“Kuyimfihlo, akekho ongathola ngaphambi komcimbi! “, umngani wami wangitshela uma ngimbuza ukuthi ukhulelwe umfana noma intombazane. E-Canada, ezinyangeni ezinhlanu zokukhulelwa, "iphathi yokuveza ubulili" ihlelwa. Senza ikhekhe elikhulu elimbozwe ngoqweqwe olumhlophe futhi siveza ubulili bomntwana ngokusisika: uma ingaphakathi libomvana, intombazane, uma liluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, umfana.
Futhi sihlela ama-baby-shower amahle, ngaphambi noma ngemva kokuzalwa kwengane. Omama bakwenza kaningi kamuva, emasontweni ambalwa ngemva kokubeletha. Kulula kakhulu - samukela zonke izivakashi, abangani nomndeni, ngosuku olulodwa. Ngokwami, angizange ngenze “iphathi yokuveza ubulili” noma “i-baby shower”, kodwa ngaphikelela emgubhweni engangiwuthanda ngisemncane, “i-smashcake”. Zonke izingane zifuna ukuhlanganyela "ekhekheni le-smash"! Si-oda ikhekhe elihle kakhulu, elinoqweqwe lukashukela nokhilimu omningi. Sibiza umthwebuli wezithombe, simema umndeni, futhi sivumela umntwana ukuba "abhubhise" ikhekhe ngezandla zakhe. Kuyahlekisa kakhulu! Kungumkhosi wangempela, mhlawumbe inhlekisa kancane kodwa, ekugcineni, ukujabulisa izingane zethu, pho kungani kungenjalo?
Le ilivu yokubeletha yothisha, njengami, unyaka owodwa, ikhokhelwa ngokugcwele yi-Social Security. Abanye omama bathola u-55% womholo wabo (noma u-30% uma befuna ukunweba kuze kufike ezinyangeni eziyi-18). Nathi, kuvunyelwe ngokuphelele ukuhlala ekhaya unyaka nomntwana wakho. Noma kunjalo, eCanada, noma yini ibonakala ingenzeka. Ngicabanga ukuthi kuyingqayizivele yaseCanada ukwamukela imibono yawo wonke umuntu, ukubekezela. Sivuleleke ngempela futhi asihluleli. Ngaba nenhlanhla ngokuchitha ikhefu lami lokuyoteta eCanada. Impilo yakhona ikhululekile kakhulu.
E-Canada, asinandaba nokubanda, ngisho noma ku--30 ° C. Isikhathi esiningi usichitha endlini noma kunjalo, ushiya indlu kuphela ukuyothatha imoto bese uyiyisa ezindaweni zokupaka ezitolo ezinkulu, noma amagaraji ashisayo. Izingane azilali ngaphandle, njengasemazweni aseNordic; uma bengaphandle, bagqoke ngokufudumele kakhulu: amabhuzu eqhwa, amabhulukwe e-ski, izingubo zangaphansi zoboya, njll. Kodwa isikhathi sakho esiningi usichitha ekhaya - wonke umuntu unama-TV amakhulu, osofa abathokomele kakhulu kanye namaragi athambile kakhulu. Amafulethi, avuleke kakhulu kunaseFrance, avumela ukuthi izingane ezincane zigijime kalula kunasefulethini elinamagumbi amabili lapho uminza khona ngokushesha.
The odokotela basitshela ukuthi, “Isifuba singcono kakhulu”. Kodwa uma ungafuni ukuncelisa, wonke umuntu uyaqonda. “Yenza lokho okukulungele,” kusho abangane bami nomndeni. Ngenhlanhla, eFrance, angizange ngizizwe ngicindezelekile kakhulu. Kuphinde kube impumuzo yangempela komama abangenalwazi abangenaso isiqiniseko ngabo kule ndawo.
ngine Note ukuthi abazali baseFrance banesandla esiqinile ezinganeni zabo. ECanada, sibanaka kakhulu. Sikhuluma nabo ngesineke esikhulu, futhi sibabuza imibuzo: kungani naphushela le ntombazanyana epaki? Kungani uthukuthele angicabangi ukuthi kungcono, iqhinga elihlukile, elingokwengqondo. Sinikeza izijeziso ezimbalwa, futhi esikhundleni salokho sinikeza imivuzo: sikubiza ngokuthi "ukuqinisa okuhle".