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Ngisho noma isehlukaniso singaphezu kwakho konke indaba yabantu abadala, izingane zizithola, naphezu kwazo, zikhathazekile. Abanye babhekene ne-fait accompli, bakhathazeka kakhulu abangaqondi. Abanye abazibalekele izingxabano futhi balandele ukuvela kokuhlukana esimweni sokushuba ...
Isimo sinzima kuwo wonke umuntu kodwa, kukho konke lokhu kuxokozela, izingane zidinga ukuthanda ubaba wazo njengomama wazo, futhi ukuze lokho kugwenywe ngangokunokwenzeka ezingxabanweni zomshado noma ukuthathelwa izinyathelo ...
Unyaka ngamunye eFrance, cishe Imibhangqwana eyi-110 ehlukanisayo, kuhlanganise nabangu-70 abanezingane ezincane...
Isenzo, ukusabela...
Yonke ingane isabela ngesahlukaniso ngendlela yayo - ngokuqaphela noma ngokungazi - ukuze izwakalise ukukhathazeka kwayo futhi izwakale. Abanye bayahoxa, abalokothi babuze imibuzo ngoba besaba ukuzwisa abazali babo ubuhlungu. Bazigcina kubo izinkathazo nokwesaba kwabo. Abanye, ngokuphambene nalokho, baveza ukungakhululeki kwabo ngaphandle kokungahlaliseki, ukuziphatha okuthukuthele ... noma bafuna ukudlala “ukuqapha” ukuze bavikele lowo abacabanga ukuthi ubuthakathaka kakhulu… Bayizingane kuphela, nokho, baqonda kahle. isimo. Futhi bahlushwa yikho! Ngokusobala, abafuni abazali babo bahlukanise.
Kusebenza kakhulu emakhanda abo ...
“Kungani uMama noBaba behlukana?” INGABE UMBUZO (kodwa ukude nokuba yiwona wodwa…) ohlupha izingqondo zezingane! Yize kungelula ukusho njalo kodwa kuhle ukubachazela ukuthi izindaba zothando zivame ukuba nzima futhi izinto azihlali zihamba ngendlela obuhlele ngayo. Uthando lombhangqwana lungaphela, uBaba noma umama angathandana nomunye umuntu… abantu abadala nabo banezindaba zabo nezimfihlo zabo ezincane.
Kubalulekile ukulungiselela izingane (ngisho noma zizincane) kulokhu kuhlukana futhi ukhulume nazo nganoma yiziphi izinguquko ezingase zenzeke. Kodwa njalo ngobumnene, nangamagama alula ukuze baqonde isimo. Ukwesaba kwabo ngeke kuhlale kulula ukukuqeda, kodwa badinga ukuqonda into eyodwa: ukuthi abanacala ngalokho okwenzekayo.
Lapho izinto zingahambi kahle esikoleni ...
Ibhuku lakhe liyakufakaza lokhu, ingane yakho ayisakwazi ukuya esikoleni futhi ukushisekela kwayo emsebenzini akusekho. Nokho, asikho isidingo sokuba nokhahlo kakhulu. Mnikeze isikhathi “sokugaya” umcimbi. Angase futhi azizwe ehlukanisiwe nontanga akuthola kunzima ukukhuluma ngakho. Zama ukumduduza ngokumtshela ukuthi akumele azenyeze ngalesi simo. Futhi ukuthi mhlawumbe, ngemva kokutshela abangani bakhe ngakho, uzozizwa ekhululekile ...
Ukushintsha kwesikole…
Ngemva kwesehlukaniso, ingane yakho kungase kudingeke ishintshe isikole. Lokhu kusho ukuthi: ngeke kusabangane abafanayo, kungasekho nkosikazi efanayo, akusekho izithenjwa ezifanayo…
Mqinisekise ngokumtshela ukuthi angahlala ethintana nabangane bakhe, ukuthi bangabhalelana, bashayele ucingo, futhi bamemane ngisho nangamaholide!
Ukungena esikoleni esisha nokwenza abangani abasha akulula. Kodwa, ngokwabelana ngemisebenzi noma izikhungo ezifanayo ezithakazelisayo, izingane ngokuvamile zizwela ngaphandle kobunzima obuningi ...