Umlingisi usimemele kwakhe futhi wasitshela ukuthi uyikhulisa kanjani indodana eneminyaka eyi-14 ngemuva kwesahlukaniso.
Mashi 31 2014
U-Igor Vernik nendodana yakhe uGrisha
“Ngeke ngifane nobaba abamemeza nxazonke bethi banengane eyisimanga. Ngizomane ngithi: Nginendodana ekhaliphile (uGrigory uneminyaka engu-14 ubudala, lena yindodana yomlingisi ovela emshadweni wakhe noMaria. UVernik wamhlukanisa ngo-2009. weza ukumvakashela. “Kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi ngimkhonzile ngamehlo. Ngikulandela eduze okwenzekayo empilweni kaGrisha.
Mina nendodana yami singabangane abahle impela. Sithathe isinqumo sokuzijabulisa naye: ngokubambisana sabamba iphrojekthi ye-School of Music esiteshini se-U (umbukiso ongokoqobo lapho izingane ezisukela eminyakeni eyi-8 kuya kwengu-14 ubudala zancintisana ezinhlotsheni ezahlukahlukene zomculo. - I-Approx. “Ama-Antena”). Indodana yakhe, lokhu kungukuqala kwakhe njengomethuli wezinhlelo. Kodwa yeka indlela abamba ngayo! Umlingiswa uzwakala. Vele, akusikho konke okwenziwe kahle. UGrisha unezinto eziphilayo, kepha esiteji waziphatha evinjelwe ekuqaleni. Kwakukhona nezinkinga ngesichazamazwi: kwakubonakala kuye ukuthi uwaphimisa kahle amagama, kepha ngamlungisa.
Nami bekufanele ngisebenze nalokhu ngasikhathi sinye. Ngenkathi ngingena eshashalazini, ngangingakwazi ukukhuluma ngijabule - umlomo wami wawomile. Ngizamile ukuhlafuna ushungamu futhi ngiphatha amanzi kuyo yonke indawo, kodwa lutho usizo. Ngabhekana nenjabulo hhayi ngemuva konyaka, hhayi eminyakeni emibili kamuva, kepha ngemuva kwesikhathi, lapho ngabona ukuthi into esemqoka ukungacabangi ngenjabulo.
Futhi, ngibheka uGrisha, ngacabanga ubukhulu besibopho sakhe: izibukeli, amajaji, amakhamera, amalambu, futhi akekho noyedwa owayengazitika. Ngicabanga ngobuqotho ukuthi lokhu kuhlolwa kwepeni kwakuyisifundo esihle kuGrisha. Udinga ukujwayela indawo yesehlakalo, ukuqonde. Futhi okuwusizo futhi, kuphrojekthi uGrisha wabona abafana abawuthandayo umsebenzi wabo, futhi wabona ukuthi kuhle kangakanani ukwenza lokho okuthandayo. "
I-Grisha:
“Ngezinye izikhathi ubaba ubuza ukuthi ngifuna ukuba yini lapho sengikhulile. Futhi angazi ukuthi ngithini okwamanje. Vele ngingathanda ukulandela ezinyathelweni zakhe, futhi ngiyithandile indima yomethuli we-TV. Kungaba isimanga ukucabanga ngomsebenzi wobuthisha noma udokotela uma ukhuliswe endaweni enjalo kusukela ebuntwaneni: umkhulu ungumqondisi omkhulu wezokusakaza okubhaliwe futhi okumangazayo emsakazweni, manje onguthisha eMoscow Art Theatre School , umalume ungumethuli we-TV futhi ungumhleli oyinhloko wephephabhuku, omunye umalume uthweswe iziqu eSikoleni - isitudiyo seMoscow Art Theatre, ubaba - umlingisi weMoscow Art Theatre neCinema “.
“Manje uGrisha wenza izifundo zomculo. Kepha ubudlelwano bakhe naye abukabi luthando olushisayo. Kuhle okungenani ukuthi manje usevele udlala upiyano ngenjabulo, hhayi ngaphansi kwenduku. Kodwa bekunezikhathi lapho indodana ebisekhishini ishaye ikhanda layo ekhabethe ngala mazwi: “Ngiyawuzonda lo mculo!” Futhi kwehla isichotho ezihlathini zakhe. Bengingazi nokuthi izinyembezi zingaba nkulu kangaka. Inhliziyo yami yayiphuka ngobuhlungu. Kepha ngakuqonda ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuvuma: uma ngivuma, kungaba ukwehlulwa kwakhe, hhayi okwami. Futhi noma kunjalo uGrisha wayezonquma ukuthi isihawu singafinyelela okuthile empilweni. Isibonelo, umama, eseyingane, wangenza ngabeka umentshisi phansi izikhathi eziyishumi kumdlalo ngamunye womculo ongagcwaliswanga. Kepha manje ngiyabonga kubazali bami ngeqiniso lokuthi kunomculo empilweni yami, wokuthi ngibhala izingoma futhi ngiyacula.
