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Amandla Okuhlakanipha Okuphezulu isici esithinta ingxenye encane yabantu. Laba ngabantu abane-intelligence quotient (IQ) ngaphezu kwesilinganiso. Ngokuvamile, lawa maphrofayili azoba nobuntu obungajwayelekile. Njengoba benikezwe umcabango wesakhiwo sesihlahla, abantu Abanamandla Okukhalipha Okuphezulu bazoba nobuciko obukhulu. I-Hypersensitivity iyatholakala nakubantu abanesiphiwo, okungase kudinge izidingo ezikhethekile ezingokomzwelo.

Izimpawu ze-precocity: indlela yokubona ingane enesiphiwo izinyanga ezingu-0-6

Kusukela ekuzalweni, umntwana onesiphiwo uvula amehlo akhe kakhulu futhi abheke konke okwenzeka eduze kwakhe ngokunaka. Ukubuka kwakhe okuhlolisisayo kuyacwebezela, kuvulekile futhi kuchaza kakhulu. Ugqolozele emehlweni, ngomfutho oke uxake abazali. Uhlale eqaphile, akukho okumbalekelayo. Unobudlelwane kakhulu, ufuna ukuxhumana. Akakakhulumi, kodwa unezimpondo futhi ubona izinguquko ebusweni bukamama ngokushesha. Izwela kakhulu imibala, izinto ezibonwayo, imisindo, iphunga nokunambitha. Umsindo omncane, ukukhanya okuncane kakhulu angawazi kuvusa ukuqaphela kwakhe ngokweqile. Ayeke ukuncela, abhekise ikhanda lakhe ngakulowo msindo, abuze imibuzo. Khona-ke, uma ethola incazelo: “Yivacuum cleaner, inhlabamkhosi yezicishamlilo, njll. », Athule futhi athathe ibhodlela lakhe. Kusukela ekuqaleni, ingane engakafiki izwa izigaba zokuvuka ezolile ezithatha imizuzu engaphezu kweyisishiyagalombili. Uhlala eqaphile, egxilile, kuyilapho ezinye izingane zikwazi ukugxilisa ukunaka kwazo imizuzu emi-5 kuya kweyisi-6 ngesikhathi. Lo mehluko emandleni akhe okugxilisa ingqondo mhlawumbe ungenye yezihluthulelo zobuhlakani bakhe obungavamile.

Yiziphi izimpawu ze-precocity okufanele zibonwe kusukela ezinyangeni eziyisi-6 ukuya onyakeni ongu-1

Kusukela ezinyangeni eziyisi-6, ingane enekhono eliphezulu ibheka futhi izame ukuhlaziya isimo ngaphambi kokuba iqale umsebenzi. Ngokwesibonelo, enkulisa, izingane ezisakhula azizipholi enkundleni njengabanye, azijahi ukunyonyoba, ziqale zibuke kahle, ngezinye izikhathi ngokumunca izithupha zazo, ukuthi kwenzekani phambi kwazo. Baskena indawo yesigameko, bahlole isimo kanye nezingozi ngaphambi kokuba babambe iqhaza. Cishe izinyanga eziyisi-6-8, lapho efinyelela into ethile, uyayidinga ngokushesha, ngaphandle kwalokho kuba yisifuthefuthe sentukuthelo. Unesineke futhi akathandi ukulinda. Iphinde ilingise imisindo eyizwa kahle. Wayengakabi nonyaka lapho esho izwi lakhe lokuqala. Eqina kakhulu, uhlala phambi kwabanye futhi weqa izinyathelo ezithile. Uvame ukusuka ehlezi ehambe engahambi ngezinyawo ezine. Uba nokuxhumana okuhle kwesandla / kwamehlo kusesekuseni kakhulu ngoba ufuna ukuhlola iqiniso eyedwa: “Le nto iyangithakasela, ngiyayibamba, ngiyayibuka, ngiyiletha emlonyeni wami”. Njengoba efuna ukusukuma futhi aphume embhedeni ekuseni kakhulu, izingane ezinekhono eliphezulu lokuhlakanipha zivame ukuhamba izinyanga ezingu-9-10.

