Konke kwaqhubeka kanjena, kwaze kwaba yilapho incwadi kaMarie Kondo iwela ezandleni zami (futhi ngomlingo): “Ukuhlanza ngomlingo. Ubuciko baseJapane bokubeka izinto ngokuhlelekile ekhaya nasempilweni. Nakhu umlobi wencwadi abhala ngaye ngokwakhe:
Ngokuvamile, uMarie Kondo kusukela ebuntwaneni wayengeyona ingane evamile. Wayenento yokuzilibazisa eyinqaba - ukuhlanza. Yona kanye inqubo yokuhlanza kanye nezindlela zokuqaliswa kwayo yathatha ingqondo yentombazane encane kangangokuthi yanikela cishe sonke isikhathi sayo samahhala kulo msebenzi. Ngenxa yalokho, ngemva kwesikhashana, uMarie waqhamuka nendlela yakhe ephelele yokuhlanza. Okungukuthi, nokho, kungabeka izinto ngokuhlelekile hhayi kuphela endlini, kodwa nasekhanda nasemphefumulweni.
Futhi empeleni, siluthola kanjani ulwazi lwendlela yokuhlanza kahle? Ngokuyisisekelo, sonke siyazifundisa. Izingane zamukela izindlela zokuhlanza kubazali bazo, lezo ezabo ... Kodwa! Asisoze sadlula iresiphi yekhekhe enganambitheki kahle, pho kungani sisebenzisa izindlela ezingalenzi ikhaya lethu lihlanzeke futhi sijabule kakhudlwana?
Futhi yini, futhi kungenzeka?
Indlela enikezwa nguMarie Kondo ihluke kakhulu kulokho esikujwayele. Njengoba umlobi ngokwakhe esho, ukuhlanza kuyiholide elibalulekile nelijabulisayo elenzeka kanye kuphela ekuphileni. Futhi leli iholide elingeke lisize nje ikhaya lakho lihlale libukeka ngendlela oyiphuphile ngayo, kodwa futhi likusize uthinte izintambo zokuphefumulelwa kanye nemilingo ehlanganisa ngobuciko impilo yethu yonke.
Izimiso ze-KonMari Method
1. Cabanga ukuthi yini esiyilwelayo. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuhlanza, zibuze umbuzo obalulekile wokuthi ufuna ikhaya lakho libe kanjani, yimiphi imizwa ofuna ukuyizwa kuleli khaya nokuthi kungani. Ngokuvamile, lapho siqala uhambo lwethu, siyakhohlwa ukubeka indlela efanele. Sizokwazi kanjani ukuthi sesifikile lapho siya khona?
2. Bheka okuzungezile.
Isikhathi esiningi sigcina izinto endlini, singazibuzi nokuthi kungani sizidinga. Futhi inqubo yokuhlanza iphenduka ibe ukuguqulwa okungacabangi kwezinto kusuka endaweni kuya kwenye. Izinto esingazidingi ngempela. Ngenhliziyo, ungakhumbula konke okusendlini yakho? Futhi uzisebenzisa kangaki zonke lezi zinto?
Nakhu okushiwo uMarie ngokwakhe ngendlu yakhe:
3. Qonda ukuthi yini esifuna ukuyigcina. Izindlela eziningi zokuhlanza zendabuko zehlela "ekuhlakazeni" indlu. Asicabangi ukuthi indawo yethu kufanele ibukeke kanjani, kodwa mayelana nalokho esingakuthandi. Ngakho-ke, singenawo umqondo wenhloso yokugcina, siwela embuthanweni ononya - ukuthenga okungadingekile futhi ngokuphindaphindiwe ukuqeda lokhu okungadingekile. By the way, akukhona nje ngezinto ezisendlini, akunjalo?
4. Valelisa okungenasidingo.
Ukuze uqonde ukuthi yiziphi izinto ongathanda ukuvalelisa kuzo nokuthi yini ongayishiya, udinga ukuthinta ngayinye yazo. UMarie usikisela ukuthi siqale ukuhlanza hhayi ngegumbi, njengoba sivame ukwenza, kodwa ngezigaba. Ukuqala ngezinto ezilula ukuhlukana nazo - izingubo ezisekhabetheni lethu - futhi ziphethe ngezinto ezikhumbulekayo nezizwelayo.
