Indlela yokuthatha izinqumo yabesilisa nabesifazane iyafana … inqobo nje uma bezolile. Kodwa esimweni esicindezelayo, amasu abo okuqonda aphikisana kakhulu.
Kuyavunywa ukuthi esimweni esinzima sokucindezeleka, abesifazane bakhungethwe imizwelo, futhi balahlekelwa amakhanda abo. Kodwa amadoda, njengomthetho, ayazi ukuthi angazihlanganisa kanjani, alondoloze ukuzibamba nokuzola. “Kukhona umbono onjalo,” kuqinisekisa uTherese Huston, umbhali wencwadi ethi How Women Make Decisions.1. - Yingakho empilweni enzima ukungqubuzana nelungelo lokwenza isinqumo esinomthwalo wemfanelo ngokuvamile linikezwa amadoda. Nokho, ukwaziswa kwamuva kososayensi bezinzwa bathi imibono enjalo ayinasisekelo.
Ukuhlolwa kwamanzi eqhwa
Isazi sezinzwa zengqondo uMara Mather kanye nozakwabo eNyuvesi yaseSouthern California bazimisele ukuthola Ukuthi ingcindezi ikuthinta kanjani ukwenza izinqumo. Abahlanganyeli bamenywe ukuthi badlale umdlalo wekhompyutha. Kwakudingeka ukuzuza imali eningi ngangokunokwenzeka ngokufutha amabhaluni abonakalayo. Lapho ibhaluni likhuphuka kakhulu, imali eningi ewina umhlanganyeli. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, wayekwazi ukumisa umdlalo nganoma yisiphi isikhathi futhi athathe ama-winnings. Kodwa-ke, ibhaluni lingaqhuma njengoba belifuthelwa, okwenza lowo obambe iqhaza engasayitholi imali. Kwakungenakwenzeka ukubikezela kusengaphambili lapho ibhola selivele "liseduze", linqunywe yikhompyutha.
Kuvele ukuthi ukuziphatha kwabesilisa nabesifazane kulo mdlalo akuhlukile.kuyilapho besesimweni esizolile, bekhululekile.
Kodwa izazi zezinto eziphilayo zazinesithakazelo kulokho okwenzeka esimweni esicindezelayo. Ukuze benze lokhu, izihloko zacelwa ukuba zicwilise isandla sazo emanzini eqhwa, okwabangela ukuba babe ne-pulse esheshayo nomfutho wegazi ophakeme. Kuvele ukuthi abesifazane kuleli cala bawumise umdlalo ngaphambilini, benyusa ibhola ngo-18% ngaphansi kwesimo esizolile. Okusho ukuthi, bancamela ukuthola inzuzo enesizotha kunokuzifaka engozini ngokudlala ngokuqhubekayo.
Amadoda enza okuphambene nalokho. Ngaphansi kokucindezeleka, bathatha izingozi ezengeziwe, bafaka ibhaluni ngokwengeziwe, ngethemba lokuthola i-jackpot eqinile.
Usola i-cortisol?
Iqembu labacwaningi elaliholwa isazi sezinzwa uRuud van den Bos wase-University of Neimingen (Netherlands) lafinyelela eziphethweni ezifanayo. Bakholelwa ukuthi isifiso samadoda sokuzifaka engozini esimweni esicindezelayo sibangelwa i-hormone cortisol. Ngokungafani ne-adrenaline, ekhishwa ngokushesha egazini ngenxa yosongo, i-cortisol ingena kancane kancane egazini ukuze isinikeze amandla adingekayo ngemva kwemizuzu engu-20-30.
Isifiso samadoda sokuthatha izingozi esimweni esicindezelayo sibangelwa i-hormone cortisol.
