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"Kodwa ulalaphi?" », Buza abangani bami baseFrance, lapho ngibatshela ukuthi eThailand izingane zilala zize zibe neminyaka engu-7 embhedeni owodwa nabazali. Nathi, lokho akuyona inkinga! Lapho abancane belala, kujule kakhulu, kunjalo! Ekuqaleni, umama uvame ukulala nengane yakhe bese ubaba elala kumatilasi phansi. I-Thailand iyizwe lapho sithanda khona izingane. Asikaze sibavumele bakhale. Ungalokothi ! Bahlezi besezingalweni zethu. Umagazini olingana nelithi “Parents” endaweni yakithi ubizwa ngokuthi “Aimer les enfants” futhi ngicabanga ukuthi lokho kukuchaza konke.
Isazi sezinkanyezi (ngesi-Thai: “Mo Dou”) ungumuntu obaluleke kakhulu ukubona ingane ingakazalwa. Kungaba futhi indela yamaBuddha (“Phra”). Nguye ozonquma ukuthi usuku lwethemu lungcono kakhulu ngokuphathelene nekhalenda lenyanga. Kungemva kwalokho lapho sibona udokotela wethu futhi ukuze simbonise usuku esilufunayo - oluzoletha inhlanhla. Ngokungazelelwe, iningi lokubeletha livela ngokuhlinzwa. Njengoba u-December 25 kuwusuku olukhethekile kakhulu kithi, ngalolu suku izibhedlela zigcwele! Omama abazosaba ubuhlungu, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke besaba ukungabi bahle ...
Uma ubeletha ngephimbo eliphansi, uyacelwa ukuthi ukhiphe izimonyo, kepha uma kungukuhlinzwa, ungafaka i-mascara ne-foundation. Nakuba ngabelethela eFrance, ngagcoba isigcobo sezindebe futhi ngasebenzisa intonga yami yokugoba izinkophe. E-Thailand, ingane ayikaphumi nakancane ukuthi sesihlela ukuthwebula izithombe… Ezithombeni, omama bahle kangangokuthi kubukeka sengathi baya ephathini!
"Uhlamvu ngalunye lwegama lokuqala luhambisana nenombolo, futhi zonke izinombolo kufanele zibe nenhlanhla."
Uma umntwana ezalwe ngoMsombuluko,kufanele ugweme bonke onkamisa egameni lakho lokuqala. Uma kuwuLwesibili, kufanele ugweme izinhlamvu ezithile, njll. Kuthatha isikhathi ukukhetha igama lokuqala; ngaphandle kwalokho, kufanele kusho okuthile. Uhlamvu ngalunye lwegama lokuqala luhambisana nenombolo, futhi zonke izinombolo kufanele zilethe inhlanhla. Ukubhula ngezinombolo - siyisebenzisa nsuku zonke. EFrance, angikwazanga ukuyobona isangoma, kodwa ngangisabheka yonke into eku-inthanethi.
Ngemva kokubeletha ngokwemvelo, omama benza i-“yu fai”. Kuwuhlobo lweseshini ye-spa, yokuqeda konke okusele eziswini zethu nokwenza igazi lijikeleze kangcono. Umama uhlala elule phezu kombhede woqalo obekwe phezu komthombo wokushisa (owayewumlilo ngaphambili) okujikijelwa kuwo amakhambi okuhlanza. Ngokwesiko, kufanele akwenze lokhu izinsuku eziyishumi nanye. Kunalokho, eFrance, ngaya e-sauna izikhathi eziningana.
“E-Thailand, umntwana usanda kuzalwa lapho sihlela ukuthwebula izithombe… Ezithombeni, omama bahle kangangokuthi babukeka sengathi bazoya ephathini! “
“Sibhucunga isisu somntwana ngaso, kabili noma kathathu ngosuku, ngemva kokugeza ngakunye.”
Cishe inyanga eyodwa, izinwele zengane ziyagundwa. Sibe sesikhipha umbala wembali enamacembe aluhlaza (i-Clitoria ternatea, ebizwa nangokuthi uphizi oluhlaza) ukuze sidwebe amashiya nogebhezi lwakhe. Ngokwezinkolelo, izinwele zizokhula ngokushesha futhi zibe mkhulu. Nge-colic, sisebenzisa i- "mahahi" : ingxube yotshwala nenhlaka ekhishwe empandeni yesitshalo enezinto zokwelapha ebizwa ngokuthi “Asa fœtida”. Iqanda layo elibolile iphunga livela enanini elikhulu lesulfure eliqukethe. Isisu somntwana sibhucungwa ngaso, kabili noma kathathu ngosuku, ngemva kokugeza ngakunye. Ngomkhuhlane, i-shallot igaywa nge-pestle. Yengeze ebhavini noma uyibeke endishini encane egcwele amanzi eduze kwekhanda noma ezinyaweni zengane. Isula ikhala, njenge-eucalyptus.
Isitsha sokuqala somntwana sibizwa ngokuthi i-kluay namwa bod (ubhanana wase-Thai ochotshoziwe). Bese sipheka irayisi elungiselelwe umhluzi lapho sifaka khona isibindi sengulube nemifino. Ezinyangeni zokuqala eziyisithupha, ngancelisa ibele lodwa, futhi amadodakazi ami amabili ayaqhubeka nokuncelisa, ikakhulukazi ebusuku. AmaFulentshi avame ukungibheka ngendlela exakile, kodwa kimina kuyashaqisa ukungangiboni. Ngisho noma iThailand iyizwe lapho singancelisi khona ibele, isibuyele emfashinini. Ekuqaleni, kuba ngokwesidingo, njalo ngamahora amabili, imini nobusuku. Abesifazane abaningi baseFrance bayaziqhenya ngokuthi ingane yabo "ilala ubusuku bonke" kusukela ezinyangeni ezi-3 ubudala. Lapha, ngisho nodokotela wami wezingane wangeluleka ukuba ngigcwalise ukudla ngebhodlela lokusanhlamvu ukuze ingane ilale kangcono. Angikaze ngilalele muntu… Kuyinjabulo ukuba namadodakazi ami!
“Izwe laseThailand sithanda izingane. Asikaze sibavumele bakhale. Bahlale bengalweni. “