Ukuzalwa okubukhoma: lapho abazali beveza ukuzalwa kwengane yabo kuwebhu

Ividiyo yokubeletha: labomama abashicilela ukuzalwa kwengane yabo ku-inthanethi

Nge-inthanethi, umgoqo phakathi kwemikhakha yangasese neyomphakathi uya ngokuya uba mncane. Noma ngabe kuFacebook, Instagram noma Twitter… Abasebenzisi be-inthanethi abanqikazi ukukhombisa impilo yabo yansuku zonke, kanye nezikhathi ezisondele kakhulu. Sikhumbula, ngokwesibonelo, lesi sisebenzi sika-Twitter esasibhale bukhoma ukuzalwa kwakhe ku-Twitter. Kodwa abasebenzisi be-inthanethi abagcini emilayezweni yomuntu siqu nasezithombeni. Uma uthayipha umbuzo othi “ukubeletha” ku-YouTube, uthola imiphumela engaphezu kuka-50. Uma amavidiyo athile, akhiqizwa ochwepheshe, ehloselwe ukwazisa abasebenzisi be-inthanethi, abanye abasebenzisi bavele babelane ngokuzalwa kwengane yabo nomhlaba wonke, njenge-blogger yase-Australia ephethe isiteshi se-"Gemma Times". , lapho ekhuluma ngempilo yakhe njengomama. Abalandeli bakhe bakwazi ukulandela ukuzalwa kukaClarabella wakhe omncane ngomzuzu ngomzuzu. U-Gemma no-Emily, odade ababili baseBrithani, nabo babangele impikiswano esiteshini sonke ngokuthumela kokubili ividiyo yokuzalwa kwabo ku-inthanethi. Nakulokhu futhi, akukho lutho oluphunyukile ku-inthanethi: ubuhlungu, ukulinda, ukukhululwa ... “Ngikuthola kukuhle ukuthi abantu abaningi bakubone lokho”, waze wathulula isifuba uGemma. Muva nje, ngoJulayi 000, Ubaba wabhala ezinkundleni zokuxhumana mayelana nokubeletha komkakhe emotweni ngesikhathi emyisa esibhedlela. Ividiyo isibukwe izikhathi ezingaphezu kwezigidi ezingu-15.

Kodwa kuthiwani ngokusakazwa okunjalo kobumfihlo kuyi-Internet? Ngokwesazi sezokuhlalisana kwabantu uMichel Fize, “lokhu kukhombisa isidingo sokuqashelwa”. “Ngingadlulela phambili ngokukhuluma ngesidingo sokuba khona,” kuqhubeka lo chwepheshe. Abantu bazitshela ukuthi “ngikhona ngoba abanye bazobuka ividiyo yami”. Namuhla, ukubuka kwabanye okubalulekile ”. Futhi ngesizathu esihle, ukubonakala kuwukuthola ukuqashelwa okuthile emphakathini.

Yenza i-buzz ngazo zonke izindleko!

Njengoba uMichel Fize echaza, kuwebhu, abasebenzisi be-inthanethi bazama ukudala i-buzz. “Uma kunguMnu. Sbanibani omane ephethe ingane yakhe ezandleni, akunandaba. Yisimo esivusa amadlingozi nesingavamile sevidiyo esibalulekile. Lona ukuphela komkhawulo wokubonakala. Futhi abasebenzisi bakhombisa umcabango wabo, ”kuchaza isazi sezokuhlalisana kwabantu. Izingosi zokuxhumana ziwushintshile umbono wethu wokubona izinto nempilo yethu. “Lezi zivumela noma ubani ukuba athumele noma yini efana nalezi zigcawu zokubeletha eziseduze,” kunezela uchwepheshe.

Kodwa akugcini lapho, nge-You Tube, Facebook noma i-Instagram, “singena ohlelweni lokulingana ngokwedlulele nezinkanyezi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi udumile noma cha, ungashicilela izithombe zakho zokubeletha. Kwaqala ngo-Elisabeth Taylor ngawo-1950. Singaphinda sicaphune uSégolène Royal, owashicilela izithombe zokuzalwa kwezingane zakhe emaphephandabeni. Empeleni, lokho okwakugcinelwe umphakathi ophakeme manje sekutholwa yibo bonke. Ngempela, uma uKim Kardashian ebeletha ku-TV, wonke umuntu manje angakwenza.

Ilungelo lengane "liphuliwe"

Ku-inthanethi, izithombe zihlala. Ngisho noma ususa iphrofayela, ezinye izici zingase zivele kabusha. Singase sizibuze ukuthi ukukhula, ukuthola izithombe ezinjalo kungaba nomthelela omubi enganeni. KuMichel Fize, “kuyinkulumo ephelelwe yisikhathi”. “Lezi zingane zizokhulela emphakathini okuzobe kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi zixoxe impilo yazo yonke kwi-Net. Angicabangi ukuthi bazohlukumezeka. Ngokuphambene nalokho, bazoyihleka impela ”, kusho isazi sezokuhlalisana kwabantu. Ngokwesinye isandla, UMichel Fize ukhomba into ebalulekile: eyamalungelo engane. “Ukuzalwa yisikhathi esijulile. Izintshisekelo zomntwana azinakwa lapho kukhethwa ukushicilela ividiyo enjalo. Akabuzwanga umbono wakhe. Singakwenza kanjani lokhu ngaphandle kwemvume yomunye umuntu, ombandakanya ngokuqondile, ”kubuza uMichel Fize. Uphinde akhuthaze ukusetshenziswa okukhawulelwe kakhulu kwezinkundla zokuxhumana. “Umuntu angazibuza ukuthi abantu bazohamba ibanga elingakanani, bazosabalalisa kangakanani lokho okusezinkampanini ezizimele. Ukuba umzali nokubeletha kuwuhambo lomuntu siqu, ”kuqhuba yena. "Ngicabanga ukuthi yonke into ekurejista yokuzalwa kwengane, emiphakathini yethu yaseNtshonalanga, kunoma yikuphi, kufanele ihlale ilandelana nezihlobo".

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