Muva nje nginike uGrisha isigingci esinala mazwi: “Akuhlali njalo lapho uzithola uwedwa khona nentombazane, kuzoba nepiyano esesandleni, kodwa isiginci kungenzeka.” Ukhombise ukuleleka okumbalwa, indodana yavele yazazi kahle futhi yabheka kabusha izingoma ezenziwa ngamabhendi azithandayo. Manje usekwazi nokudlala nabo. Vele, kulezi zinsuku isigingci asisenamthelela ofanayo nowakudala. Ungavula noma iyiphi igajethi bese udlala noma imuphi umculo. Ake sibone ukuthi uGrisha ufuna ukudlala isigingci.
Kodwa indodana iyakuthanda ukudansa ngokungathi sína. Ibreakdancing iba phezulu. Kusukela idansa, indodana isishintshe ukubukeka. Ngaphambi kwalokho, wayenesidudla kakhulu, akucaci ukuthi ngobani. Ngiseyingane, abantu abadala babengibuka bengizwela, babehlala bezama ukungiphakela ngokuthile. Futhi uGrisha welula lapho eya emidansweni, wayenemisipha kanye ne-abs. Ngeshwa, manje ushiye phansi amakilasi ajwayelekile. Okokuqala, kwavela izifundo eziningi ezintsha, ezinzima kuGrisha esikoleni, futhi okwesibili, wakwazi ukudansa ngokuphelele ngekhefu futhi manje ufuna ukushintsha indlela - aye, athi, kwihip-hop. Siyaxoxa ngalokhu. "
“UGrisha ufunda esikoleni esibanzi. Unobunzima nge-physics, chemistry, algebra, geometry. Futhi lapha angisiye umsizi wakhe. Kunobaba okuthi, ngesikhathi izingane ziletha amamaki amabi, bakhiphe idiploma ehlanzekile ngo-A bese bethi: “Bheka ufunde!” Anginalutho engingakhala ngalo: esikoleni nganginezinkinga ezifanayo ncamashi nendodana yami eyayinazo nesayensi ngqo. Kepha ngithi kuGrisha: “Kufanele wazi ikharikhulamu yesikole futhi ufunde ezingeni elifanayo nabanye abafundi. Uma uqonda ukuthi uzokwenzani empilweni, izinkinga eziningi ziyonyamalala. ”
“Kwenzekile ukuthi uGrisha ungumhambuma lapha - uhlala nami, bese uhlala nonina. Vele, impilo yezindlu ezimbili ayilula, kepha indodana iyijwayele. Into esemqoka ukuthi uGrisha uzizwa: bobabili ubaba nomama bayamthanda, akayedwa.
Ngesinye isikhathi uthisha wekilasi wangibiza wathi: “Bheka ukuthi uGrisha uziphatha kanjani. Uma kwenzeka okuthile ekilasini, kusho ukuthi ungumgqugquzeli nakanjani. ”Ngithi,“ Angikukholwa nje, ”futhi okwamanje ngivele ngavela. Ngikhumbula indlela ubaba ami ngayo phambi kukathisha, bese ethi kuye: “Uma kwenzeka okuthile ekilasini, u-Igor unecala.” Futhi ubaba uyaphendula, “Angikholwa.”
Futhi uma uthisha wekilasi engibiza ukuba sixoxe ngezingubo zikaGrisha.
“Konke kuqala ngokubukeka,” kusho yena. - Akukho thayi, ihembe elingafakwanga, futhi, emva kwakho konke, bheka amateki akhe, umfundi angahamba ngezicathulo ezinjalo? “Uqinisile impela,” ngiphendula ngifihle imilenze yami ngaphansi kwetafula, ngoba ngize engxoxweni ngalamateki afanayo ncamashi. Naphezu kokwehluka kweminyaka, mina nendodana yami sigqoka ngendlela efanayo. Bese kuthi lapho mina noGrisha singena emotweni bese sihamba, ngisamtshela ukuthi: “Ndodana, uyazi, amateki, empeleni, ayindaba yokunambitheka nesitayela. Kepha ukugxila yilokho okufanele uhlakulele kuwe. ”Ngakho-ke sahleka saxoxa ngokujulile. Futhi alukho udonga phakathi kwethu. "