UMelissa Blake waseMelika wazalwa enesifo sofuzo esingajwayelekile sesistimu ye-musculoskeletal. Naphezu kwalokhu, waphothula ekolishi, waba intatheli ephumelelayo futhi uzama ukushintsha izwe elimzungezile.
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UMelissa Blake
“Ngifuna ukubukwa. Hhayi ngoba ngiyi-narcissist, kodwa ngesizathu esisebenzayo. Umphakathi awusoze washintsha uma singaphathi abantu abakhubazekile ngendlela evamile. Futhi ngenxa yalokhu, abantu badinga nje ukubona abantu abakhubazekile, "- wabhala kubhulogi yakhe uMelissa Blake ngoSepthemba 30.
Lona wesifazane oneminyaka engu-39 ubudala uhlala efaka izithombe zakhe azishuthe zona - futhi akanandaba noma kukhona ongamthandi.
UMelissa unesifo esingavamile sofuzo esibizwa ngokuthi i-Freeman-Sheldon Syndrome. Abantu abanalokhu kuxilongwa abakwazi ukulawula ngokugcwele umzimba wabo, futhi futhi babe nezici ezithile zokubukeka kwabo: amehlo ajulile, ama-cheekbones aphuma ngokuqinile, amaphiko angathuthukisiwe ekhaleni, njalonjalo.
UBlake ubonga abazali bakhe abakhulise ukholo lwakhe kuye futhi bazama ukumenza ilungu eliphelele lomphakathi. Lona wesifazane wathola idiploma yobuntatheli futhi waqala ukusebenzelana nabantu, ekhuluma ngempilo yakhe ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.
UMelissa unamakhulu ezinkulungwane zabalandeli abamesekayo - ngokwengqondo nangokwezimali, baba ngabaxhasi bebhulogi yakhe.
Umyalezo omqoka owesifazane afuna ukuwudlulisa emphakathini yisidingo sokuthi uyeke ukungabanaki abantu abakhubazekile. Kumele bavele kumafilimu, kumabonakude futhi babe nezikhundla zomphakathi.
“Bezingashintsha kanjani uchungechunge oludumile lwe-TV uma abalingisi babo bekhubazekile? Kuthiwani uma u-Carrie Bradshaw waseSex and the City esesihlalweni esinamasondo? Kuthiwani uma u-Penny we-Big Bang Theory ene-cerebral palsy? Ngingathanda ngempela ukubona umuntu onjengami esikrinini. Othile naye ohamba ngesihlalo esinamasondo futhi ofuna ukumemeza, “Sawubona, ngingowesifazane nami! Ukukhubazeka kwami akukushintshi lokho,” kubhala uMelissa eminyakeni embalwa edlule.
Ngeshwa, isishoshovu kufanele sixhumane hhayi kuphela nabalandeli, abagqugquzela ngezenzo ezinhle, kodwa futhi nabazonda abaningi abacasula ukubukeka kwakhe okungavamile.
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Nokho, uMelissa akamangali ngokuhlaselwa okunjalo. Kunalokho, bayamsiza ukuba abonise ngokucace nakakhulu isidingo sokushintsha isimo sengqondo somphakathi ngabantu abakhubazekile.
“Ngicabanga ukuthi akunzima ukudelela ukubukeka kwakho. Ikakhulukazi owami. Yebo, ukukhubazeka kungenza ngibukeke ngihlukile. Into esobala ukuthi ngiphile impilo yami yonke. Akuwona amahlaya namahlaya abhekiswe kimina okungicasulayo, kodwa iqiniso lapho othile akuthola kuhlekisa khona.
Ukucasha ngekhibhodi, kulula kakhulu ukugxeka ukushiyeka kothile futhi uthi lo muntu mubi kakhulu ukuthi angathumela isithombe sakho ku-inthanethi.
Uyazi ukuthi ngizophendula ngithini kulokhu? Nazi ezinye izithombe zami ozishuthe zona ezintathu,” UBlake wake waphendula abazondayo.
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