Uke wangabaza ukuxoxa indaba yomndeni wakho?
Leli bhuku libika ubufakazi obuvela ku-GPA. Bengingeke ngikhulume ngakho ngaphandle kokukhuluma ngolwazi lwami. Bengingathanda, kodwa bekungeke kulunge. Ngiyazi ukuthi ukudalula umndeni wami kubenza bazizwe besengozini. Kungumhlatshelo engivume ukuwenza. Saxoxa kakhulu ngakho konke ndawonye akukho okwenziwa ngaphandle kwesivumelwano samadodakazi ami, ngiwatshela konke.
Awukwesabi ukusabela kwama-anti-GPAs?
Uyazi, naphezu kwabanye abaphikisana kakhulu ngamazwi kuthelevishini, umphakathi ekugcineni unomusa. Esikoleni, emgwaqeni, abahwebi ... kusukela ngesikhathi abantu bebona amantombazane amancane alinganiselayo, azibonakalisa enomusa. Ukuphila kwethu kwansuku zonke akuvumelekile ngenjabulo!
Uwatshele kanjani amadodakazi akho indaba yawo?
Angazi ukuthi babekuqonda kahle ukuthi ungakanani ngeminyaka, kodwa bengilokhu ngibatshela ngakho kusukela bazalwa. Lapho benemizuzu embalwa nje, ngabachazela ukuthi bafika emndenini onobaba ababili, nokuthi uMichelle, owabavumela ukuba bazalwe, wamukele imbewu encane kababa ukuze akhule. esiswini sakhe. Kancane kancane, salungisa amagama ethu ngokweminyaka yawo, futhi namuhla, indaba yabo, bakhuluma ngayo kalula kakhulu.
Ungubaba onjani?
Mina, ngingubaba oyekelelayo, kuyilapho u-François ebeka imithetho. Nokho, bengingacabanga okuphambene ... ngimdala kunaye futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke,
upholile kunami empilweni. Kodwa ekugcineni, yimina kakhulu oduduzayo futhi nguye obeka amafreyimu. Ngokwesibonelo, kuleli sonto ngiseholidini namantombazane, futhi kunomsindo!
Usho ukuthini uMichelle, obambele omunye emndenini wakho?
E-United States, lapho umama oshade naye ekhetha wena, sihlangana nezingane zakhe, umyeni wakhe… Sichitha isikhathi esiningi ndawonye futhi kwakheka izibopho eziqinile. Abakwazi ukuhlukana ngemva kokuzalwa komntwana, ngokuphambene nalokho, baba namandla. Ngakho njalo ngonyaka ngemva kukaKhisimusi, siqasha indlu futhi sonke siyahlangana ukuze sichithe izinsuku ezimbalwa lapho. UMichelle ungumngane wethu ngempela, futhi uyaziqhenya ngokusisiza ukuba siqale umndeni. Ngingasho ukuthi ekugcineni unobudlelwane obuningi nathi ngokomzwelo kunamantombazane.
Yiziphi izindinganiso ofuna ukuzidlulisela emadodakazini akho?
Ngizama ukusebenzisa imfundo enakekelayo, kodwa hhayi ukuyekethisa. Ngizibophezele ekuthuthukiseni uhlangothi lwabo lwezobuciko, ebengingenalo. Hhayi ukubona yonke into ngendlela ejwayelekile. Benza inkulisa yabo esikoleni saseMontessori lapho, ngisho noma kunemithetho, siphinde silalele kakhulu ingane kanye nokudala kwakhe. Omncane usephinde waba nomuzwa wokudweba, i-calligraphy ... Akukho lutho empilweni yami olungenza ngiziqhenye ukwedlula amadodakazi ami!
Encwadini yakhe ethi, “What is she
emndenini wami ”, izinhlelo ze-Grasset, uMarc-Olivier uletha ubufakazi bakhe nokuthi
inqwaba yeminye imibhangqwana mayelana ne-surrogacy.