I-Psychology

Kukangaki sizinikeza igama - ukuqala impilo entsha, ukuyeka ukubhema, ukunciphisa umzimba, ukuthola umsebenzi omusha. Kodwa isikhathi siyahamba futhi akukho okushintshile. Kungenzeka yini ukufunda ukugcina isithembiso futhi kuvuse izinguquko ekuphileni kwakho?

“Njalo ehlobo ngiyazithembisa ukuthi ngizosebenza kancane,” kusho u-Anton, 34, umphathi wohlelo. “Kodwa njalo ngo-Okthoba, kuqala igagasi lomsebenzi, engingeke ngikwazi ukukugwema. Umbuzo uthi kungani ngizinika izwi engingeke ngaligcina vele? Olunye uhlobo olungenangqondo… «

Lutho neze! Okokuqala, isifiso sokushintsha siyazazi. “Ngokombono wamasiko, wokuphila nomqondo, sihlala sibanjwe ukomela ushintsho,” kuchaza isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uPascal Neveu. "Ifa lethu lofuzo lidinga ukuthi sihlale sizivumelanisa nezimo, ngakho-ke sishintshe." Sizibumba kabusha ngokwendawo ezungezile. Ngakho-ke, akukho lutho olungokwemvelo ngaphezu kokuthathwa umqondo wentuthuko. Kodwa kungani le nto yokuzilibazisa icishe ihlale idlula ngokushesha?

Ukuze ufeze uhlelo lwakho, isinqumo sakho kufanele sikujabulise.

Isiko liyangithinta. Njengomthetho, izinhloso zethu ezinhle zinikezelwe kwezinye izinsuku ezingokomfanekiso. Senza izinqumo “ngaphambi kwamaholide, ekuqaleni konyaka omusha wesikole noma ngo-January,” kusho uPascal Neve. “Lena yimikhuba esimema ngokwesiko ukuthi sisuke kwesinye isifunda siye kwesinye; siyacelwa ukuthi sivule ikhasi ukuze sibe ngcono.” Lokhu kusho ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokubheka futhi uguqule lokho okungaphumeleli!

Ngijaha okufanelekile. Lokho kungaba inguqulo engcono kakhulu yakho! Sonke sizakhele isithombe esihle ngathi, kukhumbula isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Isabelle Filliozat. "Futhi isithembiso sethu esimnandi, esiqotho siwumzamo wokulungisa isithombe sethu, ukwenza iqiniso lihambisane nokufanele."

Igebe phakathi kwalowo esifisa ukuba yikho kanye nesiyikho lisenza sidabuke. Futhi sithemba ukuthi sizokwehlisa, ngaleyo ndlela siqinise ukuzethemba nokuzethemba. “Okwamanje, ngikholelwa ukuthi isinqumo esithathwe sizokwanela ukulungisa engikushiyile nokushiyeka kwami,” kuvuma u-Anton.

Ithemba lisisiza ukuba siphinde sibe qotho. Okungenani isikhashana.

Zibekele imigomo emincane: ukuyifinyelela kuzoqinisa ukuzethemba kwakho

Ngilwela ukulawula. “Sinqotshwa inkohliso yokulawula,” kuqhubeka u-Isabelle Fiyoza. Sikholelwa ukuthi siphinde sathola inkululeko yokuzikhethela, amandla phezu kwethu ngisho namandla. Lokhu kusinika umuzwa wokulondeka. Kodwa lokho kuyiphupho." Okuthile okufana nephupho lengane ezibona inamandla onke ngaphambi kokufaka isimiso esingokoqobo.

Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi ku-Anton: “Ngeke ngikwazi, futhi ngihlehlisa izinhlelo zami zonyaka ozayo!” Sihlale sintula okuthile, kungaba ukubekezela, noma ukholo emandleni ethu ... “Umphakathi wethu ulahlekelwe umqondo wokukhuthazela,” kuphawula uPascal Neve. “Sililahlile ithemba ngobunzima obuncane endleleni eya emsebenzini onzima esizibekele wona.”

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