Imiphumela yalawa ma-hormone kwabesilisa nabesifazane iphikisana kakhulu. Ake sichaze ngesibonelo. Cabanga ukuthi uthole umlayezo ovela kumphathi wakho: "Woza endaweni yami, sidinga ukukhuluma ngokuphuthumayo." Awukaze uthole izimemo ezinjalo ngaphambili, futhi uqala ukukhathazeka. Uya ehhovisi lomphathi, kodwa usocingweni, kufanele ulinde. Ekugcineni, umphathi ukumemela ehhovisi futhi ukutshela ukuthi kuzomele ahambe ngoba uyise usesimweni esibucayi. Uyakubuza, "Yimiphi imithwalo yemfanelo ongayithwala ngingekho?"
Ngokwalolu cwaningo abesifazane abasesimweni esifana nalesi maningi amathuba okuthi bathathe izinto abanekhono kuzo nabaqinisekayo ukuthi bazobhekana nazo. Kodwa amadoda azofuna amaphrojekthi afisa kakhulu, futhi azobe engakhathazeki kakhulu ngokuthi kungenzeka yini ukwehluleka.
Womabili amasu anamandla
Lo mehluko ungabuye uhlobane nendlela ubuchopho obusebenza ngayo, njengoba kufakazelwa olunye ucwaningo olwenziwa nguMara Mater. Yakhiwe emdlalweni ofanayo wekhompyutha namabhola. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, ososayensi baskena ubuchopho babahlanganyeli ukuze banqume ukuthi yiziphi izindawo ezazisebenza kakhulu ngesikhathi sokwenza izinqumo ngaphansi kwengcindezi. Kwavela ukuthi izindawo ezimbili zobuchopho - i-putamen kanye ne-anterior insular lobe - emadodeni nakwabesifazane basabela ngendlela ephambene.
U-Putamen uhlola ukuthi kudingekile yini ukwenza manje, futhi uma kunjalo, unikeza ubuchopho isignali: qhubeka ngokushesha esenzweni. Kodwa-ke, lapho umuntu enza isinqumo esiyingozi, i-insula yangaphambili ithumela isignali: "Sentry, lokhu kuyingozi!"
Emadodeni ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa, kokubili i-putamen ne-anterior insular lobe kusebenze kumodi ye-alamu. Ngomqondo othile, ngesikhathi esifanayo baphawula: “Kumelwe sithathe isinyathelo ngokushesha!” futhi "Damn it, ngithatha ingozi enkulu!" Kuvele ukuthi amadoda asabela ngokomzwelo ezinqumweni zawo eziyingozi, ezingahambisani neze nemibono evamile ngamadoda.
Kodwa kwabesifazane kwakungenye indlela. Umsebenzi wazo zombili lezi zindawo zobuchopho, ngokuphambene nalokho, wehla, njengokungathi unikeza imiyalo "Asikho isidingo sokuphuthuma", "Masingafaki izingozi ngokungadingekile". Okusho ukuthi, ngokungafani namadoda, abesifazane abazange babhekane nokungezwani futhi akukho lutho olubacindezela ukuba benze izinqumo ngokuxhamazela.
Esimweni esicindezelayo, ingqondo yabesifazane ithi: "Masingafaki izingozi ngaphandle kwesidingo"
Iliphi isu elingcono? Kwesinye isikhathi amadoda azifaka engozini futhi awine, athole imiphumela emihle. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi izenzo zabo ezingalungile ziholela ekuweni, bese abesifazane ngendlela yabo eqaphile futhi elinganiselayo bakwazi ukulungisa isimo. Ngokwesibonelo, cabanga ngabaphathi besifazane abadumile abanjengoMary T. Barra wakwaGeneral Motors noma uMarissa Mayer wakwa-Yahoo, owathatha ukuhola kwezinkampani ebunzimeni obukhulu futhi wazenza zachuma.
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1 T. Huston "Indlela Abesifazane Abanquma Ngayo: Yini Okuyiqiniso, Yini Okungeyona, Futhi Yimaphi Amasu Abangela Ukukhetha Okungcono Kakhulu" (Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, 2016).