Bona izimpawu ze-precocity kusuka ku-1 kuya ku-2 iminyaka

Ukhuluma kuqala kunabanye. Cishe izinyanga eziyi-12, uyakwazi ukuqamba izithombe encwadini yakhe yezithombe. Ngezinyanga eziyi-14-16, usevele ephimisa amagama futhi akha imisho ngendlela efanele. Ezinyangeni ezingu-18, uyakhuluma, uyakujabulela ukuphindaphinda amagama ayinkimbinkimbi, awasebenzisa ngokuhlakanipha. Lapho eneminyaka engu-2 ubudala, uyakwazi ukuba nengxoxo ngolimi oselukhulile kakade. Abanye abantu abanesiphiwo bathula kuze kube yiminyaka emi-2 futhi bakhulume nemisho ethi “izenzo zezihloko eziphelelisa” ngesikhathi esisodwa, ngoba bebelungiselela ngaphambi kokuba baqale. Enelukuluku, ekhuthele, uthinta yonke into futhi akesabi ukuphuma ayofuna okuhlangenwe nakho okusha. Unobhalansi omuhle, ugibela yonke indawo, wehla enyuka izitebhisi, uthwala yonke into futhi uphendule igumbi lokuphumula libe yindawo yokuzivocavoca. Ingane enesiphiwo iwubuthongo obuncane. Kuthatha isikhathi esincane ukuthi alulame ekukhathaleni kwakhe futhi uvame ukuba nobunzima bokulala. Unenkumbulo enhle kakhulu yokuzwa futhi ufunda kalula imilolozelo, izingoma namashuni omculo. Inkumbulo yakhe iyamangalisa. Wazi kahle ukugeleza kombhalo wezincwadi zakhe, kwehle kuze kufike ezwini, futhi akubuyisele emuva uma ushiya iziqephu ukuze uhambe ngokushesha.

Iphrofayili nokuziphatha: Izimpawu ze-precocity kusuka eminyakeni emi-2 kuye kwemi-3

Izinzwa zakhe zithuthukile. Iqaphela izinongo, thyme, Provence amakhambi, basil. Uhlukanisa iphunga lewolintshi, i-mint, i-vanilla, iphunga lezimbali. Isilulumagama sakhe siyaqhubeka nokukhula. Ubiza "i-stethoscope" kudokotela wezingane, akhulume ngokumangalisayo futhi abuze imininingwane ngamagama angaziwa "Kusho ukuthini lokho?". Ubamba ngekhanda amagama angaphandle. I-lexicon yayo inembayo. Ubuza imibuzo engu-1 "kungani, ngani, ngani?" futhi impendulo yemibuzo yakhe akufanele ibambezeleke, kungenjalo uzophelelwa isineke. Konke kufanele kuhambe ngokushesha njengasekhanda lakhe! I-Hypersensitive, inenkinga enkulu yokulawula imizwa, ilula kalula intukuthelo, igxilisa izinyawo zakhe, imemeze, iqhume izinyembezi. Udlala ongenandaba uma uzomlanda enkulisa noma kumzanyana wakhe. Eqinisweni, iyazivikela ekuchichimeni komzwelo futhi igwema ukubhekana nokuchichima kwemizwelo okubangelwa ukufika kwakho. Ukubhala kuyamkhanga ngokukhethekile. Udlalela ukuqaphela izinhlamvu. Udlala ngokubhala igama lakhe, ubhala “izinhlamvu” ezinde azithumelela wonke umuntu ukuze alingise umuntu omdala. Uthanda ukubala. Ku-2, uyakwazi ukubala kuye ku-10. Ku-2 nengxenye, ubona amadijithi ehora ewashini noma ewashini. Uyayiqonda incazelo yokwengeza nokukhipha ngokushesha okukhulu. Inkumbulo yakhe iyisithombe, unomqondo omuhle kakhulu wokuqondisa futhi ukhumbula izindawo ngokunemba.

Izimpawu ze-precocity kusuka eminyakeni emi-3 kuye kweyi-4

Uyakwazi ukuzichaza ngokwakhe izinhlamvu futhi ngezinye izikhathi kusesekuseni kakhulu. Uyaqonda ukuthi ama-syllables akhiwa kanjani nokuthi ama-syllable akha amagama. Eqinisweni, ufunda ukuzifundela uhlobo lwephakethe lakhe lokusanhlamvu, izimpawu, amagama ezitolo ... Yebo, udinga umuntu omdala ukuze enze umqondo wezimpawu ezihlobene nemisindo ethile, aphendule imibuzo yakhe, alungise isimo sakhe. ukucacisa imizamo. Kodwa akasidingi isifundo sokufunda! Unesiphiwo sokudweba nokudweba. Lapho engena enkulisa, ithalenta lakhe liyaqhuma! Uyakwazi ukuthwebula futhi anikeze yonke imininingwane yabalingiswa bakhe, imizimba yamaphrofayili, isimo sobuso, izingubo, ukwakheka kwezindlu, ngisho nemibono yokubuka. Lapho eneminyaka engu-4 ubudala, umdwebo wakhe owomntwana oneminyaka engu-8 futhi izifundo zakhe zicabanga ngaphandle kwebhokisi.

