Okuqukethwe
- Ingane ethanda unina: uhlobo olungavamile lwe-Oedipus
- Incazelo kanye ne-psychoanalysis ye-Electra complex: Isigaba esidingekayo sokwakhiwa kwayo
- Ubudlelwano be-edipal obuhlanekezelwe: ukuthuthukiswa kobunikazi bobulili
- Inkinga ye-Oedipus ibuyiselwe emuva: usabela kanjani njengomzali?
- Ungasabela kanjani ekuguqulweni kwe-Oedipus complex: imisebenzi embalwa, nayo!
- Ukuhlehla kwesakhiwo se-Oedipus kuphela iminyaka emingaki?
Ingane ethanda unina: uhlobo olungavamile lwe-Oedipus
U-Anna, oneminyaka engu-4, uthi kunina: “Lapho sengikhulile, ngizokushada!” “. Maphakathi ne-Oedipus, igama le-psychoanalytic elizuzwe kumlingiswa wasenganekwaneni owabulala uyise ukuze ashade nonina, umane nje ufuna ukuthatha indawo kayise. “Leli fomu eliphendukezelwe lapho ingane ithanda umzali wobulili obufanayo alaziwa kangako kodwa livamile,” kuphawula uStéphane Clerget, udokotela wengqondo yezingane *.
Incazelo kanye ne-psychoanalysis ye-Electra complex: Isigaba esidingekayo sokwakhiwa kwayo
I-Universal, i-Oedipus complex ibonakala cishe eminyakeni emi-3 futhi iyanqamuka lapho eneminyaka engu-6. "Isigaba esibalulekile, njengokufunda amakhono okunyakaza komzimba noma ulimi, sivumela ukwakhiwa kwenhlangano yemizwa yezibopho zakhe zothando zesikhathi esizayo," kuchaza uDkt Clerget. . Leli gama livela ezinganekwaneni zamaGreki kanye nomlingiswa ka-Oedipus, inkosi yaseThebes owabulala uyise futhi walala nonina. UFreud wabhapathizwa ngokubhekisela kule nganekwane ye-Antiquity lesi sifo esingokwengqondo sobuntwana. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-Oedipus complex ibizwa nangokuthi Electra complex uma kuyintombazane ekhulisayo.
Ubudlelwano be-edipal obuhlanekezelwe: ukuthuthukiswa kobunikazi bobulili
Ngakho-ke kungenxa yothando analo ngabazali bakhe lapho ingane iqalwa isifiso sobulili nothando. Lesi yisigaba esibalulekile ekukhuleni kwengane. Ngaleso sikhathi, ukuze simsize alawule izifiso nokukhungatheka kwakhe, sizokwazi ukuxoxa naye ngezithiyo ezimbili eziyisisekelo zobulili bomuntu: ingane ayishade nomuntu omdala, noma nelungu lomndeni wayo. .
Futhi kungani ebheke kimi esikhundleni sikayise? Ukutholakala, amahlaya noma umoya osebenzayo womzali othintekayo ungathonya. Ukuhlonza nakho: intombazanyana yethu ifuna ukwenza njengobaba wayo (okuhlanganisa nokujabulisa izinhliziyo zethu) futhi lapho isaqhubeka idlala ngokulingisa abantu abadala abathandanayo!
Inkinga ye-Oedipus ibuyiselwe emuva: usabela kanjani njengomzali?
Ingabe uzama ukusiqabula emlonyeni? Sibhekene ne-Inverted Oedipus complex, sibeka imingcele ecacile futhi simchazela ukuthi lokhu kuqabula kugcinelwe imibhangqwana esothandweni. Igoli : "ukudangala” icala ! Ngokuqondene nobaba, "akumele amope, indodakazi yakhe ayimthandi kancane", kuqinisekisa uDkt. Clerget. Ingabe ukhetha uma kungumama ofunda indaba? Mhlawumbe siyinakekela kangcono kunaye ... Njengoba nobaba ecula kangcono iculo. Kukuye ukuthola izikhathi zokugcina isibopho. Futhi-ke, akukho lutho olusivimbelayo ukuthi: “Lapho, ngubaba noma akukho!” “. Ngisho nokufunda indaba ndawonye, echaza, uma ephika, ukuthi sifuna ukuba nomyeni wethu eduze kwethu ... bese kancane kancane simvumela ukuthi athathe izintambo.
Ungasabela kanjani ekuguqulweni kwe-Oedipus complex: imisebenzi embalwa, nayo!
Ukuzijwayeza imisebenzi njengombhangqwana nokuba nezinye izithakazelo nakho kusiza ingane ukuba iqonde ukuthi akwanele ukondla unina, nokushiya le nsimu yomama oedipal.
Ukuhlehla kwesakhiwo se-Oedipus kuphela iminyaka emingaki?
Njengenkimbinkimbi ye-Oedipus noma i-Electra lambda complex, inkimbinkimbi ehlanekezelwe ezinganeni ngokuvamile izophela phakathi neminyaka eyi-6. Kungale minyaka lapho ingane ibona ukuthi ukushada noyise noma unina akwenzeki.
* UStéphane Clerget ungumbhali wezincwadi ezimbalwa ezihlanganisa “Izingane zethu nazo zinabo ubulili, uba kanjani intombazane noma umfana? ? ” (Umhl. Robert Laffont).