nangaphezulu cishe kwe-8, amantombazane amancane ngezinye izikhathi aba nezakhiwo ezithile ezihlobene nesisindo sawo, okwakucatshangwa ukuthi zigcinelwe intsha ezizwa kabi! Kodwa-ke, ukuqaphela imizimba yabo kanye nokuphawula okungakuveza kuyiqiniso emantombazaneni amaningi (kakhulu). Ingane ivame ukubuya esikoleni isifake isilevu, ibukeka iphansi. Futhi nakuba isibalo sakhe singesentombazane encane ekhulayo, ngezinye izikhathi uthi “ukhuluphele kakhulu”. Futhi ekupheleni komusho, uyavuma ukuthi amantombazane amancane ayakujabulela ukuqhathanisa umjikelezo wamathanga awo nekhefu! 

Ukubhuqa okulula kwanele

Iphutha ngokusobala lilele ngokuyinhloko embonweni womzimba wesifazane okahle esiwubona komagazini bemfashini, emigwaqweni noma ebhayisikobho. "Sekungene olimini lwansuku zonke lomama, odade, amadodakazi noma izintombi ukuthi kungcono ukuba mncane empilweni", kuchaza uDominique-Adèle Cassuto, i-endocrinologist kanye nesazi sokudla okunempilo. Ngisho noma kuleyo minyaka, intombazanyana isavikelekile ekukhukhuleni kwezithombe ezinkundleni zokuxhumana nasezikrinini ngokujwayelekile, kuchwepheshe, lo mbono womzimba ophelele usuvele ugcwele kuye. Futhi ezikhathini eziningi, kusesikoleni lapho umusho, ukubhuqa noma ukubonakaliswa okuvela kumngane kungabangela izinkinga ezazingekho ngaphambilini. Intombazane iba buhlungu kakhulu kunokujwayelekile, ihlutshwa yisisu ekuseni ngaphambi kokuya esikoleni, noma kungenzeka ukuthi uthisha ubone ushintsho ekuziphatheni kwayo… Ziningi izimpawu okufanele zisiqaphele. 

Sidlala amahlaya

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi intombazanyana ikhuluphele ngempela noma cha, siyakhohlwa ukudla, okunqatshelwe ngokuphelele kule minyaka yobudala, kodwa singayifundisa ukwakha ubuhlobo bokuzijabulisa nokudla: “Siya emakethe, sipheka ndawonye ... ukuthi uyaqonda ukuthi ukudla akukhona nje ukuzuza isisindo, kodwa ikakhulukazi okokwabelana. Kufanele futhi sisebenzele ukuzwa nokunambitha, ”kuchaza u-Dominique-Adèle Cassuto.

Ukuze siqinisekise intombazanyana ecabanga ukuthi ikhuluphele, isazi sokudla okunomsoco siyeluleka abazali ukuba badlale ikhadi elibonisa izinto obala: “Ungabheka omagazini, uchazele indodakazi yakho ukuthi izithombe ziphinde zathintwa, futhi usebenzele namahlaya. Uma umama evame ukudla kodwa ehleka ngakho, kuba ngcono. Akumele senze idrama futhi sigxile kukho. “Uma ingcindezi isaseyinhle kwabesifazane, inkampani isathuthuka, njengoba u-Dominique-Adèle Cassuto egcizelela:” Manje sekunonodoli bakwa-Barbie be-morphology ehlukene nombala wesikhumba, ezinye izinhlobo zikanokusho zivale usayizi 32 kuma-catwalks abo… ,imigqa iyahamba. “

 

Incwadi okufanele ifundwe nengane

"U-Lili mubi", u-Dominique de Saint-Mars, ed. I-Calligram, € 5,50.

Kubi, kukhuluphele, kuzacile… Izakhiwo zingaba ziningi! Incwadi encane ozoyidlala, futhi ubonise ingane yakho ukuthi akuyena yedwa othintekayo! 

shiya impendulo