Owesifazane uqinisekile: nansi indlela umzimba wakhe ozivumelanisa ngayo nezidingo zengane.
Kuyaqabukela kwenzeka ukuthi isithombe samabhodlela amabili obisi asatshalaliswa ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ezinkulungwaneni zabantu abaphindayo. Kodwa-ke, kunjalo impela: isithombe, esashicilelwa ngumama wezingane ezine, owesifazane waseNgilandi uJody Fisher, saphinde sabhalwa cishe izikhathi eziyizinkulungwane eziyisishiyagalombili.
Ubisi lwesobunxele ngaphambi kokugoma, kwesokudla - ngemuva
Elinye lamabhodlela liqukethe ubisi olukhishwe uJody ngaphambi kokuthatha indodakazi yakhe enonyaka ubudala, ukuyogonywa. Esikhathini sesibili - ubisi, njengoba lubukeka ezinsukwini ezimbili ngemuva kokugoma. Futhi kuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka!
“Ngiqale ngamangala kakhulu. Ngibe sengiqala ukufuna imininingwane yokuthi kungani lokhu kungenzeka, ”kusho uJody.
Kwavela ukuthi sasingekho isizathu sokukhathazeka. Umbala ongajwayelekile oluluhlaza wobisi, ngokusho kukaJody, kwakusho ukuthi umzimba kamama waqala ukukhiqiza amasosha omzimba indodakazi yakhe eyayidinga ukulwa nalesi sifo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, amagciwane antekenteke aqukethe umuthi wokuzivikela, ukuzivikela kwengane kwaba ukutheleleka kwangempela.
“Uma ngondla indodakazi yami, umzimba wami ufunda imininingwane ngempilo yayo ngamathe kaNancy,” kuchaza umama wezingane eziningi.
Kuliqiniso, abanye banquma ukuthi ibhodlela lesibili liqukethe lokho okuthiwa ubisi lwangaphambili, okungukuthi, lelo ingane elithola ekuqaleni kokudla. Ayinamafutha njengasemuva, futhi ingcono ukoma. Kodwa ubisi lwangemuva selubhekene nendlala.
"Cha, kuzo zombili lezi zimo ngiveze ubisi lwami ngemuva kokuludla, ngakho-ke akulona olwangaphambili, qiniseka," kwenqaba uJodie. - Futhi umbala wobisi awuhlobene nalokho engikudlile: Bengingenalutho lokufakelwa ekudleni kwami, akukho izithasiselo, futhi angizange ngidle imifino. Lolu ubisi lwami njalo lapho uNancy egula. Njengoba elulama, konke kubuyela kwesijwayelekile. "
Ngasikhathi sinye, uJody wacacisa ukuthi akukho cala lapho ayefuna ukululaza khona labo abaphakela izingane ifomula.
Uthi: “Ingane yami yokuqala yayinceliswe ibhodlela, ezimbili ezilandelayo zahlanganiswa. "Ngifuna ukukhombisa ukuthi imizimba yethu ikwazi ukwenzani ngichaze nokuthi kungani ngisancelisa uNancy yize enezinyanga eziyi-13 ubudala."
Ngendlela, amacala anjalo asevele enzekile: omunye umama wamangaza iNethiwekhi ngesithombe sobisi lwebele olubomvana, owesibili ngobisi oluphuzi, olashintsha lapho ingane yakhe igula.
"Ngiyacela, musa nje ukuza nezintshumayelo zokuthi imijovo yokugoma inobuthi," kusho uJody ekhuluma ngemithi yokugoma, owalwa impi yangempela nokuthukwa nokuhlekwa usulu emazwaneni abewabhalile. "Ngiyethemba ukuthi ingane yakho ayitholi lutho olubucayi futhi ayitheleli umuntu okungafanele agonywe, ngoba nje ungakholelwa emithini yokugoma."
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Ingabe wancelisa ingane yakho ibele?
Yebo, ngenzile, futhi isikhathi eside kakhulu. Kepha ngaba nenhlanhla.
Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi labo abangazondli bodwa banobugovu.
Cha, ngangingenalo ubisi, futhi anginamahloni ngalokho.
Angikwazanga ukunika ingane ubisi futhi ngisazisola ngakho.
Ngishintshele ngamabomu enhlanganisweni, ngangivame ukuphuma endlini.
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