Izimpawu ze-precocity kusuka eminyakeni emi-4 kuye kweyi-6

Kusukela eneminyaka engu-4 ubudala, ubhala igama lakhe lokuqala, abese ebhala amanye amagama ngezinhlamvu ezinamathelayo. Uyathukuthela lapho engakwazi ukubhala izinhlamvu ngendlela angathanda ngayo. Ngaphambi kweminyaka engu-4-5, ukulawulwa kwezimoto okuhle akukakathuthukiswa futhi ihluzo zakhona ziyinkimbinkimbi. Kunegebe phakathi kwejubane lomcabango wakhe kanye nokunensa kokubhala, okuholela entukuthelweni kanye namaphesenti abalulekile e-dysgraphias ezinganeni ezisakhula. Uthanda izinombolo, ubala ngokungakhathali ngokwandisa amashumi, amakhulu… Uthanda ukudlala umthengisi. Wazi wonke amagama ama-dinosaurs, unothando ngamaplanethi, izimbobo ezimnyama, imithala. Ukomela kwakhe ulwazi akupheli. Ngaphezu kwalokho, unesizotha futhi uyenqaba ukukhumula phambi kwabanye. Ubuza imibuzo ekhona mayelana nokufa, ukugula, imvelaphi yomhlaba, ngamafuphi, uyisazi sefilosofi esafufusa. Futhi ulindele izimpendulo ezanele kubantu abadala, okungelula ngaso sonke isikhathi!

Unabangane abambalwa abangontanga yakhe ngenxa yokuthi akahambisani nezinye izingane ezingenazo izithakazelo zakhe. Uqhelelene kancane, ebhamuzeni lakhe. Uyazwela, ujulile esikhunjeni futhi ulimele ngokushesha kunabanye. Kubalulekile ukunaka ukuntenga kwakhe ngokomzwelo, hhayi ukwenza amahlaya amaningi ngezindleko zakhe ...

Ukuxilongwa: Khumbula ukuhlola i-IQ yakho ngokuhlolwa kwe-HPI (High Intellectual Potential).

U-5% wezingane ucatshangwa ukuthi une-intellectually precocious (EIP) - noma cishe umfundi ongu-1 noma 2 ekilasini ngalinye. Izingane ezinesiphiwo zigqama kwezinye izingane ngokukhululeka kwazo ekusebenzelaneni nabantu abadala, ukucabanga kwazo okuchichimayo kanye nokuzwela kwazo okukhulu. “Sathintana nodokotela wezengqondo wesikole ophakathi nendawo ngoba uVictor wayekhalela ‘lutho’, engabaza amakhono akhe futhi sasingasayazi ukuthi singamsiza kanjani,” kusho uSéverine. Uma unokungabaza, ungangabazi ukuthi ingane yakho ihlole i-IQ ukuze idwebe ukuhlolwa kwayo kwengqondo bese yenza ngokufanele!

Akulula kangako ukuphiwa!

Uma bene-IQ ephakeme kunabafunda nabo ekilasini, abanesiphiwo abafezeki kakhulu. “Lezi akuzona izingane ezikhubazekile kodwa ezenziwe buthaka ngenxa yamakhono azo,” kusho uMonique Binda, umongameli we-Anpeip Federation (National Association for Intellectually Precocious Children). Ngokocwaningo lwe-TNS Sofres olwenziwa ngo-2004, u-32% wabo uyafeyila esikoleni! Indida, leyo kuKaty Bogin, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, ingachazwa ngokucikeka: “Ebangeni lokuqala, uthisha ucela abafundi bakhe ukuba bafunde izinhlamvu zamagama, ngaphandle kokuthi umntwana onesiphiwo wayesevele eyisho lapho eneminyaka emibili ubudala. … Uhlala ephuma esinyathelweni, uyaphupha, futhi uzivumela ukuba athathelwe imicabango yakhe ”. UVictor ngokwakhe "uphazamisa amaqabane akhe ngokukhuluma kakhulu, njengoba eqeda umsebenzi wakhe ngaphambi kwawo wonke umuntu". Ukuziphatha, ezikhathini eziningi, kwenziwa iphutha njengokuxakeka.

Ingxoxo: U-Anne Widehem, unina wezingane ezimbili ezisakhula, “amadube amancane” akhe

Ingxoxo no-Anne Widehem, umqeqeshi kanye nomlobi wencwadi: "Angiyena imbongolo, ngiyidube", ed. Ikiwi.

Ingane enekhono eliphezulu, ingane enesiphiwo, ingane ngaphambi kwesikhathi… Wonke la magama ahlanganisa iqiniso elifanayo: elezingane ezinikezwe ukuhlakanipha okungavamile. U-Anne Widehem ukhetha ukuwabiza ngokuthi "amadube", ukugqamisa ukuhluka kwawo. Futhi njengazo zonke izingane, ngaphezu kwakho konke, zidinga ukuqondwa nokuthandwa. 

Kuvidiyo, umbhali, umama wamadube amabili amancane kanye nedube uqobo, usitshela ngohambo lwakhe.