Lapho ubhekana nezinto ezingakulethi injabulo enhliziyweni yakho, ungamane uzibeke enqwabeni ehlukene namagama athi “kahle, angikudingi lokhu”, kodwa gxila kukho ngayinye yazo, uthi “ngiyabonga” bese uthi. usale kahle njengoba uzovalelisa kumngani omdala. Nalo mkhuba uwodwa uzowuphendula umphefumulo wakho kangangoba awusoze wakwazi ukuthenga into ongayidingi ushiye uhlupheka wedwa.
Futhi, ungakhohlwa ukuthi “ukuhlanza” ngale ndlela ezintweni zabathandekayo bakho kuyinto engamukeleki.
5. Thola indawo yento ngayinye. Ngemva kokuvalelisa kukho konke okungadingekile, kwase kuyisikhathi sokuhlela izinto ezisele endlini.
Umthetho oyinhloko we-KonMari awukona ukuvumela izinto zisakaze efulethini. Isitoreji esilula, sisebenza kahle kakhulu. Uma kungenzeka, gcina izinto zesigaba esifanayo eduze kwesinye. Umlobi weluleka ukuba bahlele hhayi ukuze kube lula ukuthatha izinto, kodwa ukuze kube lula ukuzibeka.
Umbhali uphakamisa indlela yokugcina ethakazelisa kakhulu ye-wardrobe yethu - ukuhlela zonke izinto zibheke phezulu, zigoqe njenge-sushi. Ku-inthanethi, ungathola amavidiyo amaningi ahlekisayo okuthi ungakwenza kanjani kahle.
6. Gcina ngokucophelela lokho okuletha injabulo.
Ukuphatha izinto ezisizungezile futhi ezisisebenzela kanzima usuku nosuku njengabangane bethu abahle, sifunda ukuthi singazisingatha kanjani ngokucophelela. Siyazazi zonke izinto ezisendlini yethu futhi sizocabanga kathathu ngaphambi kokuthola into entsha.
Abantu abaningi namuhla bayazibuza mayelana ne-hyperconsumption eye yahlupha umhlaba wethu. Izazi ze-ecologists, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo kanye nabantu abakhathalelayo nje bashicilela izihloko eziningi zesayensi, bezama ukudonsa ukunaka kwabantu kule nkinga futhi banikeze izindlela zabo zokuyixazulula.
NgokukaMarie Kondo, isilinganiso senani likadoti elahlwa ngumuntu oyedwa ngesikhathi sokuhlanza ngokwendlela yakhe licishe libe izikhwama zikadoti ezingamashumi amabili kuya kwangamashumi amathathu angu-45-litre. Futhi inani eliphelele lezinto ezikhishwe ngamakhasimende isikhathi sonke somsebenzi walo lizolingana nezikhwama ezinjalo eziyizinkulungwane ezingu-28.
Into ebalulekile efundiswa indlela kaMarie Kondo ukwazisa onakho. Ukuqonda ukuthi umhlaba ngeke uhlukane, noma ngabe siswele okuthile. Manje, uma ngingena endlini yami ngiyibingelela, ngeke ngiyivumele ihlale ingcolile - hhayi ngoba "kungumsebenzi" wami, kodwa ngoba ngiyayithanda futhi ngiyayihlonipha. Futhi ngokuvamile ukuhlanza akuthathi imizuzu engaphezu kwe-10. Ngiyazi futhi ngijabulela yonke into esendlini yami. Bonke banendawo yabo lapho bengaphumula khona nalapho ngingabathola khona. Ukuhleleka kuxazululwe hhayi kuphela endlini yami, kodwa nasemphefumulweni wami. Phela, phakathi neholide elibaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni kwami, ngafunda ukwazisa enginakho futhi ngikhiphe ngokucophelela okungadingekile.
Yilapho umlingo uhlala khona.